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Peʻe a ʻimi, kaumaha, pōloli a hiamoe paha, ke manaʻo ʻo ia i ka wā e puka mai ana ka wanaʻao, hana kā kā mākou keiki i nā mea āpau e pale aku ai i ke kaʻina hiki ʻole o ka haʻawina home ma nā papa haʻahaʻa. Makemake mākou e ʻimi i ka meaʻai kilokilo e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kēia hana i kēlā me kēia lā. Me ka pilikia ʻole o ka hopohopo!
Me ka ʻōlelo aʻo a Bernadette Dullin, kākāʻōlelo hoʻonaʻauao a me ke kumu kula a me ka ʻohana, ʻO ka mea nāna i hoʻokumu i ka pūnaewele Happyparents, e hāʻawi ana i nā ʻano aʻo leʻaleʻa a me ka mea kākau o "Kōkua, he haʻawina home kaʻu keiki" (Ed. Hugo New Life).
Nā kumu kūpono
Ma waho aʻe o nā pilikia hoʻonaʻauao a i ʻole ka palaualelo maʻalahi, hiki i kēia hōʻole ke hōʻike ʻana i kahi pilikia e monopolizes kona mau manaʻo: pilikia pilina me kāna kumu, me kāna mau hoa papa, pilikia ʻohana ... noho, ma hope o ka lā i hoʻopau ʻia ma kēia kūlana like, "wahi a Bernadette Dullin, ke kākā'ōlelo hoʻonaʻauao a me ke kumu kula a me ka ʻohana. ʻO ka hope, aia kā mākou ʻike kula ponoʻī e kū hou ana! "Inā hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi ʻole ka makua iā ia, hoʻāla hou ʻia kona hopohopo, huhū ʻo ia no ka makaʻu ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i ka hana, manaʻo ke keiki a ʻālohilohi hou. “
Hana mākou i ka maluhia me ka haʻawina home
Hoʻokumu mākou i kahi kamaʻilio me kā mākou keiki e ʻike i nā kumu o kēia hōʻole ʻana a hiki iā ia ke pane aku inā haʻi ʻo ia iā mākou e hoʻonāukiuki mau ana kekahi hoaaloha iā ia a i ʻole e pāpā pinepine ke kumu iā ia. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia i nā haʻawina home? ʻO ka pololei: ʻo ka hoʻopaʻa ʻole ʻana iā lākou ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻolilo i ka manawa liʻiliʻi iā lākou me ka ʻole o ka nui o ka hana e hana ai ma hope. "He mea nui hoʻi ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi kuʻuna no laila e lawe ʻo ia i ka reflex e hana like ia me ka palaki ʻana i kona mau niho," wahi a ke kumu. ʻO nā mea a pau i kahi mālie, me nā lako i loaʻa, e mālama i ka manawa a me ka nānā.
Ke pāʻani nei mākou ma mua a ma hope paha o ka haʻawina home? ʻO ke komo ʻana i kahi hana leʻaleʻa me ke keiki, i ka pau ʻana o kāna hana, he mea hoʻoikaika. ʻOi loa inā hana kā mākou keiki liʻiliʻi e hoʻoponopono iā ia i kona hoʻi ʻana mai ke kula. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole mākou kānalua e hoʻomaka me ka pāʻani, inā manaʻo mākou he pono e haʻalele iki ma mua o ka iho ʻana i ka hana!
Inā pilikia i ka wā hoʻoikaika kino…
Ke hakakā nei ʻo ia ma kahi hoʻoikaika kino? Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokokoke i kēia hana i ka wā e noho ana i ka zen, a i ʻole mākou e hāʻawi i ka makua ʻē aʻe inā hiki, no ka mea, "inā he kumu ia o ka huhū a i ʻole kahi manawa makaʻu no ke kanaka makua, lilo ka haʻawina home, i ke kaʻina hana. , no ke keiki ”, hoʻopuka ʻo Bernadette Dullin. No laila, ʻo kāna ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pāʻani i ka haʻawina home: hoʻāʻo mākou e hana i ka leʻaleʻa a me ka paʻa. Pono anei ʻo ia e aʻo i ka helu? Ke pāʻani nei mākou ma ke kālepa me nā kālā maoli. Huaʻōlelo e hoʻopaʻanaʻau? Hana mākou iā ia e hana i nā huaʻōlelo me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā leka magnetic i loko o ka pahu hau. E hana ʻo ia me ka leʻaleʻa me ka makaʻu ʻole e hana hewa, no ka mea, ʻo ka nūhou maikaʻi, ʻaʻohe keiki i phobia o ka pāʻani. A "hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi mākou i nā mea a mākou e ʻike ai", ʻōlelo ka loea.