Hoʻopā kaʻu keiki i kāna penis i ka lehulehu, pehea e hana ai?

ʻIke ʻo ia i kona kino

No kekahi manawa i kēia manawa, ma hope o kona ʻauʻau ʻana, ua leʻaleʻa kā mākou keiki liʻiliʻi i ka hele wāwae ʻana i ka hale. A no ka mea, ʻaʻole ia e ʻaʻahu hou i ka diaper, hele ʻo ia mai kahi ʻike a ʻike. Kohu ʻia ʻo ia i kāna penis a hoʻopā mau iā ia. Inā he poʻe ma ka home a ʻaʻole paha, ʻaʻohe mea nui, hoʻomau ʻo ia i kāna hana. He kūlana e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole ai nā mākua, ʻoiai ke ʻakaʻaka ka poʻe malihini. "I ka makahiki 2, nui nā kamaliʻi e ʻaʻahu nei i nā diaper a he liʻiliʻi ka manawa e ʻike ai a hoʻopā i kā lākou penis. ʻO ke kapa ʻole a pau i ke kauwela, no ka laʻana, hiki i ke keiki ke ʻike i kona kino a ʻike i kahi ʻano ʻoluʻolu ke hoʻopā iā ia iho. Akā ʻaʻole ia ke ʻano o ka masturbation, "wahi a psychologist Harry Ifergan.

He puke e hele hou aku ma ke kumuhana ... "Zizis et Zézettes": mai ka haʻahaʻa i ka hilahila a i ʻole ka makemake e ʻakaʻaka, me ka leʻaleʻa a me nā manaʻo mua o ka pilina, ua pane kēia "P'tit Pourquoi" i nā nīnau āpau a nā kamaliʻi. , maʻalahi a pololei. Na Jess Pauwels (Kiʻi) ʻO Camille Laurans (Kākau). ʻO Milan Editions. Mai 3 makahiki.

E aʻo aku iā ia i ka haʻahaʻa

ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa, he mea koʻikoʻi ke pā ʻana i kāna penis no ke keiki. ʻIke wale ʻo ia i kāna mea e ʻike ai a hiki i kēlā manawa i hūnā pinepine ʻia ma hope o kona wahi moe. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka ʻike maoli! ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ia he kumu e ʻae iā ia e hana i mua o nā mea a pau. No laila mākou e wehewehe mālie iā ia ʻo ia kona pilikino a ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e leʻaleʻa olohelohe i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻopā iā ia iho i mua o lākou. He kānāwai kūpono kēia no nā mea a pau. Hiki iā mākou ke haʻi iā ia e hele i kona lumi inā makemake ʻo ia e ʻike i kona kino me ka mālie a me ka ʻike ʻole. Ma nā hihia a pau, inā paha he mea hilahila ke kūlana, hana mākou me ka ʻole o ka hoʻomāhuahua ʻana, me ka ʻole o ka hōʻino ʻana iā ia, a i ʻole ka ʻuā ʻana iā ia a i ʻole ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana iā ia. "Ke pale aku nei mākou i ke komo ʻana me ka ikaika i ʻole e hōʻailona i ke keiki. Kamaʻilio mākou iā ia me ka mālie a me ke ʻano kaʻawale. ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo he pilikia nui kāna hana iā mākou. A i ʻole, pilikia ʻo ia i ka pāʻani ʻana a lilo ia i mea ʻē aʻe e hōʻailona ai i kona kūʻē ʻana i kona mau mākua, "hoʻomau ʻo Harry Ifergan. Mai poina iā kākou i kēia mau makahiki aia ke keiki i ka wā kūʻē!

Pehea inā hoʻopā ʻo ia i kona mau hoaaloha? He aha ka ʻōlelo a kekahi ?

Inā hoʻomau ke keiki e hoʻopā iā ia iho i ka lehulehu me nā mea āpau a makemake paha e pāʻani i ka "pee-pee" me kāna mau hoa papa ma ke kula hānai a i ʻole ke kula, wehewehe hou ʻo ia ʻo kona kino ia a ʻaʻohe kanaka. ka pono e hoopa aku. Pēlā nō, pilikino nā kino o nā hoaaloha. ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻopā i nā ʻāpana pilikino. ʻO ka manawa kēia e hoʻomaopopo iā ia i ka haʻahaʻa, ka mahalo i ka pilikino, e haʻi iā ia i ka mea hiki ke hana a ʻaʻole paha. Hiki iā mākou ke kōkua, inā pono, nā puke a nā keiki e pili ana i ke kumuhana e wehewehe i kēia mau mea a pau iā ia ma nā huaʻōlelo kūpono. Inā ʻaʻole mākou e hana nui akā hoʻonohonoho i nā lula mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana, e hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia he kuleana ʻo ia e ʻike i kona kino ma nā wahi kūpono, ke noho wale ʻo ia. E hoʻomaopopo naʻe, loaʻa ka "sense of intimacy" i ka makahiki 9 no nā kaikamahine a ma kahi o 11 mau makahiki no nā keikikāne.

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