ʻO nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi mea ʻē aʻe: ʻo ia ke ʻano o ke aloha ʻana me kahi hoa?

He aha ke ʻano o nā moʻopuna a mākou e kamaʻilio nei? ʻO ka pinepine e pili ana i nā hiʻohiʻona i kūkulu ʻia i ka noʻonoʻo, pono e hoʻoulu i ka moekolohe. Eia nō naʻe, no ka psychoanalysis, ʻaʻole i iho mai nā moeʻuhane i kēia. Kū aʻe lākou ma muli o ka hana a ko mākou ʻike ʻole a hōʻike i ko mākou makemake.

“He aha ke ʻano o nā moemoeā a mākou e kamaʻilio nei? ʻO ka pinepine e pili ana i nā hiʻohiʻona i kūkulu ʻia i ka noʻonoʻo, pono e hoʻoulu i ka moekolohe. Eia nō naʻe, no ka psychoanalysis, ʻaʻole i iho mai nā moeʻuhane i kēia. Kū aʻe lākou ma muli o ka hana a ko mākou ʻike ʻole a hōʻike i ko mākou makemake. A laila, inā ʻae mākou iā mākou iho e hana pēlā, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻololi i nā hiʻohiʻona ʻike.

Akā ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia ka "ʻike" i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo! E laʻana, e lawe i ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo maʻamau o kahi malihini e paheʻe ana i kahi moe o ka wahine e moe me ia. He aha ka manaʻo? He makemake koʻu, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu, akā aia kekahi. Hōʻike mai ʻo ia i koʻu makemake iaʻu, no laila ʻaʻole oʻu kuleana. Ma ke ola maoli, ʻaʻole ʻimi kēia wahine i kēlā ʻano kūlana, ʻo ka hiʻohiʻona noʻonoʻo e hoʻopau wale i kona hewa i hoʻokumu ʻia e ka makemake i ka wahine. ʻO ka moemoeā ma mua o ka moekolohe. No laila, ʻaʻole lākou e loli, ʻoiai inā hoʻololi kā mākou mau hoa.

No makou wale no ko makou manao. No hea mai ka hewa? Aia kona kumu i loko o ke aloha-fusion a mākou i manaʻo ai i ka wā kamaliʻi no ko mākou makuahine: ʻo ia, e like me kā mākou, ʻoi aku ka ʻike ma mua o kā mākou hana i ka mea e hana nei iā mākou. Hoʻokaʻawale liʻiliʻi mākou mai ia mea, ua loaʻa iā mākou ko mākou mau manaʻo huna. Nani ka leʻaleʻa i ka pale ʻana i ka mea mana loa, i ko mākou manaʻo, e ka makuahine! ʻO ka hope, hiki iā mākou ke lilo iā mākou iho a ʻae i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokō i kā mākou pono āpau. Akā, i ka hiki ʻana mai o kēia mamao, hoʻomaka mākou e hopohopo ua pau ko mākou aloha, ʻaʻole e pau ka mālama a mākou i hilinaʻi ai. ʻO ia ke kumu e makaʻu ai mākou e kumakaia i kahi mea aloha ke ʻike mākou i kekahi i loko o kā mākou mau moemoeā. ʻElua mau pou i loko o kahi pilina aloha: ka makemake e lilo iā ʻoe iho a me ka makemake i ke aloha-fusion i mea e hoʻokō pono ai i kāu mau pono.

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