Ua kaumaha ka'u keiki

Wehewehe: he aha; ke kaumaha o ka wā kamaliʻi? He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā mākua a me nā ʻōpio?

ʻO ke kaumaha o nā kamaliʻi he mea maoli a pinepine i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki. Eia nō naʻe, ʻokoʻa paha kēia mai ka hopena depressive i ka wā makua. ʻOiaʻiʻo, manaʻo paha nā mākua e like nā hōʻike o ke kaumaha o ka wā kamaliʻi i ka wā makua. me ka luhi, ka hopohopo a me ka hemo. ʻOiai aia kēia mau hōʻike o ke kaumaha o ka wā kamaliʻi, hiki i nā keiki ke hōʻike iā lākou ma nā ʻano like ʻole. No laila, hiki i ke keiki ke hoʻomohala i nā maʻi ʻano a me ka hyperactive, huhū a huhū loa paha. ʻO ia ke kumu paʻakikī i nā mākua ke ʻike i ke kaumaha o ka wā kamaliʻi i ke keiki. Aia kekahi mau hōʻailona ʻē aʻe e like me ka moe moe a i ʻole ka eczema.

Nā kumu: No ke aha e loaʻa ai i nā keiki ke kaumaha mua?

ʻAʻole ʻike iki ʻia i nā keiki, hiki i ka maʻi depressive ke pane i ka ʻano e loli koke, me nā hōʻailona o ke kaumaha i kēlā me kēia lā. No ke aha i pilikia ai nā keiki i ke kaumaha?

Hoololi oia !

He paʻakikī ke ʻike i ke kumu i hoʻololi koke ai kā mākou poʻe liʻiliʻi i ko lākou ʻano. Mai ka hana nui a hiki i ke kaumaha nui, ʻaʻole i paʻa ka ʻano o nā keiki ma mua o ka piha ʻana o 6 mau makahiki. ʻO nā kumu o kēia mau manaʻo kaumaha hiki ke pili i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki akā pū kekahi nā hanana waho ! ʻO ka hemo ʻana o nā mākua, ka neʻe ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻonele ʻana i ka manaʻo hiki ke hoʻohuli i nā kamaliʻi i lalo a hoʻoulu i ke kaumaha reactionary. Ma hope o ko lākou mālama ʻole, hiki i nā keiki ke pilikia.

I kēia manawa, pili ke kaumaha i nā keiki ma kahi o 2% o lākou

Wahi a ka WHO (World Health Organization), ʻelua i loko o ka haneli mau keiki e kaumaha i kekahi manawa.

Ma waena o ka poʻe ʻōpio, hiki ke kiʻi i ʻeono o ka haneli o lākou.

ʻOi aku ka hopena o nā keikikāne i ka wā kamaliʻi a ʻoi aku ka hopena o nā kaikamahine i ka wā ʻōpio.

Nā hōʻailona: He aha nā hōʻailona o ka pilikia i loko o kahi keikikāne kaumaha a kaikamahine paha?

'A'ole like i ka wā makua, he nui nā hō'ailona o ke kaumaha o ka wā kamali'i. Eia ka papa inoa o nā hōʻailona hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i nā mākua o nā keiki kaumaha.

- Ke kaumaha kaumaha: ikaika, hoʻomau, ʻaʻole i haʻi ʻia ma ka waha, ʻeha kino, maka maka maka kaumaha.

- Ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana a me ka waha: ka haʻalele ʻana iā ʻoe iho, ke ʻano o ka haʻalele ʻana, ka luhi, ka ʻilihune o ka ʻōlelo, ʻike ʻole ʻia.

- Hoʻopau i ka naʻauao: ua lohi ke kaʻina noʻonoʻo, hāʻule i nā hopena hoʻonaʻauao, pilikia ka nānā ʻana a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana, nalowale ka hoihoi a me nā pilikia āpau i ke aʻo ʻana, a hiki i ka hemahema o ka hoʻonaʻauao.

- Nā maʻi ʻino: nā ʻano o ka hoʻonāukiuki nui, ka paʻa ʻole, nā hōʻike hoʻomāinoino, ka clowning a i ʻole ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana, e hopena i nā pilikia i ka hui kaiaulu o nā keiki. ʻO ia paha ka mea hoʻohaunaele o ka papa.

- Ka makemake i nā pōʻino a me nā ʻeha: ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea i hōʻeha ʻia i nā pōʻino a i ʻole nā ​​​​hōʻeha i wehewehe ʻole ʻia, e ʻimi ana i nā kūlana weliweli

- Paʻakikī i ka pāʻani ʻana: ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana mai nā hana i kumu o ka leʻaleʻa

- Nā maʻi Somatic: nā hoʻopiʻi kino me ka paʻakikī o ka hiamoe ʻana, ke ala ʻana i ka pō, ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka ʻai a me ka ʻeha o ka ʻōpū e hiki ai ke hoʻoulu i ka anorexia a i ʻole ka maʻi bulimia, a i ʻole ka anal incontinence.

Pehea e haʻi aku ai ke keiki i nā mākua ua kaumaha ʻo ia


"ʻAʻole au makemake e ..", "Hōʻai wau ..", "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hana! “…

ʻO kēia nā ʻano ʻōlelo liʻiliʻi a kāu poʻe liʻiliʻi e noʻonoʻo nei i kekahi mau pule, i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai i kahi hana hou. E emi ana ka waiwai i mua ou a ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe.

ʻOiai ʻōlelo kekahi mau mākua he kuleana ko lākou e hoʻololi a ʻaʻole makemake hou e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kekahi mau leʻaleʻa e like me ka wā ma mua. Pono ʻoe e nīnau iā ʻoe iho inā ʻaʻole kēia e hūnā i kahi mea hohonu.

Ua manaʻo lōʻihi ʻia he maʻi maʻi lua, ʻo ke kaumaha i nā keiki liʻiliʻi he ʻeha ia i hoʻomaopopo ʻole ʻia e ka poʻe a puni ka ʻohana.

Hana ʻia ; he aha nā mea e hoʻoponopono ai i ke kaumaha o ka wā kamaliʻi. Pono mākou e ʻike i kahi keiki psychiatrist?

inā ʻaʻohe lumi no ka kānalua a ʻike ʻia kāu keiki me ke kaumaha, pehea e hana ai ma ke ʻano he makua? Ma keʻano he hana mua, he mea nui e nīnau i kahi pediatric e hiki ke hana i ka hōʻailona a haʻi iāʻoe i ke kaʻina hana maikaʻi loa e hahai ai. Inā pāpā ʻia nā lāʻau antidepressants (koe naʻe nā hihia koʻikoʻi loa me ka hoʻāʻo pepehi kanaka no ka laʻana), e ʻōlelo pinepine ʻia nā mākua. e lawe i ke keiki kaumaha no ke kukakuka ana o na keiki. Inā pilihua nā mākua, hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia ka ʻohana ʻohana i mea e hoʻoponopono hou ai i ke keiki me kona mau mākua. No laila ʻo Psychotherapy ke ala maikaʻi loa e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e mālama i kona olakino noʻonoʻo.

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