Inā ʻoe e mālama ana i kahi keiki, e pāpā ʻoe i kekahi mea iā ia, he ʻenemi ʻoe nona. Inā loaʻa ke keiki iā ia iho i kahi mea, a kōkua ʻoe iā ia i waho, a i ʻole i aloha iā ia, ʻo ʻoe kona hoaaloha a hoʻōla, a ʻo ke ola a me nā kūlana i hana ʻia ma ke ʻano he kumu. Hiki ke hoʻohana i kēia, hiki ke hana i mea e aʻo ʻia ke keiki me he mea lā ʻaʻole ʻoe, akā ma nā kūlana? ʻAe, hiki inā ʻae ʻia kēia mau kūlana i ke keiki - a hoʻonohonoho ʻia paha.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e aloha nui i ke keiki, e hoʻomaka ke ola e aʻo i ke keiki ponoʻī. E like me kā JJ i kākau ai no ia mea. Rousseau:
ʻO ka mea ma mua he pāʻani a he mea liʻiliʻi paha iā ia e hiki ke hoʻohuli ʻia i mea hoʻopilikia, a i ʻole he mea nui. ʻO ka mea i manaʻo ʻia i loko o kāna mau moemoeā hiki ke lilo i mea ʻike ʻole ʻia.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae i ke keiki i kāna makemake nui - inā ʻaʻole ia e kaumaha iā ʻoe, akā he haʻawina ia nona.
Ke makemake ke keiki e koi i kāna mau makemake, akā pono ʻoe e uku no kēia mau makemake, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i ke keiki ponoʻī e uku i kāna mau makemake.
He moʻolelo mai AN: Ua hānai au i kahi kanaka maikaʻi ʻelima makahiki ʻo Ksenia. E hele wāwae ana mākou - mamao loa i ka loko. Manaʻo ʻo Ksyusha e lawe i kāna pahu punahele "no ka lawaiʻa" me ia no ka hele wāwae: ʻo kahi mea no kahi keiki ʻelima mau makahiki he nui a kaumaha. Ke wehewehe nei au he mea paʻakikī iā ia. Ke koi nei ʻo Ksyusha. Maikaʻi. ʻAe wau iā ia e lawe i ka ʻeke me ia, me ka ʻike ʻana e lawe wale ʻo ia iā ia iho. Nani ʻo ia i ʻōhumu a hoʻohuhū i ke ala hoʻi! I ka manawa aʻe ua hele maikaʻi mākou me ka ʻole o ka ʻeke. ʻAʻohe nīnau e pili ana i nā ʻeke.
ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ke aʻo ʻana me ke kōkua o ka ʻike maikaʻi ʻole: ʻike kūlohelohe a i hana ʻia paha, no nā kumu hoʻonaʻauao, ma ke ʻano he kuleana no nā hopena.
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Nā kumuhana o ke kamaʻilio ʻana: He aha ke ʻano o ka wahine e pono ai ʻoe i mea e male kūleʻa ai? ʻEhia mau manawa e mare ai nā kāne? No ke aha he kakaikahi na kanaka ma'amau? keiki ʻole. Ka makua. He aha ke aloha? He moʻolelo i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka uku no ka manawa kūpono e pili kokoke i kahi wahine nani.