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Nā hiʻohiʻona a me nā pilikia o ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki hānai
ʻO ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki hānai kahi hana paʻakikī a kuleana hoʻi. Pono ia i ka hoʻomākaukau kiʻekiʻe, ka hoʻomalu a me ka hoʻolaʻa ʻana mai nā mākua. Inā hana pololei ʻia nā mea āpau, e pau koke nā ʻike āpau i ke kua, e holoi ʻia ka laina ma waena o nā mākua a me ke keiki a e lilo ka pēpē i mea aloha nui ʻia ma ka honua no kona mau mākua.
Nā hiʻohiʻona o ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki hānai
I nā kula e hānai ʻia ai nā keiki, aia kahi hana koʻikoʻi o kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAʻole pono e hoʻololi a hoʻololi. E nīnau i ka poʻe mālama i ka mea makemake ʻole ka pēpē e pili ana i ka hana maʻamau. Inā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hiamoe wawe, e hiamoe ʻo ia ma ka home ma hope iki. Eia kekahi, mai wikiwiki e hāpai i kāu keiki me nā mea pāʻani. Lawe i nā mea pāʻani punahele a kāu keiki mai ka hale makua ʻole e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia.
ʻO ka hānai keiki hānai kahi hana paʻakikī akā leʻaleʻa
No ka nui o kou makemake e hōʻoluʻolu i kāu pēpē, i ka wā mua, mai hoʻokahuli iā ia me nā hiʻona. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e lawe iā ia i ka zoo, circus, cafe i kēia manawa a ʻike i kona ʻohana āpau. Hoʻohui iki i nā manaʻo. Ma ka ʻokoʻa, pono nā keiki hānai āpau e noho me kona mau mākua i ka manawa hiki.
E ʻike mua i ka mea a ke keiki i hana ai a makemake ʻole i ka ʻai. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hānai ikaika iā ia me nā huaʻai, nā iʻa, nā mea kanu, ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai lākou. ʻO ka hapa nui, e mālama ka ʻōpala i nā huahana ʻike ʻole me ka akahele. Hāʻawi i ke keiki i kāna mea i ʻike ai a aloha ai, akā, mai hānai iā ia me kāna mau meaʻai punahele i ʻole e loaʻa ka diathesis. Maikaʻi nā mea a pau i ka haʻahaʻa.
Hewa i ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki hānai
Eia nā hewa maʻamau i hana ʻia e nā mākua hānai:
- Manaʻo lākou i ka mahalo pau ʻole no ka lawe ʻana i ke keiki mai ka hale makua.
- Manaʻo lākou e ʻapo piha ke keiki i ka pono o nā mākua a me ko lākou nānā i ke ola.
- Mālama lākou i ke keiki ma ke ʻano he hemahema i hiki ke "hōʻano hou ʻia".
- Hoʻololi lākou i ka hānai ʻana o ka pēpē i nā kumu a i ʻole nā mea aʻo i nā kindergartens.
- Hoʻohana lākou i ke keiki ma ke ʻano he "panakō" kahi a lākou e kau ai i ke aloha a me ka mālama, wale nō i mea e loaʻa ai kahi mea i ka hoʻihoʻi.
Hōʻalo i kēia mau kuhihewa i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa me kāu pēpē i ka hiki wawe.
ʻO nā pilikia o ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki hānai, ʻoiai pehea ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka manawa o kona hōʻea ʻana i ka hale. ʻAʻohe mea pale i nā hewa a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hilinaʻi wale iā ʻoe iho i kēia kūlana. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua hewa kekahi mea, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka psychologist ʻoihana.