Hoʻoweliweli, ʻeha i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole māʻona ... Ua ʻike paha kekahi o mākou i kahi "wahine castrating" i ko mākou ala. Toxic no lākou iho akā no kā lākou poʻe aloha, ua hoʻomalu ia.

Hiki ke malaise o ka wahine castrating, e like me ka psychologists, hele mai kahi huhū pili i ka wā kamaliʻi. I Freud, kuhikuhi ka castration complex i ka hopena o nā hopena kumuhana, ka hapa nui o ka ʻike ʻole, i hoʻoholo ʻia e ka hoʻoweliweli o ka castration i nā kāne a me ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi peni i nā wahine. ʻO kahi hoʻolālā i lawe ʻia e Jacques Lacan.

ʻO ka peni no ke keikikāne "ke ʻano moekolohe autoerotic primordial", a ʻaʻole hiki i kēia mea ke hapai i ke kanaka e like me ia. Akā ʻo ka pilikia castration no Freud pili i ka wahine e like me ke kāne. I nā kaikamahine, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka lālā o ka wahine ʻē ke kumu koke i ka paʻakikī. Ke ʻike ʻo ia i ke koʻokoʻo kāne, manaʻo ʻo ia iā ia iho he mea make i ka castration. I ka manawa o ke kanaka makua, ʻike ʻia kāna moekolohe iā ia e lilo i mea maikaʻi ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hānau ʻia he keikikāne, kahi huhū e hoʻomaka ai ka lili i nā kāne. Hiki i nā kumu ʻē aʻe ke hoʻonāukiuki i ka maka kāne o nā wahine: kahi makuakāne weliweli loa, e hoʻohaʻahaʻa mau ana i kāna kaikamahine, hoʻonāukiuki iā ia a hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ia i ka nui o ka inaina i ke kaikamahine. Hoʻololi ʻo ia i kēia inaina i nā kāne āpau.

No ka psychoanalysis, ʻo ka wahine castrating kahi mea makemake i ka "phallus" (mana) nona wale nō. Makemake ʻo ia e haku i nā mea āpau, e kaohi i nā mea āpau. Ke kaua nei kēia wahine me nā kāne āna e makemake ai e noho aliʻi. Hoʻokele, hana ʻo ia iā lākou e hele wāwae me kahi ʻōlena.

I ka pilina, noho aliʻi ka wahine castrating. I kāna hoa, hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻo ia e kū i ka hana, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻona iā ia ma ka laulā. ʻAʻole ia e kānalua i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ia, e pane no ia i ka lehulehu. ʻO ke kūlou ʻana i kēlā me kēia kanaka i kāna ʻike i nā mea, kāna mau pono a i kekahi manawa ʻo kāna mau moemoeā pili loa a ʻano ʻino hoʻi, he ala ia nona ka lima kiʻekiʻe. Eia naʻe, ʻoi aku kona akamai, ʻoi aku ma mua o kāna. Hoʻonoho mua ʻo ia i kāna mau makemake, kāna mau pono me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kāna mau pono. ʻAʻole ʻike ka wahine castrating ʻoiaʻiʻo. Kona ʻano, no ka mea, ʻo kēia ke ʻano o ka honua. Huhū mau ʻo ia. ʻO ke ʻano e alakaʻi i ka castration noʻonoʻo i hiki i kekahi manawa ke kumu i ka impotence i nā kāne. Eia nō naʻe, i ka noho ʻana o ka wahine ma ka wā lōʻihi, makaʻu wale ke kāne i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻokuʻu iā ia iho mai kēia pili paʻa e ka infidelity, me ka ʻole o ka kūleʻa ʻana iā ia iho mai ia mea. Hiki i ka wahine castrating ke hoʻopiʻi i kahi wahine ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka mea nui ke alakaʻi i ka honua i ka wana.

E like ka hana a kēia makuahine mana i kāna mau keiki e like me nā kāne: hoʻomanaʻo mau ʻo ia iā lākou ʻo ia ke alakaʻi, nāna e hoʻoholo. ʻOi loa a hiki i kahi o ka hoʻomāinoino, pani ʻia i ke kamaʻilio. Me ia, ʻaʻohe kūkākūkā, kūpaʻa i nā loli, hiki iā ia ke hele a hoʻoweliweli i ke keiki inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻolohe, waha a kino paha, a i ʻole ʻeleʻele i ka naʻau. Akā ke noʻonoʻo mau nei e hana ia no kona pono a i kekahi hihia, manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki i kāna keiki ke pale nona iho.

Hiki ke hōʻino nā hopena no ke keiki E hoʻomau ka makemake o ka makuahine castrating e kaohi i ke ola makua o kāna keiki, e hāʻawi ʻo ia i kona manaʻo i ka poʻe āna e ʻike ai. Loaʻa iā ia, komo hewa, komo ʻo ia i loko o ka ʻaoʻao pilikino o kāna mau keiki. Ke alo nei i ke kūʻē ʻana, huhū ʻo ia. ʻO ke keikikāne e hiki ʻole ke kūʻē i kona makuahine e ulu i kahi ʻano hewa, ka nele o ka hilinaʻi ponoʻī a ma hope he kāne ʻoluʻolu ʻole me nā wahine. Hoʻoweliweli hoʻi ʻo ia i ka ʻimi ʻole ʻana i kahi hoa i ke kiʻi o kona makuahine e hana hou i ka pilina i hoʻomalu ʻia, a e lilo ia i mea pilina ʻino. ʻO ke kaikamahine, hoʻopilikia paha ʻo ia i ke kope ʻana i ke kumu o kona makuahine hānai. Pono paha ia i kekahi manawa i ko lākou ola makua, kau nā keiki i kahi mamao ma waena o lākou a me ko lākou makuahine ʻona.

Kū i mua me kahi kanaka invasive e makemake e kaohi i nā mea āpau, ka mea lawe ʻole i ka makemake o ka mea ʻē aʻe, inā he hoa, he keiki, he hoaaloha, hoʻonohonoho koke ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole. ʻO ka neg negative o ka wahine castrating, kona makemake no ka kaohi ʻana i nā kānaka e pio koke ka joie de vivre o ka poʻe a puni iā ​​ia e hāʻawi i ke ala o ka ʻino a me ka ukiuki a me ka ikehu koʻikoʻi e vampirized. Ke hui pū me ia, ʻaʻohe mea hele, laka ʻia nā kikowaena o kā mākou ikehu, luhi, ʻano ʻono, kūkākūkā a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e kū ʻia i mua. , ʻike a me ke kūʻokoʻa o ka noʻonoʻo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, e hoʻopaʻa i ka hilinaʻi me kahi ʻano castrating ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi ʻole e hana ai ke mahalo ʻia ke ola, kona olakino, kona kūʻokoʻa.