Koi i loko o ke aloha aloha
Manaʻo nui ke kanaka i ke aloha kekee mai ka "mea hoʻomana" a koi liʻiliʻi iā ia iho.
Koi i ke aloha pono
ʻO ke kanaka aloha pono e koi mua ia oe ihoaole i ka mea aloha.
He kuleana ko'u ia'u wale no. Pehea koʻu ʻano, pehea koʻu aloha iā ʻoe, pehea kaʻu e hana ai i kekahi mea iā ʻoe… ʻO ia wale nō. He kuleana ko'u ia'u iho, aole nae he koi ia oe.
Pehea ke ʻano o ka mea aloha, hana ʻo ia i nā mea āpau aʻu i manaʻo ai he mea pono iaʻu e hana? ʻAʻole wau e noʻonoʻo e pili ana, e haʻalele wau iaʻu iho mai nā loiloi o ka mea aʻu i aloha ai. E hana paha ka mea aloha i 100%, 80% a i ʻole 30% - ʻAʻole wau e nānā iā ia. ʻO ka hana a ka mea aloha e BE wale. Ua lawa iaʻu ke ʻike he IS wale nō.
Ua ʻike au ua aloha ʻoe iaʻu e like me kou hiki ke hana. ʻIke wau, ʻike wau makemake ʻoe, ke ʻimi nei ʻoe. A laila - nā nīnau no ke olakino, kūlana, naʻau, luhi, etc. ʻO kaʻu hana ke kōkua iā ʻoe. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke loiloi a helu iā ʻoe. He hewa maoli kēia, ʻaʻole wau e nīnau iaʻu iho i kēlā mau nīnau.
Hoʻokahi wale nō loiloi a me ka pololei: ʻaʻole pono ka mea aloha e hele i kahi palena haʻahaʻa.
Inā hoʻomaka ka mea aloha e inu, ʻōlelo ʻino a ʻōlelo ʻino paha, a laila ʻaʻole kēia kaʻu punahele. Hoʻokahi hana a ka mea aloha - e noho iā ia iho, ka mea aʻu i ʻike ai a aloha ai. Mai hoʻololi iā ʻoe iho, mai hāʻule ma lalo o kahi pae. Pono ia. Akā ʻo ia wale nō. E nana →
He aha ke aloha e ulu mai ai
He aha ke ʻano o ke aloha — e hilinaʻi nui ʻia i ka mea i hoʻopaʻa ʻia: physiology a i ʻole ka nohona stereotypes, manaʻo a noʻonoʻo paha, kahi ʻuhane olakino a waiwai - a mehameha a maʻi ... hiki a martyr koho.
ʻO ke aloha pono i ka mālama ʻana i ka mea e ola ana, ʻaʻole i ka waimaka no ka mea i hala a nalowale. ʻO ke kanaka i ke aloha kūpono e koi mua iā ia iho, ʻaʻole i kāna mea aloha.
ʻO ke aloha-Makemake wau e ulu maʻamau ma waho o ka hoʻohihi. ʻO ke aloha maʻi ʻaneʻane e ulu aʻe mai ka pili neurotic, ʻeha ke aloha, i kekahi manawa ua uhi ʻia me ka pā aloha.
ʻO ke aloha o kēlā me kēia o mākou he hōʻailona o ko mākou ʻano, a me kā mākou mea maʻamau i nā kānaka a me ke ola, ʻo ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ko mākou kūlana o ka ʻike e hoʻoholo nui i ke ʻano a me ke ʻano o kā mākou aloha. E nana →