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Pehea e aloha ai i kāu keiki; inaina wau i kaʻu mau keiki
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“He mea maʻamau ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau keiki me ka haʻalulu, ka manaʻo a me ke aloha pau ʻole. Pehea inā ʻaʻole ʻoe aloha i kāu keiki? ʻAʻole. ʻAʻole ʻoe aloha iā ia, manawa. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, ua hiki iaʻu ke ʻae pololei i kēia mau makahiki 10 wale nō ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine. I ka wā mua, manaʻo wau ʻo nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole ke kumu o ka hapai paʻakikī, a laila ma ka hānau ʻana paʻakikī, a laila ma nā pō hiamoe ʻole a me nā maʻi pau ʻole o ke keiki, akā ma hope ua ʻike wau ʻo ia wale nō ka nele o ke aloha iā ia. Malia paha e hoihoi a pono kaʻu ʻike i kekahi, no laila e haʻi aku wau iā ʻoe e pili ana i nā mea āpau me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, "i kākau ai ʻo Natalya iā mākou.
“ʻAʻole mākou i noho lōʻihi me ka makua kāne hānau o kā mākou kaikamahine (kala ʻoe i kēia ʻōlelo). He koʻikoʻi ko lāua ʻae ʻole kekahi i kekahi. Aia kahi aloha ʻālohilohi a, ʻo ia hoʻi, ka hāpai ʻana, a laila - ka hōʻeha ʻeha a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i kaʻu kāne kīwila ua hoʻonāukiuki iaʻu: pehea kāna ʻai ʻana a me ka pulupulu ʻana i kona mau niho, ke ʻala a me nā huaʻōlelo āna e hoʻohana ai, pehea ʻo ia e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai i kona mau pepeiao me nā ʻōpuʻu pulupulu a me kāna hoʻopuʻi ʻana i nā soka a puni ka hale ... me ka hoʻomaha, a laila hoʻomaka wau i nā mea āpau e ʻike i kaʻu kaikamahine. Ua hana like ʻo ia! A i ka ihu e ohi mau ana e like me ia! A i kēlā me kēia manawa aʻu e ʻike ai, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke pale aku, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana: "Me he papa lā!" aiʻole "Ua lawe au i nā mea ʻino a pau mai koʻu makuakāne." A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hana ʻo ia me ka huhū. Pehea lā, inā ʻo ka hopena, me he mea lā i ka hoʻomāʻewaʻewa, e waiho i nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole o kaʻu kāne i hāʻule ʻole i loko o kaʻu keiki hānau?!
ʻO ka poop pau ʻole a me ka ʻuā ʻāhiu i ka pō e lawe mai i kekahi i ka lima
Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine, ʻaʻole wau e hoʻomanaʻo i nā manawa mālamalama a hauʻoli. Malia paha, ʻo lākou wale nō ka wā i ʻae mai ai nā ʻohana iaʻu e hele mai ka home e hāʻawi iaʻu i ka manawa e hele a noho mehameha. Ua manaʻo ka poʻe a pau ua loaʻa iaʻu ke kaumaha postpartum a hoʻāʻo e kōkua iaʻu i kekahi ʻano. Ua hele au i kai no hoʻokahi pule. ME KAIKAMAHINE. Akā, i koʻu hoʻi ʻana mai, ʻaʻole i maʻalahi. ʻO ka poop pauʻole a me ka uē'āhiu i ka pō e lawe mai i kekahi i ka lima, a uē pinepine ke kaikamahine. I kēia manawa ʻeha ka ʻōpū, ʻoki ʻia nā niho, a moe ka pulu. 'Ōlelo lākou no kēlā me kēia kanaka, akā ʻo wau iho me he mea lā ua hauʻoli mau kaʻu keiki. Ma hope mai, ua ʻōlelo ke kauka ua loaʻa i kāna kaikamahine kekahi mau pilikia me ka puʻuwai puʻuwai, ʻo ia ke kumu o kona hiamoe maikaʻi ʻole, hopohopo a ʻakaʻaka iki.
ʻAʻole oʻu makemake e lawe i kaʻu keiki i loko o koʻu mau lima, e hoʻolilo i ka manawa nui me ia, a me ka hoʻopā wale aku. No kou hoʻomaopopo ʻana, ʻaʻole wau he mea antisocial a i ʻole he "makuahine cuckoo", a i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā ua loaʻa i kaʻu kaikamahine nā mea āpau āna e pono ai. He aloha wale no ma ko'u aoao. Akā naʻe, ua hūnā au iā ia ...
