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Nā ʻōkuhi no nā makuahine e hoʻopili ana i nā makuakāne i ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki ʻōpio. ʻO ka mea nui i kēia ʻoihana kahi ʻano maikaʻi a me kahi ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka.
I ka manawa mua, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka makuahine no ka pēpē ma mua o ka makuakāne, akā i kekahi manawa pono i kahi hoʻomaha mai nā hopohopo pau ʻole e pili ana i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi. A inā ʻaʻohe kupunawahine kokoke, a laila pono ʻoe e hilinaʻi wale i kāu kāne. Makemake e haʻalele i ka home? E hoʻomākaukau i ka makuakāne o ke keiki no kēia hanana ma mua. Hōʻike ʻo WDay pehea e haʻalele ai i kāu kāne ma ka mahiʻai me ka hapa liʻiliʻi o ka psyche o nā ʻohana āpau.
ʻO ka "kōkua ʻole" ka makuakāne o nā pēpē a me nā keiki a hiki i ka 2-3 mau makahiki. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole hiki i nā keiki ke wehewehe aʻe: "He aha ka hewa?" No laila, loaʻa nā hanana. No laila, e hōʻalo iā lākou:
1. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou makua kāne!
Kūkā ka poʻe psychologists e hana lohi i mea e maʻa ai ka makuakāne hou i ka mea liʻiliʻi. I ka mua, paulele i ke keiki me ka makuakāne ʻoiai ʻoe ma kahi o. E noi wale i kāu kāne e mālama i ka pēpē, ʻoiai ʻoe e hele e pili ana i kāu ʻoihana i kahi lumi ʻē aʻe a i ʻole ka lumi kuke. E waiho wale i ka makuakāne me ka pēpē ma ka liʻiliʻi he 10-15 mau minuke, a laila liʻiliʻi iki. Ke hoʻomaka ka makuakāne e kāohi me kāna keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha iā ia iho no hoʻokahi hola holoʻokoʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i kahi ʻoihana.
Mōʻaukala o ke ola
"ʻOiai e hāpai ana koʻu kaikuahine, ua hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou me kaʻu kāne ma kahi plush Winnie the Pooh e hoʻololi i nā diapeka. A i kēia manawa - ʻo ka pō mua me ka pēpē ma ka home. Hoʻomaka ka pēpē e uē, ala aʻe ʻo Pāpā a hoʻololi i ka diaper. Akā ʻaʻole i emi ka uē. Ua ala aʻe ʻo Māmā. I ka moe moe kokoke i ka pēpē, moe ʻo Winnie i ka diaper i hope. “
2. Hāʻawi mākou iā ia i nā kuhikuhi kikoʻī
E hoʻāʻo e wehewehe i nā mea āpau i ka makuakāne ʻōpio i ke kikoʻī i nā mea e pono ai ke hana, no ka laʻana, inā ala ke keiki; pehea a me ka mea e hānai iā ia. Inā haumia - he aha e loli ai. E wehewehe i kahi o ka lole, kahi o nā mea pāʻani, he aha ke ʻano o nā disks mele a ka pēpē e aloha ai.
Mōʻaukala o ke ola
"I ka piha ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine he ʻehā makahiki, ua hoʻokomo ʻia wau i ka haukapila no hoʻokahi pule. Ua haʻalele iā lākou me kāna kāne, e hāʻawi ana i nā kuhikuhi kikoʻī. Ua noi ʻo ia iaʻu e ʻaʻahu i nā kapa maʻemaʻe i kēlā me kēia lā! ʻAʻole i loaʻa iā Pāpā ka lole o kāna kaikamahine i loko o ka waihona. No laila, i kēlā me kēia lā holoi wau a hao ka mea ma luna ona. No laila ua hele ʻo ia i ke kula mālamalama i kaʻaʻahu like i ka pule holoʻokoʻa. “
3. ʻAʻole mākou e hōʻino!
ʻAʻohe kānalua ua ʻike ʻoe i nā mea āpau loa! Akā e hoʻāʻo e hoʻopaʻa i ka hōʻāhewa a ka Pope. ʻAe, i ka mua e palaka ʻo ia me ka pēpē. ʻO ʻoe kekahi, ʻaʻole i aʻo koke i ka ʻauana, hānai, ʻauʻau. E wehewehe ahonui me ka mea e hana ai a me ke ʻano o ke ʻano. E uku iā ia no kāna hana. Inā uē ka pēpē, hāʻawi i ka manawa i kou makuakāne e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia. Inā manaʻo ka makuakāne ʻōpio ua ʻike ʻo ia i nā mea āpau - mai hoʻokahuli!
Mōʻaukala o ke ola "He 2 mau makahiki o kaʻu kaikamahine. Ua ukuhi ʻia mai nā pale pale. I kuʻu haʻalele ʻana, ua hōʻike wau i koʻu makuakāne i kahi o ka panties a kaʻu kaikamahine i waiho ai. I koʻu hoʻi ʻana i kekahi mau hola ma hope, ua ʻike wau i kaʻu kaikamahine i loko o koʻu mau pālule lace. "Liʻiliʻi lākou, ua manaʻo wau nāna."
4. Noho mau mākou me ia
Ke haʻalele nei i ka home, hōʻoia i kāu kāne hiki iā ia ke kāhea iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia manawa a nīnau i kekahi mea e pili ana i ka pēpē. Hāʻawi kēia iā ia i ka hilinaʻi e hiki iā ia ke mālama. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pane, waiho i ka helu kelepona o kou makuahine a i ʻole he hoa aloha he keiki kā kāu kāne.
