Ua hoʻoholo ka wahine 37 makahiki e noho keiki ʻole no ka mea ʻaʻole ona makemake e hānai hoʻokahi i kahi keiki.
Ua ʻike mau ʻo Ella Hensley ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hānau. I ka makahiki 16, ua ʻike ʻia ke kaikamahine me ka maʻi maʻi Mayer-Rokitansky-Kuster-Hauser. He pathology kakaʻikahi loa kēia i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o nā mea hānau, ke hoʻopili ʻia nā paia o ka ʻōpū. Ma waho, hoʻonohonoho pono nā mea āpau, akā i loko e huli paha ʻaʻole he uterus a ʻo ka ʻaoʻao luna o ka ʻōpū. ʻO nā mahina ʻeiwa e hiki mai ana ma hope o ka hōʻoia ʻana, aia kahi lāʻau paʻakikī. ʻAʻole hiki i nā kauka ke hoʻihoʻi i ka ʻōnaehana holoʻokoʻa o nā mea hānau, ʻaʻole hiki. Loaʻa iā Ella kahi manawa kūpono no ka moekolohe.
Ma ka makahiki 30 wale nō, ua ola ke kaikamahine mai kona maʻi a ʻae iā ia iho ʻoiai ʻo ia - sterile. Akā ʻaʻole makemake ka uaki olaola e ʻike e pili ana i kāna maʻi. Kālepa ʻole ʻia lākou.
"ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaopopo ʻo ka kaomi kēia o ke kaiāulu, ke manaʻo nei e lilo wau i makuahine, a i ʻole i koʻu naʻau ponoʻī makuahine?" - kākau ʻo Ella.
I kekahi lā, ua hele ʻo Ella ma nā puka o kahi keʻena ʻenehana hānau keiki. He 37 makahiki ona ia manawa. Makemake ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu i nā hua - inā ʻaʻole maopopo iā ia he pēpē. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he hana kūpono kēia, a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo Ella e hāpai no ka mea pono.
“Puni mau nā wahine pā i ke aloha. Akā i ka manawa like, ke kali nei nā mea a puni ʻoe iā ʻoe e kolo mai kou ʻili i mea e lilo ai i makuahine. Hoʻomaopopo wau i ka pīhoihoi o ka kahu maʻi i ka haukapila. Ua nīnau ʻo ia iaʻu no ke aha wau e lohi nei no ka lōʻihi, no ka mea ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hāpai iaʻu iho. A ʻaʻole wau i maopopo iki ua hana ʻia wau no ka makuahine “, - ʻO ia.
Ua loaʻa i ke kaikamahine nā mea āpau e hoʻomaka ai i ka protocol IVF: he hoa pili pono, kālā, olakino, nā hua manu maikaʻi, a ʻo kahi makuahine hoʻi - Ua ʻae ka hoa a Ella e hāpai i kahi keiki nāna.
"Ua hoʻolālā wau i kahi hoʻolālā no ka pehea e loaʻa ai iaʻu ka IVF. Ua hana wau i kahi pākaukau, kapa ʻia ʻo Esme - ʻo ia kaʻu e kāhea aku ai i kaʻu kaikamahine. Ua kākau wau i nā pono āpau a me nā maikaʻi ʻole, e helu i nā kumukūʻai, ka papa inoa holoʻokoʻa o nā kaʻina hana - mai nā hoʻāʻo ʻana o ke koko a hiki i ka ultrasound a me ka implantation. Ua loaʻa he 80 tausani kālā e koi ʻia. Ua hiki nō iaʻu ke uku, ”wahi a Ella. Ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia e lawe i kahi papa hana.
Akā ua kūleʻa kāna hoʻolālā ma kahi a Ella i manaʻo iki ai. I kekahi lā i ka ʻaina awakea, ua haʻi ʻo ia i kāna hoa pili e pili ana i kāna hoʻoholo. Ua like kāna pane me he kopa lā mai ka polū iā ia: "Laki maikaʻi me kāu ipo i ka wā e hiki mai ana." Ua hoʻopau wale ke kāne i ka moemoeā o Ella o ka ʻohana a me nā keiki.
“I kēlā ahiahi, ua hele kaʻu waihona papa hana i ka ʻōpala. Ua ʻōlelo maikaʻi wau iā Esme, "i ʻae ʻo Ella.
Akā ʻaʻole kēia ka mea paʻakikī loa. ʻO ka mea paʻakikī loa ke kāhea ʻana i kahi hoaaloha, ka mea i makemake e lilo i makuahine no ia nona, a e ʻōlelo aku he makana makana kēlā e pono ai i ka wahine e pono maoli ai. A ʻo ia hoʻi - e ʻae iā ia iho no ke aha ʻo ia i haʻalele ai i ka maetrism.
"Ua loaʻa iaʻu nā mea āpau - nā kālā, nā loea, ʻo kaʻu hoa aloha pū kekahi. Akā ua ʻōlelo au, "Mahalo, ʻaʻole," wahi a Ella. - Ua hala nā mahina ʻeono mai ia manawa, akā ʻaʻole au i minamina i kaʻu hoʻoholo ʻana no kekona. ʻO wau wale nō i kēia manawa, ua haki ka pilina me kaʻu hoa. A hānau wale ʻana i kahi keiki ... ʻike wau i ka nui o nā makuahine hoʻokahi, he mea kupaianaha wale lākou. Akā ʻaʻole kūpono kēia koho iaʻu. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, i mea e lilo ai i makuahine wale nō, pono maoli ʻoe i kahi keiki. Makemake iā ia ma mua o kekahi mea. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo i kēlā mea e pili ana iaʻu iho. Manaʻo wau ʻo kaʻu keiki, kaʻu Esme - aia ia ma kahi ʻē. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke lawe iā ia i kēia ao. E mihi paha wau? Maliʻa paha. Akā ua hoʻolohe wau i koʻu leo i loko, a ʻo nā mea āpau aʻu e ʻike nei i kēia manawa he ʻoluʻolu mai ka mea ua oki wau i ka hana ʻana i ka mea aʻu e makemake ʻole ai. I kēia manawa ua ʻike wau i kahi ola keiki ʻole kaʻu koho, ʻaʻole nā makemake o kaʻu genetics. ʻAno au, akā ua hoʻoholo wau e keiki ʻole. A he ʻokoʻa nui kēlā. “