"E ʻoki hou aʻe kāua": pehea e hōʻike ai kahi kauka lapaʻau i ka nele o ka ʻae ʻana iā ia iho i ka mea maʻi

ʻO ka maʻi dysmorphic kino ke nānā nui mākou i kekahi hiʻohiʻona o ke kino a manaʻoʻiʻo ua hoʻokolokolo ʻia a hōʻole ʻia mākou no ia mea. He maʻi noʻonoʻo koʻikoʻi kēia e pono ai ka mālama ʻana. Hoʻohana ka ʻoki kino i kēlā me kēia lā me ka poʻe makemake e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou helehelena, a ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka ʻike ʻana i kēia maʻi.

Akā, pono kēia, no ka mea, ʻo ka dysmorphophobia he contraindication pololei i ka ʻoki plastik. Hiki paha ke ʻike ma mua o nā hana mua? Hōʻike mākou i nā moʻolelo maoli mai ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana o ka moho o ka ʻepekema lapaʻau, ka mea lapaʻau plastic Ksenia Avdoshenko.

Ke hōʻike koke ʻole ka dysmorphophobia iā ia iho

ʻO ka hihia mua loa o ka kamaʻāina me ka dysmorphophobia i paʻi ʻia i ka hoʻomanaʻo o ke kauka no ka manawa lōʻihi. A laila hele maila kekahi kaikamahine uʻi i kona hoʻokipa.

Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia he 28 mau makahiki a makemake ʻo ia e hoʻemi i ke kiʻekiʻe o kona lae, hoʻonui i kona ʻauwae, nā uʻi a wehe i kahi momona liʻiliʻi ma lalo o ka ʻōpū ma lalo o ka piko. Ua kūpono ka mea maʻi, hoʻolohe, nīnau i nā nīnau kūpono.

Ua loaʻa iā ia nā hōʻailona no nā hana ʻekolu: kahi lae disproportionately kiʻekiʻe, microgenia - lawa ʻole ka nui o ka iwi āpau, micromastia - ka nui o ka umauma liʻiliʻi, aia kahi ʻano contour deformity o ka ʻōpū i ke ʻano o ka nui o ka subcutaneous adipose i loko o kona ʻāpana haʻahaʻa.

Ua hana ʻo ia i kahi hana paʻakikī, e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka lauoho ma kona lae, a laila hoʻolikelike i kona mau maka, hoʻonui i kona ʻauwae a me ka umauma me nā implants, a hana i kahi liposuction liʻiliʻi o ka ʻōpū. Ua ʻike ʻo Avdoshenko i nā "bele" mua o kahi maʻi noʻonoʻo ma nā lole, ʻoiai ua hala koke nā ʻeha a me ka pehu.

I ka wā mua, ʻaʻole i lawa ka ʻāʻī o ke kaikamahine, a laila ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻo ka ʻōpū ma hope o ka hana "ua nalowale kona nani a ʻaʻole lawa ka sexy", a ukali ʻia e nā hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i ka nui o ka lae.

Ua hōʻike ke kaikamahine i nā kānalua i kēlā me kēia manawa i hoʻokahi mahina, akā poina koke ʻo ia i kona ʻōpū a me ka lae, a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e makemake i kona auwae. Eia naʻe, i kēia manawa, ua hoʻomaka ka hoʻopili ʻana i ka umauma e hoʻopilikia iā ia - ua noi ʻo ia i kahi hana ʻē aʻe.

Ua maopopo: makemake ke kaikamahine i ke kōkua, ʻaʻole naʻe he kauka lapaʻau. Ua hōʻole ʻia ʻo ia i ka hana, a ʻōlelo mālie iā ia e ʻike i kahi psychiatrist. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ua lohe ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻo. Ua hōʻoia ʻia nā kānalua, ua ʻike ka psychiatrist i ka dysmorphophobia.

Ua mālama ke kaikamahine i kahi papa o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, a ma hope o ka hopena o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa plastic i hōʻoluʻolu iā ia.

I ka wā i lilo ai ke ʻoki ʻili i mea maʻamau no ka mea maʻi

ʻO nā maʻi "auwana" mai ke kauā a hiki i ke kauā hele mai i Ksenia Avdoshenko. Hana ʻia kēlā mau kānaka ma hope o ka ʻoki ʻana, akā ʻaʻole hauʻoli i ko lākou helehelena ponoʻī. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ma hope o kahi hana ʻē aʻe (pono ʻole), ʻike ʻia nā deformations maoli.

ʻO kahi maʻi wale nō i hele mai nei i ka hoʻokipa. I ka ʻike ʻana iā ia, ua ʻōlelo ke kauka ua hana ʻo ia i ka rhinoplasty, a ʻoi aku paha ma mua o hoʻokahi manawa. ʻO kahi loea wale nō e ʻike i kēlā mau mea - ʻaʻole hiki i ka naʻaupō ke koho.

I ka manawa like, ua nānā maikaʻi ka ihu, e like me ka mea lapaʻau plastic - liʻiliʻi, maʻemaʻe, ʻoiai. "E hoʻomaopopo koke wau: ʻaʻohe hewa i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kahi hana hou. Hoʻokō ʻia lākou e like me nā hōʻailona - e komo pū ana ma hope o nā haʻihaʻi, i ka wā mua e "hōʻiliʻili" lākou i ka ihu a hoʻihoʻi i ka septum, a ma hope wale nō lākou e noʻonoʻo ai i ka aesthetics.

