ʻO ka pilina makua kāne / kaikamahine: ma hea e huki ai i ka laina?

Ma ka ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo a ma kāna hana pū kekahi. E hele ana ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi i kahi manawa, e moeʻuhane ana e lanakila i kona makuakāne, e loaʻa iā ia iā ia iho, makemake ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu i kona makuahine i lilo i mea hoʻokūkū: ʻo ia ka Oedipus.

A laila e hoʻokau ka makua kāne i ka pāpā nui ma ka pane ʻana i kāna kaikamahine nāna e haʻi iā ia: "E mare wau iā ʻoe i koʻu wā e ulu ai", "ʻO wau kou makuakāne a aloha wau iā ʻoe akā ʻo wau ke kāne a ka makuahine a ke nui ʻoe e mare ʻoe. kekahi o kou mau makahiki ".

Me nā hihia pedophilia a pau, pili nā mākua i nā nīnau hou aʻe e pili ana i ka ʻōlohelohe a me ke ʻano o ka mālama ʻana i ke kino o kā lākou keiki, akā ʻaʻole ia he mea ʻino.

Inā ʻoluʻolu ʻole ka makua kāne, pono ʻo ia e nīnau i kahi loea nāna e wehewehe i ke ʻano kūlohelohe loa e hana ai me kāna kaikamahine (a i ʻole ke keiki kāne). I kēia manawa, pono ʻoe e ʻike no ke kūkulu ʻana i ke kino o kāu keiki, he mea nui ia e ʻapo iā ia, e hoʻomaloʻo iā ia a e ʻōlelo i nā ʻōlelo ʻoluʻolu iā ia.

He kuleana ko ka makua kāne i ka ulu ʻana o kona ʻano wahine?

He mea nui e ʻike ka makua kāne i ke ʻano wahine o kāna kaikamahine. No ka laʻana, pono ʻo ia e haʻi iā ia he nani ʻo ia, ʻo ia a me kēlā ʻaʻahu i kūpono iā ia, hāʻawi iā ia i makana wahine (ke apo, pēpē…) no kona lā hānau…

Inā ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia ʻo ia e kona makuakāne he kaikamahine a inā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manaʻo he wahine ʻo ia, ʻoiaʻiʻo e hōʻike ʻo ia i nā pilikia i kona ulu ʻana a i ʻole i kona komo ʻana i kāna moe kolohe.

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