ʻAʻole wale i nā mea ʻono: no ke aha e pōʻino ai ka snus no kā mākou mau keiki

Makaʻu mākou, no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo pono i ke ʻano o ka snus a me ke kumu i kaulana loa ai i nā keiki. Loaʻa i nā mākua kā lākou mau moʻolelo ponoʻī e pili ana i ka snus, ka poʻe i maopopo he lāʻau lapaʻau kēia mau ʻeke a me nā lollipop e like me ka "spice" kaulana. Akā ʻo ia?

ʻO ka lāʻau lapaʻau a ʻaʻole paha?

"I ka wā mua, he inoa maʻamau ka snus no nā huahana nicotine i hoʻohana ʻia no ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i ka addiction i ka paka," wehewehe ʻo Alexei Kazakov, kahi loea i ka hana me nā mea hoʻohui. A ma nā ʻāina o Scandinavia, kahi i hana ʻia ai ka snus, ua kapa ʻia kēia huaʻōlelo ʻo chewing a snuff.

I ko mākou ʻāina, he mea maʻamau ka snus non-tabaki a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea ʻono: sachets, lollipops, marmalade, kahi i loaʻa ʻole ai ka paka, akā aia maoli ka nicotine. Ma waho aʻe o ka nicotine, hiki i ka snus ke loaʻa i ka paʻakai papaʻaina a i ʻole ke kō, ka wai, ka soda, nā mea ʻono, no laila ke ʻōlelo pinepine nei nā mea kūʻai aku he huahana "kūlohelohe". Akā ʻaʻole ʻo kēia "kūlohelohe" e hōʻemi i ka pōʻino i ke olakino.

Laau hou?

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Snus blogger ʻaʻole ia he lāʻau. A ʻo ka mea kupanaha, ʻaʻole lākou e wahaheʻe, no ka mea, ʻo ka lāʻau lapaʻau, e like me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka World Health Organization, "he mea hana kemika e hoʻoulu ai i ka stupor, coma, a i ʻole insensitivity i ka ʻeha."

ʻO ka huaʻōlelo "lāʻau lāʻau" e pili ana i nā mea psychoactive kūʻokoʻa - a me ka nicotine, me ka caffeine a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea ʻē aʻe mai nā lāʻau lapaʻau like ʻole, ʻaʻole ia kekahi o lākou. "ʻAʻole nā ​​mea psychoactive āpau he lāʻau lapaʻau, akā ʻo nā lāʻau lapaʻau āpau he mau mea psychoactive, a ʻo kēia ka ʻokoʻa," i ʻōlelo ai ka loea.

Hoʻopili kekahi mau mea psychoactive i ka hana o ka ʻōnaehana nerve waena a hoʻololi i ke kūlana noʻonoʻo. Akā ʻo ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i ka nicotine, ʻoiai ma ke ʻano kiʻekiʻe, e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka pōʻino i hana ʻia me nā opioids like ʻole a i ʻole "spice" ʻaʻole pololei loa.

ʻO Snus, ʻaʻole like me kā mākou i kapa ai i nā lāʻau lapaʻau, kūʻai ʻia ma ke kānāwai ma nā hale kūʻai paka. No ka hāʻawi ʻana, ʻaʻohe kanaka e kū i ke kuleana kalaima. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole pāpā ke kānāwai i ke kūʻai ʻana aku i ka snus i nā keiki liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻole hiki ke kūʻai ʻia nā huahana paka i nā keiki, akā hiki ke kūʻai ʻia nā huahana i loaʻa ka mea nui o ka "tabako".

ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kēia manawa ke noʻonoʻo nei ka lehulehu e pili ana i ka palena o ke kūʻai aku ʻana i ka snus. No laila, i ka lā 23 o Dekemaba, ua noi ka Federation Council i ke aupuni e hoʻokuʻu i ke kūʻai aku ʻana i nā mea ʻono a me nā marmalades i loko o nā ʻeke kukui.

