ka manawa frigidity He huaʻōlelo e pili ana, ma ka ʻōlelo maʻamau, i ka hele ʻole a i ʻole ka emi ʻana o ka leʻaleʻa i ka wā moe kāne a i ʻole i kekahi manawa ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole o ka moekolohe.

I kēia pōʻaiapili, hiki ke pili ka frigidity i:

• ʻaʻohe orgasm, a i ʻole anorgasmia
• ka nele o ka makemake moe kolohe (ke olelo nei makou maʻi hoʻopaʻapaʻa moe kolohe), anaphrodisia a i ʻole ka emi ʻana o ka libido.

Aia kekahi mau "degere" a me nā hōʻike like ʻole o ka frigidity, mai ka pau ʻole o nā manaʻo i ka wā o ka moekolohe, i ka ʻike kūʻē ʻana ma waena o ka ikaika o ka makemake a me ka ʻilihune o nā ʻano kino, me ka leʻaleʻa. "Maʻamau" akā ʻaʻole alakaʻi i ka orgasm¹.

ka manawa frigidity hoʻohana maʻamau e wehewehe i kahi maʻi wahine, ʻoiai ʻo ka nele o ka leʻaleʻa a i ʻole ka makemake e pili pū kekahi i nā kāne. ʻAʻole hoʻohana hou ʻia e nā kauka, no kona ʻano pejorative a me ka nele o ka wehewehe kikoʻī.

No laila e hoʻolaʻa ʻia kēia pepa no kaanorgasmia i nā wahine, ka nele o ka makemake e mālama ʻia i ka libido haʻahaʻa.

Aia kekahi anorgasmia i nā kāne, akā ʻoi aku ka kakaikahi².

Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokaʻawale mua:

• anorgasmia iniiaiie : ʻaʻole loa i loaʻa i ka wahine ka hoʻokalakupua.
• anorgasmia tuarua a i ʻole loaʻa: ua loaʻa mua ka wahine i ka orgasms, akā ʻaʻole hou.

Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokaʻawale :

• Ka huina anorgasmia: ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ka wahine ka orgasm ma ka masturbation, ʻaʻole hoʻi i loko o kahi pilina, ʻaʻohe orgasm i hoʻoulu ʻia e ka clitoral a i ʻole ka vaginal stimulation.
• male anorgasmia kahi e hiki ai i ka wahine ke hoʻokō i ka orgasms iā ia iho, akā ʻaʻole i mua o kāna hoa.
• coital anorgasmia: ʻaʻole loaʻa i ka wahine kahi ʻano hoʻokalakupua i ka wā o ka neʻe ʻana o ka penis i hope a i waho o ka ʻōpū, akā hiki iā ia ke loaʻa i ka orgasms ma o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka clitoral wale nō a i ʻole me kāna hoa.

ʻO ka mea hope loa, hiki i ka anorgasmia ke ʻōnaehana a i ʻole i loaʻa i kekahi mau kūlana: ke kamaʻilio nei mākou no ka anorgasmia situational.

ʻO wai ka mea i hoʻopili ʻia?

Ua ʻike ʻia ka orgasm clitoral ma mua o 90% o nā wahine, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ia he systematic i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ko lākou ola moe kolohe a koi i kahi manawa o ka ʻike no nā wahine ʻaʻole i hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka masturbation ma mua o ko lākou pilina mua. moe kolohe.

ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka orgasm vagina, ʻoiai ʻo kahi hapakolu wale nō o nā wahine i ʻike ia. Hoʻomaka ʻia e ka neʻe ʻana i hope a i waho o ka penis. ʻO kekahi hapakolu o nā wahine e loaʻa i kahi mea i kapa ʻia he orgasm vaginal wale nō inā hoʻoulu ʻia ko lākou clitoris i ka manawa like. A ʻaʻole ʻike ka hapakolu o nā wahine i ka orgasm vaginal.

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻo ke kino o ka wahine orgasm ka clitoris, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka vagina.

