Māmā o ka honua ma Netherlands

"1 i loko o 3 mau wahine Dutch e hānau ma ka home"

"I ka haʻi ʻana mai o ka obstetrician ma ka haukapila Farani e hoʻomaka ana kaʻu ʻeke wai e haki. 'Ōlelo wau iā ia: "E hoʻi ana au i ka home". Nānā mai ʻo ia iaʻu me ka pīhoihoi a me ka hopohopo. Hoi malie au i ka hale, hoomakaukau au i ka'u mau mea a auau au. Ke minoʻaka nei au i koʻu noʻonoʻo ʻana i kēlā mau makuahine Dutch e holo kaʻa i ka haukapila, a me kaʻu gynecologist ma Netherlands nāna i haʻi mau iaʻu i koʻu wā hāpai mua "e hoʻolohe, a e maikaʻi nā mea āpau"!

Ma Netherlands, hana ka wahine i nā mea a pau a hiki i ka manawa hope. ʻAʻole ʻike ʻia ka hāpai ʻana he maʻi. He ʻokoʻa loa ka hoʻokele ʻana i ka haukapila: ʻaʻohe hoʻokolohua vaginal a i ʻole kaohi kaumaha.

Hoʻokahi o ʻekolu mau wahine Dutch e hoʻoholo e hānau ma ka home. ʻO kēia ka helu kiʻekiʻe loa ma nā ʻāina Komohana: 30% kū'ē i 2% ma Farani. Ke kokoke loa ka ʻoki ʻana, kāhea ʻia kahi pale keiki. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia wahine kahi "kit" me nā mea a pau e pono ai no ka hōʻea ʻana o ka pēpē i ka home: sterile compresses, tarpaulin, etc. Pono e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ʻo Netherlands kahi ʻāina liʻiliʻi a nui loa. Aia mākou a pau ma kahi o 15 mau minuke mai ke kikowaena olakino inā loaʻa kahi pilikia. ʻAʻole loaʻa ka epidural, pono ʻoe e ʻeha e loaʻa ai! Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, nui nā yoga, hoʻomaha a me nā papa ʻauʻau. Ke hānau mākou ma ka haukapila, ʻehā hola ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, haʻi mai ka pale keiki Dutch iā mākou: "Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻi i ka home!" I nā lā aʻe, hele mai ka Kraamzorg i ka hale ma kahi o ʻeono hola i ka lā no hoʻokahi pule. He kōkua pale keiki ʻo ia: kōkua ʻo ia i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i ka hānai, aia ʻo ia no ka ʻauʻau mua. Hana pū ʻo ia i ka kuke a me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe. A inā, ma hope o ka pule, pono ʻoe i ke kōkua, hiki iā ʻoe ke kelepona iā ia no ka ʻōlelo aʻo. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻohana, ʻaʻole hele mai nā kūpuna, noho mālie. Ma Netherlands, ʻo ia ka home o kēlā me kēia kanaka. No ke kipa ʻana i ke keiki hānau hou, pono ʻoe e kelepona a hana i kahi manawa, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele mai me ka manaʻo ʻole. I kēia manawa, hoʻomākaukau ka makuahine ʻōpio i nā kuki liʻiliʻi i kapa ʻia ʻo muisjes, kahi a mākou e hohola ai i ka pata a me nā momi momona, ʻulaʻula inā he kaikamahine a he uliuli no ke keikikāne.

ʻAʻole mākou makaʻu i ke anuanu, ʻo ka mahana o ka lumi o ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa he 16 ° C kiʻekiʻe. Lawe ʻia nā pēpē i ka wā i hānau ʻia ai, ʻoiai i ka hoʻoilo hau. ʻAʻahu mau nā keiki i hoʻokahi papa ma mua o nā mākua no ka mea ʻoi aku ka neʻe ʻana. I Farani, ʻakaʻaka iaʻu, ʻike mau ʻia nā keiki i kā lākou mau lole ʻaʻahu nui! ʻAʻole pili mākou i nā lāʻau lapaʻau ma Netherlands. Inā he kuni ke keiki, ʻo ka lāʻau antibiotic ka hopena hope loa.

ʻAi wikiwiki loa, ʻai ka liʻiliʻi e like me nā mākua. ʻAʻole ʻo Compote kahi mea ʻai, akā he mea hoʻohui i nā kīʻaha āpau. Hoʻohui mākou me ka pasta, ka laiki ... Me nā mea āpau, inā makemake ke keiki! ʻO ka mea inu kaulana loa he waiu anuanu. Ma ke kula, ʻaʻohe hale ʻaina a nā keiki. Ma kahi o ka hola 11 am, ʻai lākou i nā sanwiti, ʻo ka pinepine nā sanwiti pata kaulana a me Hagelsgag (nā palaka kokoleka). Ua pupule nā ​​keiki, e like me ka candy licorice. Pīhoihoi au i ka ʻike ʻana ua mālama ʻia lākou no nā pākeke ma Farani. Hauʻoli loa au i ka ʻai ʻana o kaʻu mau keiki i nā kīʻaha wela ma ka hale ʻaina Palani, ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea kanu. ʻO ka mea kupanaha iaʻu ma Farani ʻo ka haʻawina home! Me mākou, ʻaʻole lākou e noho a hiki i ka makahiki 11. ʻO ka Dutch he maʻalahi a hoʻomanawanui, hāʻawi lākou i nā keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole wau e ʻike iā lākou me ka ʻoluʻolu. Ua ʻoi aku ka "sanguine" o Farani iaʻu ma nā wahi he nui! ʻOi aku ka hoʻōho, ʻoi aku ka huhū, akā honi hou mākou!