Pehea e wehewehe ai i ka hemo ʻana i kahi keiki?

E wehewehe iā lākou i ka hemo ʻana

ʻOiai ʻo ka hemo ʻana ma mua o nā moʻolelo o nā mākua, ʻike nā keiki iā lākou iho, ʻoiai lākou, hopohopo. Ke alo nei kekahi me ka fait accompli, ʻoi aku ka hopohopo ʻaʻole lākou i hoʻomaopopo. ʻAʻole pakele nā ​​​​poʻe ʻē aʻe i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa a hahai i ka ulu ʻana o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ke ʻano o ka haunaele ...

He mea paʻakikī ke kūlana no kēlā me kēia kanaka akā, i loko o kēia hubbub āpau, pono nā keiki e aloha i ko lākou makuakāne e like me ko lākou makuahine, a no laila e hoʻopakele ʻia e like me ka hiki mai nā hakakā male a lawe ʻia i ka hana ...

I kēlā me kēia makahiki ma Farani, kokoke 110 male male kāne, me 70 me nā keiki liʻiliʻi…

Nā hana, nā pane…

Hoʻololi kēlā me kēia keiki i ka hemo ʻana ma ko lākou ʻano ponoʻī - me ka ʻike a ʻike ʻole paha - e hōʻike i ko lākou hopohopo a lohe ʻia. Haʻalele kekahi iā lākou iho, ʻaʻole nīnau nīnau no ka makaʻu o hōʻeha i ko lākou mau mākua. Mālama lākou i ko lākou hopohopo a me ka makaʻu iā lākou iho. ʻO ka poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻokoʻa, hoʻopuka i ko lākou pilikia ma o ka hoʻomaha ʻole a me ka huhū ... a i ʻole makemake e pāʻani i ka "vigilante" e pale aku i ka mea a lākou i manaʻo ai he nāwaliwali loa… kūlana. A pilikia lākou mai ia mea! ʻIke loa, ʻaʻole lākou makemake e hemo ko lākou mau mākua.

He hana nui ia i ko lākou mau poʻo…

"No ke aha e kaʻawale ai ʻo Māmā lāua ʻo Papa?" ʻO ka nīnau (akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō…) e hoʻopiʻi i ka noʻonoʻo o nā keiki! ʻOiai ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka haʻi ʻana, maikaʻi e wehewehe iā lākou he paʻakikī pinepine nā moʻolelo aloha a ʻaʻole like nā mea e like me kāu i hoʻolālā ai. Hiki ke nalo ke aloha o kahi kāne, hiki i ka Pāpā a i ʻole ʻo Māmā ke aloha i kekahi kanaka… loaʻa i nā mākua kā lākou mau moʻolelo a me kā lākou mau mea huna liʻiliʻi.  

He mea nui e hoʻomākaukau i nā keiki (ʻoiai inā he liʻiliʻi lākou) no kēia kaʻawale a kamaʻilio pū me lākou e pili ana i nā loli e hiki mai ana. Akā me ka mālie mau, a me nā ʻōlelo maʻalahi i maopopo iā lākou ke kūlana. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ko lākou hopohopo e hoʻopau, akā pono lākou e hoʻomaopopo i hoʻokahi mea: ʻaʻole lākou ke kuleana no ka mea e hiki mai ana. 

Ke hele hewa nā mea ma ke kula…

Hōʻike kāna puke puke i kēia, ʻaʻole hiki i kāu keiki ke hele i ke kula a ʻaʻole i laila kona ʻiʻo i ka hana. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻohe pono e ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī. Hāʻawi iā ia i manawa e "ʻeli" i ka hanana. Hiki paha iā ia ke kaʻawale mai kona mau hoa i paʻakikī iā ia ke kamaʻilio e pili ana. E ho'āʻo e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia ma ka haʻi ʻana iā ia ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e hilahila i kēia kūlana. A ma hope paha o ka haʻi ʻana aku i kāna mau hoaaloha, e hoʻomaha ʻo ia ...

Hoʻololi o ke kula…

Ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, pono paha kāu keiki e hoʻololi i ke kula. ʻO ke ʻano o kēia: ʻaʻohe hoa like, ʻaʻohe haku wahine, ʻaʻohe mau kuhikuhi like ...

E hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia ma ka haʻi ʻana iā ia e hiki iā ia ke launa pū me kāna mau hoaaloha, hiki iā lākou ke kākau i kekahi i kekahi, kelepona kelepona, a kono pū kekahi i kekahi i ka wā hoʻomaha!

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ke komo ʻana i kahi kula hou a loaʻa i nā hoaaloha hou. Akā, ma ke kaʻana like ʻana i nā hana a i ʻole nā ​​kikowaena like o ka hoihoi, aloha nui nā keiki me ka pilikia ʻole ...

 

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