Mōʻaukala o ke ola
“Ua haʻalele au i kaʻu kāne me kahi keiki kāne ʻekolu mahina no ka hapalua lā. Pono ke keiki e hiamoe ma ka lanai no nā hola 2 mua. ʻO Malaki ia. Holo ko mākou makua kāne kuleana i waho i ka lāʻau i kēlā me kēia 10 mau minuke a nānā inā ua ala ke keiki. A laila i loko o kekahi o nā "nānā" ua pani ʻia ka puka pā hale mai ke kiʻi. Pepe i loko o kahi pākeʻe. Pāpā i loko o kona ʻaʻahu. Hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kāhea aku i nā hoalauna e kāhea i kāna wahine. Nānā ka hoalauna ma ka ʻākau a ʻaiʻē i ke kelepona. ʻO ka hapalua hola ma hope mai, ua holo wikiwiki au, hoʻopakele i ka "mea hau". Ua hiamoe ke keiki no kekahi hola. “
5. E hoʻomanaʻo he keiki māʻona kahi keiki hānai maikaʻi.
Ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana, e hoʻāʻo e hānai i kāu pēpē a hōʻoia i ka maikaʻi o kāna hana. Inā maikaʻi ke ʻano o ke keiki, a laila e loaʻa paha i ka makuakāne kahi ʻike maikaʻi a lilo i mea hilinaʻi i kāna mau hiki. A i ka manawa aʻe ua ʻoi aku kona makemake e ʻae e noho pū me ka pēpē, a malia paha hiki iā ia ke hānai a hoʻololi i kona kapa.
Mōʻaukala o ke ola
“Ua hele ʻo Māmā i kahi huakaʻi ʻoihana no 3 mau lā. Ua haʻalele au i ke kālā o koʻu makuakāne no ka ʻai. I ka lā mua loa, ua hauʻoli ka makua kāne i ke kālā a pau ma kahi drill me kahi perforator. ʻO ke koena o nā lā, ʻai kaʻu kaikamahine a me kaʻu makuakāne i ka sopa meaʻai mai ka zucchini. “
6. Hoʻonohonoho mākou i ka leʻaleʻa
E noʻonoʻo ma mua o ka manawa e pili ana i ka hana a ka makua kāne a me ka pēpē ʻoiai ʻoe ma kahi e. E hoʻomākaukau i nā mea pāʻani, nā puke, e hoʻokomo i nā lole keu i kahi kaulana, haʻalele i ka meaʻai.
Mōʻaukala o ke ola
"Ua haʻalele lākou i kaʻu kaikamahine me kona makuakāne, a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e pāʻani me nā pēpē a hāʻawi iā ia i ka wai mai ke kīʻaha o ka pēpē. Ua hauʻoli loa ʻo Pāpā a hoʻi mai ʻo Māmā a nīnau mai: “E honey, no hea ʻoe e loaʻa ai ka wai iā Lisa?” ʻO ka "kumu" wale nō e hiki ai i kahi kaikamahine ʻelua makahiki ke hiki i ka lua. “
7. Ka mālie
Ke waiho nei i kāu pēpē me kou makuakāne, e hoʻāʻo e hōʻike ʻole i kou pīhoihoi. Inā ʻoe e mālie a maikaʻi hoʻi, e hoʻoili ʻia kou ʻano i kāu kāne a me kāu keiki. Ke hoʻi mai ʻoe i ka home, mai poina e hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu wahine, ʻoiai inā liʻiliʻi iki ka hale, a me he mea lā ʻaʻole hānai maikaʻi ʻia ka pēpē iā ʻoe. Ke manaʻo nei ʻo ia ke hana maikaʻi nei, e hōʻoki ka makuakāne i kāna keiki.
Mōʻaukala o ke ola
“Ua waiho ʻia ʻo Leroux ʻelua makahiki me kona makuakāne. Hāʻawi ʻia lākou i ka CU: hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka pālaʻi no ka ʻaina awakea, hoʻolapalapa i kahi hua no ka ʻaina awakea. I ke ahiahi - he penaʻaila: ua uhiʻia ke kapuahi me ka waiū. Piʻi ʻia ka paila me nā kīʻaha: nā pā, nā ipu, nā ipu hao, nā pā ... Ke nānā nei i kahi ipu 5-lita, nīnau koʻu makuahine: "He aha kāu e hana nei i kēia?!" Pane ʻo Pāpā: “Ua paila ka hua.”
8. E wehewehe i ka uē ʻana he ala e kamaʻilio ai
E wehewehe i kou makuakāne mai makaʻu i ka uē ʻana o kahi pēpē. Aia i hoʻokahi makahiki a me ka hapa ke ala nui o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ka honua. No ka mea ʻaʻole ʻike ke keiki pehea e ʻōlelo ai. ʻAneʻane hiki i nā makuahine āpau ke hoʻoholo i kāna makemake ma ka uē ʻana i kahi pēpē. Pōloli paha ʻo ia a pono paha e hoʻololi i kāna diaper. Hiki i nā makuakāne ke aʻo i kēia. E noi pinepine aku i kāu kāne e hoʻoholo i nā mea e pono ai ka pēpē. Ma ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, e hoʻomaka ana ka makuakāne e hoʻokaʻawale i nā leo a pau o ka pēpē uē ʻana ma mua o ʻoe. Akā hele wale kēia me ka ʻike. E hoʻonohonoho no ka makua "hoʻomaʻamaʻa" (e nānā i ka helu ʻekahi).
Mōʻaukala o ke ola
"ʻO ke keikikāne loa, ʻo Luka, he 11 mau makahiki. Noho ʻo ia me kona makuakāne no ka lā holoʻokoʻa. I ke ahiahi kāhea mai kaʻu kāne iaʻu: Maliʻa paha ʻeha kekahi mea? "" E Darling, he aha kāu i hānai ai iā ia no ka ʻaina awakea? " “E! Ua hānai ʻia ʻo ia! “