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He kanaka mawaho, he hana keia, he hana keia. ʻO ke kāne, e like me ka wahine, he mau manaʻo a me nā ʻike, akā ʻaʻole ia he mea koʻikoʻi iā ia, a ʻike ʻia ʻo ia he ʻano o ke ʻano o ke ʻano.
He mea makaʻu - mai mālama, mai noʻonoʻo. A i ʻole: “ʻAe, ʻeha. Akā, hiki anei ke hoʻomanawanui? ʻAe, e hana i kāu mea e hana ai.
ʻO ka wahine he kūlana i loko, he manaʻo a he ʻike. Hoʻomaopopo nui nā wāhine i ko lākou mau manaʻo, he mea nui lākou no lākou a he mea koʻikoʻi hikiʻole ke mālamaʻoleʻia, me kaʻole o ke ola maʻamau a me ka hana maʻamau.
Aloha, Nikolai Ivanovich. He 17 au makahiki. I koʻu makahiki he 14, ua ʻike au ua makemake nā kāne makua iaʻu. Maopopo iaʻu ke kumu. He kaikamahine u'i au, launa pū, nui nā hoaaloha e kama'ilio me a'u, e kūkākūkā me a'u, nā kāne e like me a'u, ma ke kumu, he nui. Akā, inā makemake ke kanaka iaʻu, hauʻoli wau, a ke ʻike wau i ka nānā ʻana o ke kanaka (ʻoi loa ke kumu), hoʻomaka ia e hoʻoweliweli iaʻu, ʻaʻole maopopo ke kumu, maopopo iaʻu he kanaka kūpono a me ka ʻole o koʻu ʻae ʻana. ʻaʻole e "hoʻopā" iaʻu. No laila he aha kaʻu e makaʻu ai? ʻo ʻoe iho paha - ʻaʻole. Ua noʻonoʻo wau: Ua kaulike au i kēia kumumanaʻo, hiki iaʻu ke kāohi iaʻu iho, ʻaʻole oʻu hoihoi i nā kāne. A noho ka makau. A ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hana me kēia manaʻo. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ka nīnau kūpono e nīnau ai iā ʻoe. He aha kaʻu e hana ai me kēia manaʻo, a he aha ke kumu o kēia hopohopo.
ʻAʻole maopopo i nā kāne ia ʻōlelo e pili ana i nā manaʻo. ʻAe, makaʻu ke kaikamahine, akā no ke aha e noʻonoʻo ai i kēia a noʻonoʻo pono iā ia, inā ʻaʻohe mea weliweli i loko o kēia: ua maopopo ke kaikamahine ʻaʻole e hoʻopā nā kāne iā ia, a ua kaulike ʻo ia a ʻaʻole e hana. mea lapuwale.
No nā wahine, he mea maʻamau ke aloha iā ia iho, mai ka puʻuwai, mālama hauʻoli iā ʻoe iho, no kou kino. Ke mālama ka wahine i nā mea a pau i loaʻa iā ia, manaʻo a mahalo i ka mea maikaʻi loa i loko ona, mālama iā ia iho me ka hauʻoli, a ola me ka mālamalama o loko, a laila hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo e pili ana i kēlā wahine i aloha iā ia iho. ʻO ke aloha i ka wahine he manaʻo, ʻo kāna aloha he ʻano pumehana, a ma ke kikowaena o kāna aloha he manaʻo hōʻoluʻolu.
He ʻokoʻa ka manaʻo o nā kāne i ke aloha iā lākou iho. Ke kamaʻilio pinepine nei nā kāne e pili ana i ke aloha, akā inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i ke aloha o kēia kanaka iā ia iho, a laila nā hana kuleana, e kū mau kāna mau hana ma hope o kēia i ke ola o ke kanaka. Holoi ʻo ia iā ia iho, hoʻonaʻauao, pāʻani haʻuki, hana me kona ʻano, ʻo ia hoʻi, no ke kāne, ʻo ke aloha iā ia iho he hana. He aha kāu e hana ai iā ʻoe iho e hauʻoli, akamai a olakino i kou ola a pau. He hana ke aloha i ke kanaka, he koi kona aloha, a ʻo ka manaʻo nui o kona manaʻo ʻo ia kona ikaika a me kona hiki.
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Nā kumuhana o ke kamaʻilio ʻana: He aha ke ʻano o ka wahine e pono ai ʻoe i mea e male kūleʻa ai? ʻEhia mau manawa e mare ai nā kāne? No ke aha he kakaikahi na kanaka ma'amau? keiki ʻole. Ka makua. He aha ke aloha? He moʻolelo i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka uku no ka manawa kūpono e pili kokoke i kahi wahine nani.