ʻO ke akua ia! Ua haʻi mai kahi kaikamahine 4 makahiki iaʻu i nehinei ma ke kūkākūkā ʻana: " ʻIke ʻoe, e koʻu makuakāne, hiki iā ia ke piʻi i ka hale kiaʻi ʻo Montparnasse mai waho “. Mai ka 0 a hiki i ka 3 makahiki, he mau kiʻi wale nō ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi o nā wahine a puni ia (i loko o ka nursery, i ka honua lapaʻau) a he mea hilahila kēlā. ʻO ka manawa pinepine ʻo ke kāne wale nō i kona ola ʻo kona makuakāne, ʻokoʻa ʻo ia.
A ʻo ka makuahine i kēia mau mea a pau?
Komo maoli ʻo ia i ka hana ʻana i ka pilina makua kāne a me ke kaikamahine no ka mea ma ka pilina me kekahi o nā mākua, ua kākau ʻia ka pilina me kekahi. ʻO ka makuahine, ka makua kāne a me ke keiki: ʻo ia ka trio hoʻokumu.
He kuleana ko ka makua kāne hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ka makuahine a me kāna keiki. ʻO ka makuahine, pono ʻo ia e ʻae iā ia e mālama iā ia, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia iā ia. Pono ʻo ia e hilinaʻi iā ia no ka mea he mea nui ka manawa o ka makua kāne a me ke kaikamahine wale nō.
He aha ka mea e hana ai i nā ʻohana makua hoʻokahi?
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa he mau makuahine hoʻokahi lākou. I kēia hihia, e mau ana ka hui makuahine a me ke kaikamahine. Hiki i ke keiki liʻiliʻi ke lilo i mea pale ke lawe ʻo ia i kahi o kona makuakāne a hilinaʻi mau i kona makuahine. Hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā pilikia i kona hilinaʻi a me kona manaʻo ponoʻī.
He mea nui e “hoʻihoʻi mai i ka makua kāne ma ka ʻōlelo” a e ʻae i ke keiki e loaʻa i “ka makua kāne o ka puʻuwai”: ʻanakala, makua kāne, hoa hou o ka makuahine… Pono ke keiki i ka makua kāne a me ka makuahine, ʻaʻohe o lāua ka hana like a ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hoʻopaʻi no ka nele o kekahi.
Hiki iā mākou ke wehewehe i ʻekolu mau ʻōlelo ke kuleana o ka makua kāne mai 0 a 3 makahiki? Kōkua ia e hoʻokaʻawale i ke keiki mai kona makuahine. Hāʻawi a wehe i ke keiki i ke ola kaiaulu. 'Ōleloʻo ia i ka pāpāʻana i ka moekolohe. |