Nā hōʻailona nānā ʻia

ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona i ʻike ʻia ke kumu o ka objectivity. ʻO ia ka mea e hana ai ka manaʻo, hoʻoholo pono, hana pono.

ʻO ka ʻōlelo "kanaka maikaʻi" ʻaʻole ia e ʻōlelo. He aha nā hōʻailona ʻike ʻia o ke kanaka maikaʻi? Pehea ʻoe e hoʻoholo ai he maikaʻi kēia kanaka? «Suppression o emotions» — a hiki i ka manawa, e no hoi i ka dummy manaʻo, he manaʻo e pili ana i ka mea ole, a hiki i ka wehewehe maopopo observable hoailona.

Ma ke ʻano maʻamau, ʻike ʻia nā hōʻailona i ʻike ʻia ma ka ʻike naʻau ma o nā naʻau o waho: ʻo ia nā mea hiki iā mākou ke ʻike, lohe a ʻike paha. I ka manawa like, ʻaʻole maikaʻi nā hōʻailona i ʻike ʻia, e hōʻole ana i nā mea āpau i loko. ʻAʻole hiki ke hōʻemi ʻia nā hōʻailona ʻike ʻia i ka ʻikepili mai nā ʻike o waho, hiki ke lilo i mau memo mai ka naʻau o loko, inā e hoʻopuka hou ʻia lākou e ka poʻe a mākou e noʻonoʻo ai i nā loea i kēia mea.

"Hilinaʻi wau!" aiʻole "ʻAʻole wau i manaʻoʻiʻo!" ʻO KS Stanislavsky kekahi o nā mea hiki. Inā'ōleloʻo Konstantin Sergeevich "ʻAʻole wau i manaʻoʻiʻo", a laila e pāʻani nāwaliwali nā mea hana, me kaʻoihanaʻole.

Hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā hōʻailona i loko o ko mākou honua i loko inā, ke kaha ʻia i ke kiʻi a i ʻole wikiō, ʻike maʻalahi ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Me he mea lā he hana holoʻokoʻa kēia no ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi ʻano ʻoiaʻiʻo ma hope o nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole: inā ma lalo o kekahi manaʻo noʻonoʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa a hana i kahi kiʻi wikiō mai ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni e hōʻike ana, aia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma hope o ka huaʻōlelo. Hiki ke hōʻoia maʻalahi kēia: ma ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni, hiki ke hōʻike ʻia ka noʻonoʻo, hiki ke hōʻike ʻia ka ʻōlelo i loko, hiki ke hōʻike ʻia ke aloha, ʻike maʻalahi ke aloha a me ke aloha ...

Inā hikiʻole ke loaʻa i kēia ma kekahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni, me he mea lā ua hele mai nā psychologists me kahi mea iʻikeʻoleʻia e nā kānaka i ke ola.

ʻIke ʻia nā hōʻailona a me nā wehewehe

Ma ka wikiō wikiō, ʻike mākou ua paʻa ka makuahine i ke keiki ma kona mau lima a hoʻohaʻahaʻa a hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha i ke keiki i ka papahele i nā manawa he nui. Keʻike nei mākou e hoʻomaka ana ke keiki e uē me ka manaʻo huhū i ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai ka makuahine e hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ia i lalo i ka papahele, a kū i ka wā e paʻa hou ai ka makuahine iā ia ma kona mau lima. He pahuhopu kēia, a he ʻokoʻa loa ka wehewehe ʻana. Inā ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka makuahine ko mākou aloha, e ʻōlelo mākou e hoʻāʻo ana ke keiki e aʻo i ka makuahine, a ʻo ka makuahine ke aʻo mālie i kāna ʻano. Inā ma ka ʻaoʻao o ke keiki ko mākou aloha, e ʻōlelo mākou e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa ana ka makuahine iā ia. ʻO ka "hoʻohenehene" kahi wehewehe, aia ma hope o nā manaʻo. A hoʻomaka ka ʻepekema me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻokuke mākou i nā manaʻo, hoʻomaka ka ʻepekema me nā hōʻailona pahuhopu a ʻike ʻia.

ninaninau

Ma kā mākou noiʻi, noi mākou i nā haumāna mai ke Kulanui o Practical Psychology e loiloi i kēia mau manaʻo: "Irresponsible behavior, the position of the Victim", "Unconscious want (he makemake hohonu e like me Freud, e kū'ē i kahi manaʻo hoʻohālikelike, ka hōʻike ʻana). ʻO nā hana kahiko a i ʻole nā ​​​​makemake i ʻike ʻole ʻia)», "Ka ulu ʻana pilikino (e kūʻē i ka hoʻomohala pilikino a i ʻole ka loaʻa maʻamau o ka ʻike ola)", "Ke kuleana kūpono, ka hōʻike ʻana i ke kūlana o ka mea kākau", "Psychological trauma (e like me kū'ē i ka huhū i ka pilikia i hana ʻia a i ʻole ka makemake e ʻeha ma lalo o kahi kumu kūpono ʻole)", "ʻO ka pono o ke kamaʻilio (ma ka ʻokoʻa mai ka makemake a me ka hoihoi i ka kamaʻilio)", "ʻae iā ʻoe iho", "Enlightenment", "Centropupism "a me ka "Egoism"

ʻO ia hoʻi, ua noi mākou iā lākou e pane i ka nīnau o nā manaʻo a lākou e manaʻo nei e hana ana, me nā hōʻailona ʻike ʻia, kūpono no ka hoʻohana pono ʻana i ka hana hana. Aneane lokahi, na manaʻo o ka "kūpono hana, ka expressiveness o ka mea kākau kūlana", "Irresponsible hana, ke kūlana o ka Victim", "Personal ulu" a me ka "Centropupism" i positively ike. E like me ka mea pohihihi loa, me ka maopopo ole ikeia hiʻona, "Enlightenment", "Pono no ke kamaʻilio", "Psychological trauma" a me ka "Unconscious makemake".

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