ʻAʻole kēia ka hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi loa, akā ʻaʻole nā ​​​​halemai āpau i loaʻa i nā kauka lapaʻau, a ʻaʻole hiki ke hana koke i kekahi mea. A inā ho'āʻo ka mea maʻi e hoʻihoʻi i ka ihu kahiko ma hope o ka hoʻoponopono hou ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i kēia i hoʻokahi hana. A i ʻole, ʻaʻole pono.

A ma ka laulā, inā ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu ka mea maʻi i ka hopena o kekahi hana, hiki i ke kauka lapaʻau ke ʻohi hou i nā mea kani, "wahi a Ksenia Avdoshenko.

Makemake au e like me ka blogger

ʻO ka mea maʻi, ʻoiai nā hana i hana mua ʻia, ʻaʻole i kūpono i ke ʻano o ka ihu. Ua hōʻike ʻo ia i nā kiʻi kauka o ke kaikamahine blogger a noi ʻo ia e "hana like." Ua nānā pono ke kauka lapaʻau iā lākou - nā kihi maikaʻi, nā mea hoʻonaninani kūpono, nā māmā, a me kahi photoshop - ʻo ke alahaka o ka ihu i kekahi mau kiʻi i ʻike ʻole ʻia.

"Akā, ʻaʻole i emi iki kou ihu maʻemaʻe, ua like ke ʻano, akā ʻaʻole i koʻu mana e hoʻolalelale," i hoʻomaka ai ke kauka e wehewehe. "ʻEhia mau manawa āu i ʻoki ʻia ai?" i ninau aku ai oia. "ʻekolu!" wahi a ke kaikamahine. Ua neʻe mākou i ka nānā ʻana.

ʻAʻole hiki ke hana i kahi hana ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole wale no ka dysmorphophobia hiki. Ma hope o ka hā o ka ʻoki plastik, hiki ke hoʻopōʻino ka ihu, ʻaʻole hiki ke kū i kahi hana hou aʻe, a ʻoi aku paha ka ʻino o ka hanu. Ua noho ke kauka lapaau i ka mea maʻi ma luna o ka noho a hoʻomaka e wehewehe iā ia i nā kumu.

Me he mea lā ua hoʻomaopopo ke kaikamahine i nā mea a pau. Ua maopopo i ke kauka e haalele ana ka mai, aka, hele koke mai la oia iaia a olelo mai, "ua poepoe ka helehelena, pono e emi ka papalina."

"E uē ana ke kaikamahine, a ʻike wau i kona inaina nui i kona helehelena maikaʻi. Ua ʻeha ka nānā ʻana!

I kēia manawa ke manaʻolana nei e hahai ʻo ia i ka ʻōlelo aʻo e hoʻopili i kahi loea o kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa ʻē aʻe, a ʻaʻole e hoʻoholo e hoʻololi i kahi mea ʻē aʻe iā ia iho. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā ʻaʻole i hōʻoluʻolu nā hana ma mua iā ia, e hālāwai ka mea aʻe i ka hopena like! hōʻuluʻulu i ke kauka lapaʻau.

Ke hāʻawi ka mea maʻi i kahi hōʻailona SOS

ʻO nā kauka lapaʻau ʻike i ʻike ʻia, e like me ka mea akamai, loaʻa i kā lākou mau ala ponoʻī e hoʻāʻo ai i ke kūpaʻa noʻonoʻo o nā maʻi. Pono wau e heluhelu i nā palapala noʻonoʻo, kūkākūkā me nā hoa hana ʻaʻole wale i ka hana ʻokiʻoki, akā i nā ʻano o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me nā maʻi paʻakikī.

Inā ma ka hui mua ʻana me kahi kauka lapaʻau i kahi mea weliweli i ka ʻano o ka mea maʻi, hiki iā ia ke ʻōlelo maikaʻi iā ʻoe e hoʻopili i kahi psychotherapist a i ʻole psychiatrist. Inā hele kekahi kanaka i kahi loea, e noi ʻo ia e lawe mai i kahi manaʻo mai iā ia.

Ma ka manawa like, e like me Ksenia Avdoshenko, aia nā hōʻailona weliweli e hiki ke ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole wale e ka psychologist, psychiatrist a i ʻole ke kauka lāʻau i ka hoʻokipa, akā e nā ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha: "No ka laʻana, he kanaka ʻole ka hoʻonaʻauao olakino. ma hope o ka hoʻolohe ʻana i ka manaʻo o ke kauka, hele mai me kāna ʻano hana ponoʻī, e huki i nā kiʻi.

ʻAʻole ʻo ia e aʻo i nā ʻano hou, ʻaʻole nīnau e pili ana iā lākou, akā hana a hoʻokau i kāna mau "mea hana" - he bele weliweli kēia!

Inā hoʻomaka ke kanaka e uē, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kona helehelena ponoʻī, no ke kumu maikaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻole pono e mālama ʻia kēia. Inā hoʻoholo ke kanaka e ʻoki i ka plastic, akā ʻaʻole lawa ka noi, pono ʻoe e makaʻala.

ʻO ka nānā ʻana me ka pūhaka wasp, ka ihu liʻiliʻi me kahi alahaka lahilahi, ʻoi aku ka lahilahi a i ʻole ka ʻoi o nā papalina e hōʻike ana i ka dysmorphophobia o ke kino. Ina inaina ke kanaka i kona kino a me kona helehelena, pono ia i ke kokua!” hoʻopau ke kauā.

ʻIke ʻia ʻo ka noʻonoʻo, ka nānā a me ka mahalo i nā mea maʻi a me nā mea aloha he mea maʻalahi akā koʻikoʻi loa ia i ka hakakā ʻana me ka dysmorphophobia. E waiho i ka mālama ʻana i kēia maʻi i nā psychiatrist.