Ua ʻike mākou ma ka awelika, loaʻa i nā wahine ka orgasm hoʻokahi i ʻelua i ka wā moe me ka ʻike he "polyorgasmic" kekahi (ma kahi o 10% o nā wahine) a hiki ke kaulahao i kekahi mau orgasms, aʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe he kakaikahi. , me ka manaʻo ʻole ʻole. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole like ka leʻaleʻa me ka orgasm.

Hiki i nā maʻi orgasm ke hoʻopilikia i ka hapahā o nā wahine⁴, akā he kakaikahi nā noiʻi epidemiological nui e kākau ana i ke kūlana.

ʻO kekahi o lākou, ʻo ka PRESIDE study, i alakaʻi ʻia e ka nīnau nīnau ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa me nā wahine ʻoi aku ma mua o 30, ua manaʻo ʻia ka prevalence o nā maʻi orgasm ma kahi o 000%.⁵.

ʻOi aku ka nui o ka anorgasmia lua ma mua o ka anorgasmia mua, e pili ana i ka 5 a 10% o nā wahine.⁶.

ʻO ka maʻamau, pili nā maʻi pili i ka 40% o nā wahine. Hoʻopili lākou i ka lubrication vaginal maikaʻi ʻole, ka ʻeha a me ka ʻeha i ka wā o ka moekolohe, hoʻemi ʻia ka makemake a me ka paʻakikī e hiki i ka orgasm.⁷.

Nā kumu

He paʻakikī nā hana physiological a me psychological e hoʻoulu ai i ka orgasm a mamao loa mai ka hoʻomaopopo piha ʻana.

No laila paʻakikī nā kumu o ka anorgasmia. ʻO ka hiki i ka wahine ke hiki i ka orgasm ma muli o kona mau makahiki, kona pae hoʻonaʻauao, kāna hoʻomana, kona ʻano a me kona kūlana pili.⁸.

I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ke ola moe kolohe, he mea maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi orgasm, ka hana moe kolohe e koi ana i kahi manawa o ke aʻo ʻana a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i kekahi manawa lōʻihi.

Hiki i kekahi mau mea ke komo i ka pāʻani a hoʻololi i kēia mana, ʻo ia hoʻi⁹ :

• ʻO ka ʻike i loaʻa i ka wahine i kona kino ponoʻī,
• ʻO ka ʻike a me ka mākaukau o ka hoa pili,
• He moʻolelo o ka hōʻeha moe kolohe (rape, incest, etc.)
• Nā maʻi kaumaha a hopohopo paha
• Hoʻohana lāʻau a waiʻona paha
• ʻO ka lawe ʻana i kekahi mau lāʻau lapaʻau (me nā antidepressants a i ʻole antipsychotics hiki ke hoʻopaneʻe i ka orgasm)
• Nā manaʻo moʻomeheu a hoʻomana paha e pili ana i ka moekolohe (hewa, "palapala", etc.).
• Nā pilikia paʻakikī
• ʻO kahi maʻi kumu (ʻeha ʻāʻī, ka maʻi sclerosis, etc.)
• ʻO kekahi mau manawa o ke ola, i hui pū ʻia me nā haunaele hormonal, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hāpai keiki a me ka menopause.

Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka hāpai ʻana, ʻoi aku hoʻi i ka lua o ka trimester, hiki nō hoʻi ke lilo i mea maikaʻi loa i ka moekolohe wahine a me ka orgasm. ʻO kēia manawa i kapa ʻia ʻo "ka honeymoon of pregnancy" a ua ʻike ʻia ua ʻike kekahi mau wahine i kā lākou orgasm mua i ka wā hāpai, pinepine i ka lua o ka trimester.

Ka papa a me nā pilikia kūpono

ʻAʻole ʻo Anorgasmia kahi maʻi iā ia iho. He maʻi hana ia e lilo wale i pilikia inā he kumu ia o ka hilahila, ka pilikia a i ʻole ka pilikia no ka mea e hoʻopiʻi nei no ia mea a no kāna hoa.

Hiki i nā wāhine ke hoʻopiʻi i ka anorgasmia ke hoʻomohala i ke kaumaha a me ka hopohopo. ʻO ia ke kumu he mea nui e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ia mea, ʻoiai ke loaʻa nei nā hopena.