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Nā mākua i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia: hoʻonohonoho i kekahi mau Kalikimaka!
Ma hope o ka hoʻokaʻawale hakakā, pinepine loa nā lā mālama ua hookumuia e ka lunakanawai. Aia paha kāu keiki me kāu hoa mua i ka pule Kalikimaka. No Jacques Biolley, he mea nui e mai hoeha oe ia oe iho, e ae i ke kulana. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, ʻōlelo ʻo ia i nā mākua e noonoo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea e pale i nā mākua hoʻolauleʻa Kalikimaka i nā manawa he nui. ʻO ka 22 a i ʻole 23 no ka laʻana. ʻAʻole e haʻi ʻia "ʻo ka lā o Dekemaba 25 he mea liʻiliʻi loa, ua noa nā mea a pau e hana i ka Kalikimaka ma ko lākou ala ponoʻī", hōʻike ka loea.
Ka mahalo i nā makana a kekahi makua
I ka wā o nā mākua i ka paio, Hiki i nā makana ke "pōmole manawa maoli", wehewehe ʻo Jacques Biolley. ʻO nā mea pāʻani i loaʻa i kekahi manawa ke manaʻo ʻia mai ka "ʻaoʻao kū'ē", a hoʻohana ʻia e hoemi i ka waiwai ka makua e ae. "Hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i nā kaua maoli e hōʻeha nui i ke keiki. E paʻakikī ka mea hope e ʻōlelo: "Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi makana" inā ʻike ʻo ia he mea ʻino paha ia i kona makuakāne a i kona makuahine ". No ka mea lapaʻau, pono e makana waiwai mai kekahi makua mai, me ka hoino ole iaia. Inā ʻae ʻole ʻoe, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻie kamaʻilio e pili ana ma waena o nā mākua, aka, aole i mua o ke keiki.
He aha ka Kalikimaka no nā ʻohana hui?
kono i kana hoa hou a i ʻole kāna hoa hou e hoʻolauleʻa ai i ka Kalikimaka, me kāna mau keiki, ʻaʻole ia he hoʻoholo e lawe māmā ʻia. No Jacques Biolley, pono kēia ʻano hana i nā hōʻike. kupuʻia. E like me kāna ʻōlelo ʻana, "Pono nā mākua e hana i kēlā me kēia pae, no nā mahina ma ka hopena. Inā ua ʻike mua ke keiki i kona makuahōnōwai wahine a i ʻole kona makuahōnōwai kāne i kekahi mau manawa, ua ʻike pū ʻo ia i kona ʻohana, no ke aha lā ʻaʻole. Inā maikaʻi nā mea a pau, hiki iā ia ke pōmaikaʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia. ”
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā kēia mau pae aole i hala, e hoʻolauleʻa ana i nā lā hoʻomaha me ka mea e kaʻana like i ke ola o kona makuakāne a i ʻole kona makuahine hiki ke pīhoihoi ihola ko lākou no ke keiki. "I kekahi manawa pono ʻoe e waiho i kou mau makemake ponoʻī," wahi a Jacques Biolley. “Peia mākou e hoʻonui ai nā manawa kūpono o ka ʻae ʻana i ka liʻiliʻi ”. ʻO ka mea hope e hoʻomanaʻo: i ʻole e kū ʻia ke keiki me a pilikia kūpaʻa e pili ana i kona makua kāne a makuahine paha, he mea pono i nā mākua a me nā hoa hou ke hoʻohewa kekahi i kekahi. Pono lākou e hoʻomanaʻo i nā keiki hiki ke hoʻololi nui, "Inā ʻaʻohe kaua mamao ma waena o nā mākua." “