Ua kānalua paha ʻoe e haʻi i ka moʻolelo o kou ʻohana?
Hōʻike kēia puke i nā hōʻike mai GPA. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kamaʻilio e pili ana me ka ʻole e kamaʻilio e pili ana i koʻu ʻike. Ua makemake au, akā, ʻaʻole pono. ʻIke wau ʻo ka hōʻike ʻana i koʻu ʻohana e hōʻeha lākou iā lākou. He mōhai ia aʻu i ʻae ai e hana. Ua kamaʻilio nui mākou no ia mea āpau a ʻaʻohe mea i hana me ka ʻole o ka ʻae ʻana o kaʻu mau kaikamahine, haʻi wau iā lākou i nā mea āpau.
ʻAʻole ʻoe makaʻu i ka hopena o nā anti-GPA?
ʻIke ʻoe, ʻoiai kekahi poʻe hoʻopaʻapaʻa leo nui ma ke kīwī, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kaiāulu. Ma ke kula, ma ke alanui, nā mea kālepa ... mai ka manawa e ʻike ai ka poʻe i nā kaikamahine liʻiliʻi kaulike, hōʻike lākou iā lākou iho he lokomaikaʻi. He hauʻoli ko mākou ola i kēlā me kēia lā!
Pehea ʻoe i haʻi aku ai i kāu mau kaikamāhine i kā lākou moʻolelo?
ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu i ka makahiki hea lākou i hoʻomaopopo maoli ai, akā ua haʻi wau iā lākou mai ka hānau ʻana. He mau minuke wale nō ko lākou, wehewehe au iā lākou ua hōʻea lākou i loko o kahi ʻohana me ʻelua mau makua kāne, a ʻo Michelle, nāna i ʻae iā lākou e hānau, ua hoʻokipa ʻo ia i ka hua liʻiliʻi a ka makuakāne i hiki ai iā ia ke ulu. i loko o kona ʻōpū. Hoʻololi liʻiliʻi mākou i kā mākou ʻōlelo e like me ko lākou mau makahiki, a i kēia lā, ʻo kā lākou moʻolelo ia, maʻalahi loa lākou e kamaʻilio.
He ʻano makua kāne ʻoe?
ʻO wau, ʻoi aku koʻu makua kāne ʻae, ʻoiai ʻo François e kau i nā lula. Eia naʻe, ua noʻonoʻo wau i ka mea ʻē aʻe ... ʻoi aku au ma mua o ia a ma luna o nā mea a pau,
ʻoi aku kona maʻalili ma mua o koʻu ola. Akā ʻo ka mea hope loa, ʻoi aku wau i ka mea hoʻomaha a ʻo ia ka mea nāna i hoʻonohonoho i nā papa. I kēia pule, no ka laʻana, aia wau i ka hoʻomaha hoʻokahi me nā kaikamahine, a he mea pōʻino!
He aha ka manaʻo o Michelle, ka mea pani i kou ʻohana?
Ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, i ka wā e koho ai ka makuahine pani iā ʻoe, hālāwai mākou me kāna mau keiki, kāna kāne… Noho mākou i ka manawa nui a hoʻopaʻa ʻia nā pilina paʻa. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke kaʻawale ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o ke keiki, ʻoi aku ka ikaika. No laila i kēlā me kēia makahiki ma hope o ka Kalikimaka, hoʻolimalima mākou i hale a hui pū mākou a pau e noho i kekahi mau lā ma laila. He hoaaloha maoli ʻo Michelle, a haʻaheo ʻo ia i ke kōkua ʻana iā mākou e hoʻomaka i ʻohana. E ʻōlelo wau, ʻoi aku ka nui o kāna pilina pili me mākou ma mua o nā kaikamahine.
He aha nā waiwai āu e makemake ai e hāʻawi i kāu mau kaikamāhine?
Ke ho'āʻo nei au e hoʻohana i kahi hoʻonaʻauao mālama, akā ʻaʻole lax. Paʻa wau i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kā lākou ʻaoʻao noʻeau, ʻaʻole iaʻu. ʻAʻole e ʻike i nā mea āpau ma ke ʻano maʻamau. Ua hana lākou i kā lākou kindergarten ma kahi kula Montessori kahi, inā he mau lula, hoʻolohe nui mākou i ke keiki a me kāna hana hana. Ua hoʻomohala ke keiki liʻiliʻi i ka manaʻo o ke kaha kiʻi, calligraphy ... ʻAʻohe mea i loko o koʻu ola e haʻaheo ai iaʻu ma mua o kaʻu mau kaikamahine!
Ma kāna puke *, "He aha ia
i koʻu ʻohana ”, Grasset editions, Marc-Olivier lawe mai i kāna hōʻike a me kēlā
he mau kakini o nā kāne ʻē aʻe i ka surrogacy.