A laila hoʻopau ʻo ia i koʻu pilina
I ka piha ʻana o ʻEva i ʻehā makahiki, he kāne kaʻu. He aloha ʻo ia, ʻoluʻolu a mālama, a ua hoʻomaopopo wau aia kahi laina maoli o ka poʻe male ʻole a hemo i kēia manawa no ia mau kāne, no laila ua hoʻāʻo wau e hoʻohiwahiwa iā ia a hoʻopuni iā ia me ka mālama nui e like me ka hiki. ʻAʻole wau i haʻi iā ia e pili ana i kaʻu kaikamahine, me ka manaʻo e haʻi iā ia ma hope. Ua holo maikaʻi nā mea a pau a hiki i ka manawa i hāʻawi aku ai koʻu kāne e hele pū me ia i kahi hoʻomaha lōʻihi. A ʻo ia ka manawa i hāʻule ai ke kaikamahine mai kahi puʻu nui a loaʻa i ʻelua mau haki i ka manawa hoʻokahi. ʻAʻole pono ka mālama ʻana, akā i ka haukapila. Ua hōʻole koʻu kupuna wahine e hele i ka haukapila, a pono wau e haʻi i koʻu kāne i nā mea a pau. Wahi a ia, ua haʻalulu ʻo ia, ma ke ʻano he makuahine, ua hūnā wau i kaʻu keiki a makemake wau e haʻalele iā ia no ka manawa lōʻihi me kahi "ʻanakala ʻē". Ma hope o kēlā, pāpā ke kanaka i kaʻu helu a lele hoʻokahi. E ʻōlelo mai kekahi ʻaʻole ʻo Eva ka hewa no kēia, akā i kekahi manawa me he mea lā iaʻu ke ʻano ʻeono ke hiki iaʻu ke haʻalele iā ia no kahi ola ʻē aʻe (e mare, hele i kahi huakaʻi ʻoihana, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe) a me ka manaʻo e maʻi. ʻeha, a i ʻole e hoʻomaka ana e hoʻomāinoino iaʻu!
He ʻōpio me ka huhū ʻino
He ʻōpio ʻo Eva i kēia manawa. Hele ʻo ia i ke kula, a loaʻa iā ia nā mea a pau e moeʻuhane ai nā keiki o kēia au. Ua hele pū mākou i ke kai me kaʻu kaikamahine (ua ʻōlelo nā kauka i ka ea kai iā ia). ʻAʻohe oʻu aloha. Ke kuleana - ʻae. Hiki ke hoihoi i kāna mau hana. Akā ʻaʻole maopopo ke aloha. Eia kekahi, i nā makahiki, ua nui aʻe nā pilikia me kaʻu kaikamahine. I kēia manawa wale nō, ʻo nā pilikia pau ʻole me nā haʻawina a me ka makemake pupule no ka Pūnaewele (hiki iā ia ke noho ma laila no nā hola) ua hoʻohui i ke ʻano unsociable. Ua hoʻāʻo wau e kamaʻilio me ia - he mea ʻole. Pani a hāmau. Ua hele au i kahi psychologist (hoʻokahi a me kaʻu kaikamahine) - ʻaʻole i kōkua. No laila ua hoʻoholo wau e haʻalele e like me ia.
A i kēia manawa - ka mea nui. No ka dot the i a ʻaʻole lohe mai ka poʻe heluhelu ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke aloha i kekahi. Ua ʻike hou au ua hāpai hou au. A he hauʻoli maoli nō !!! I kēia manawa ua ʻike wau ua mākaukau maoli wau a ʻaʻole makaʻu i kekahi mea. A ʻo kēia ka makuahine makuahine, a e loaʻa iaʻu kahi keiki i makemake nui ʻia, aʻu i noi malu ai i nā mana kiʻekiʻe. A lohe lakou. A hoʻouna hou mai lākou i kahi kaikamahine iaʻu, ʻaʻole wau e hūnā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua aloha wau iā ia me ka pau ʻole. ʻO ka lua o ka makuahine, ʻoiai mai ka lā mua, he ʻokoʻa loa ia mai ka mua. A hiki i ka toxicosis weliweli ke hoʻonāukiuki me hoʻokahi mea - e hōʻeha paha ia i ke kaikamahine e hiki mai ana? Ae. Ua ʻike ʻia e loaʻa hou iaʻu he kaikamahine. E hana ʻia kēia i loko o ʻelima mau mahina wale nō, akā ua koho mua wau i nā lole liʻiliʻi, nā mea pāʻani nani a me nā strollers maikaʻi loa a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi. A ʻike pinepine au i kaʻu pēpē ma ka moeʻuhane. Me he mea lā he ʻōniʻoniʻo a blonde ʻo ia. Ma mua o nā nīnau, e ʻōlelo wau ʻaʻole wau i hoʻomaka e noho pū me ka makuakāne o kaʻu keiki ʻelua, akā he aha ka mea inā ua haʻalele ʻo ia iaʻu i ka mea nui o ke ola. He pēpē aloha! “