Ke koi nei ka poʻe blog e hoʻolaha ana i ka snus i manaʻo ʻia he palekana. "Hiki i ka nui o ka nicotine i hoʻokahi lawelawe o ka snus. No laila ke kumu ia i ka addiction nicotine like me ka paka - a ikaika loa. A hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e ʻeha mai ia mea, no ka mea, ʻo ka hoʻohui ʻana, ke kumu o ka haʻalele. Eia kekahi, pilikia nā ʻāʻī a me nā niho i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka snus, "wahi a Alexey Kazakov.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ke ʻano o ka snus i kūʻai ʻia ma ke ʻano o kahi sachet pono e mālama ʻia ma lalo o ka lehelehe no 20-30 mau minuke i komo ka mea hana i ke kahe koko. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻohe mea i kāpae i ka pane ʻana o kēlā me kēia i ka "nicotine shock" i hoʻolaha ʻia e nā mea paʻi puke. He ʻoiaʻiʻo ka make ʻana o Snus – a maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole hiki ke pilikia i ka haukapila. Aia kekahi mau pilikia ʻē aʻe. "ʻAʻole maopopo i ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana o ka snus, ma lalo o nā kūlana e hiki mai ana. ʻAʻole mākou e ʻike maopopo i ka mea i hui maoli ʻia ma laila, "wahi a Alexei Kazakov.

No ke aha lākou e pono ai?

I ka wā i lilo ai ka kaʻawale ʻana mai nā mākua i mea nui, hoʻomaka nā keiki e lawe i nā pilikia. A ʻo snus he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hana ai i kahi mea kipi, akā me ka ʻike ʻole o nā lunakahiko. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ke hoʻohana nei ʻoe i kekahi ʻano mea "mākua", akā ʻaʻole ʻike iki nā mākua. ʻAʻole ʻono e like me ka uahi, ʻaʻole e melemele nā ​​manamana lima, a ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu loa ka ʻono o kahi huahana nicotine.

No ke aha i makemake nui ai nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio i nā mea lāʻau? "He nui nā kumu. Akā ke ʻimi pinepine nei lākou i ia mau ʻike i mea e hoʻokō ai i nā manaʻo i kapa ʻia he ʻino. Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i ka makaʻu, ka kānalua iā ʻoe iho, ka hauʻoli, ka manaʻo o ka insolvency.

ʻAʻole maikaʻi loa nā ʻōpio me nā manaʻo. ʻO ka mea e hana ai iā lākou, ʻōlelo pinepine lākou iā lākou iho he "mea". ʻAʻole hiki ke noho ma kēia mokuʻāina no ka manawa lōʻihi. A ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea psychoactive "hana" ma ke ʻano he anesthesia pōkole. Hoʻopaʻa ʻia ka hoʻolālā me ka hana hou ʻana: hoʻomanaʻo ka lolo i ka wā o ka ʻāʻī, pono ʻoe e lawe i ka "lāʻau lapaʻau," ʻōlelo ʻo Aleksey Kazakov.

Kūkākūkā Paʻakikī

Akā, pehea e hiki ai iā mākou, ma ke ʻano he poʻe mākua, ke kamaʻilio me ke keiki e pili ana i ka pōʻino o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka lāʻau? He nīnau paʻakikī. “Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole kūpono ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi haʻiʻōlelo kūikawā: e aʻo, aʻo, hoʻolaha e pili ana i nā mea weliweli a me nā moeʻuhane o kēia ao. No ka mea, ua lohe mua ke keiki a ʻike i kēia mau mea a pau. Inā "goon" ʻoe e pili ana i ka pōʻino, e hoʻonui wale kēia i ka mamao ma waena o ʻoe a ʻaʻole e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka pilina. ʻO ka manawa hea ʻoe i aloha ai i kahi mea e kani ana i kou pepeiao?" wahi a Alexey Kazakov. Akā hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo maoli ʻaʻole e hōʻeha ka ʻōlelo pololei ma ia kamaʻilio.

"No ka hoʻokokoke pili kaiapuni a hilinaʻi wau. Inā hilinaʻi ke keiki i ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne, e piʻi mai ʻo ia a nīnau i nā mea āpau iā ia iho - a haʻi paha. 'Ōlelo lākou, "Pēlā a pēlā, hoʻolei nā kāne iā lākou iho, hāʻawi mai lākou iaʻu, akā ʻaʻole wau ʻike i ka mea e pane aku ai." A i ʻole - "Ua hoʻāʻo wau, ʻōlelo ʻole." A i ʻole "Ua hoʻāʻo wau a makemake wau." A i kēia manawa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e kūkulu i kahi kamaʻilio, "wahi a Alexei Kazakov. He aha ka mea e kamaʻilio ai?

"Hiki i nā mākua ke kaʻana like i kā lākou ʻike me nā wikiō snus. E haʻi iā lākou ua hopohopo a hopohopo lākou no kā lākou keiki. ʻO ka mea nui ʻaʻole ia e holo i loko, akā e ʻimi i ke kumu maʻamau, "manaʻo ka psychologist. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kūkulu i kahi kamaʻilio, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i ke kōkua mai nā poʻe loea i ke kahua o ka psychotherapy.

"ʻO ke kumu hohonu loa o kā mākou ʻike ʻaʻole i loko o ke keiki a ʻaʻole i kāna hana, akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa mākou i ka mālama ʻana i ko mākou makaʻu. Ke hoʻāʻo nei mākou e hoʻopau koke iā ia - ʻoiai ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i ko mākou manaʻo he makaʻu, "wahi a Aleksey Kazakov. Inā ʻaʻole "hoʻolei" ka makua i ko lākou makaʻu ma luna o ke keiki, inā hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokō iā ia, e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia, e noho i loko, hoʻonui kēia i ka manawa e hele ʻole ke keiki i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea psychoactive.

'Ōlelo pinepine nā mākua e hoʻoikaika i ka mana ma luna o ke keiki. E hōʻemi i ka nui o ka ʻeke kālā, e hahai i nā kumuhana o kāna hoihoi i nā ʻoihana pūnaewele, e kau inoa iā ia no nā papa hou aʻe i ʻole he minuke manawa manawaleʻa.

"ʻO kaʻoi aku o ka mana,ʻo ka nui o ke kū'ēʻana,"ʻo Aleksey Kazakov i maopopo. - No ka hoʻomaluʻana i kahi'ōpiopio, e like me nā mea'ē aʻe, ma keʻano, hikiʻole. Hiki iā ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa wale i ka hoʻopunipuni e hoʻomalu nei ʻoe. Inā makemake ʻo ia e hana i kekahi mea, e hana ʻo ia. ʻO ke komo ʻana me ka pono ʻole i ke ola o kahi ʻōpio e hoʻohui wale i ka wahie i ke ahi.

ʻO nā hoaaloha a me nā mea kākau moʻolelo ke hewa no nā mea a pau?

Ke makaʻu a ʻeha mākou, ʻimi maoli mākou e ʻimi i ka "hewa" e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ko mākou mau manaʻo. A ʻo nā mea kākau moʻolelo e hoʻolaha ana i nā huahana ma kā lākou mau ala ponoʻī a me nā hui e hana nui i ka moʻolelo snus. ʻAe, a, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ka "hui hewa" i "aʻo i nā mea ʻino."

"He mea koʻikoʻi loa nā hoa a me nā kiʻi no kahi ʻōpio: ke komo ke keiki i kahi makahiki hoʻololi, loaʻa iā ia kahi pilikia ʻike, ke ʻimi nei ʻo ia iā ia iho," wahi a Alexei Kazakov. ʻO mākou, nā mākua, ka mea maopopo (a ʻaʻole i nā manawa a pau!) Hoʻolaha nā kānaka i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai, a pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo he loaʻa kālā lākou ma kēia hoʻolaha.

Akā inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pahū hormonal, paʻakikī maoli ka noʻonoʻo koʻikoʻi - aneane hiki ʻole! No laila, hiki i ka hoʻolaha koʻikoʻi ke hoʻopilikia i kekahi. Akā, inā e ho'āʻo nā mākua e kamaʻilio me ke keiki, inā e hana ana nā kānaka o kaʻohana e kūkulu i nā pilina - a pono e kūkuluʻia,ʻaʻole lākou e hana pono iā lākou iho - a laila, he mea nuiʻole ka mana o waho.

ʻOiai e noʻonoʻo ana ka poʻe kālai'āina pehea e kaupalena ʻia ai ke kūʻai aku ʻana i ka snus a me ka mea e hana ai me nā mea blog e hoʻomaikaʻi nei i nā ʻeke kaulana a me nā lollipops ma nā ʻano āpau, mai pāʻani i ka pāʻani hewa. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ma kēiaʻano e hoʻopilikia waleʻia mākou e ka "ʻenemi waho", e noho mau ana i loko o ko mākou ola ma kekahiʻano a iʻole kekahi. A i ka manawa like, nalowale ka mea nui mai ka manaʻo: ko mākou pilina me ke keiki. A ʻo lākou, koe wale nō mākou, ʻaʻohe mea nāna e hoʻopakele a hoʻoponopono.