ʻAʻole ia he mea huna ʻo ka ʻimi ʻana i nā manaʻo olaola e huli pinepine i kahi manaʻo o ka nele. No ke aha kēia hana, a ʻo ka mea nui loa - he aha ka mea e hana ai?
- Haʻalele mākou i nā manaʻo maikaʻi! Ua haʻi mai kahi keiki XNUMX makahiki iaʻu, e noʻonoʻo ana i ke kumu i nui ai nā ʻano maʻi like ʻole i kēia lā.
– A he aha ka hana?
— Pono mākou i nā manaʻo maikaʻi aʻe! hiki mai ka pane kūpono.
Nui ka poʻe e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaopopo i kēia manaʻo, akā no kekahi kumu ʻaʻole lākou e hauʻoli. Hoʻololi ʻia kahi piʻi pōkole e ka emi ʻana. A me ka manaʻo o ka nele.
He mea kamaʻāina ia i nā mea he nui: ʻike ʻia ka haʻahaʻa o loko, no ka laʻana, ma hope o kahi pāʻina walaʻau kahi i nui ai ka leʻaleʻa, akā i ka manawa e hāmau ai nā leo, ua like ia me ka makemake i loko o ka ʻuhane ... Ke pāʻani nei i nā pāʻani kamepiula no kahi lōʻihi. manawa, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka leʻaleʻa he nui, akā i ka wā e puka ai ʻoe i waho o ka honua virtual, mai ka leʻaleʻa ʻaʻohe trace - ʻo ka luhi wale nō.
He aha nā ʻōlelo aʻo a mākou e lohe ai ke hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻopiha iā mākou iho me nā manaʻo maikaʻi? E hui i nā hoaaloha, e hana i kahi leʻaleʻa, huakaʻi, hele i ka haʻuki, hele i ke ʻano maoli… No ke aha mai?
ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻopiha iā ʻoe iho me nā manaʻo, ʻo ia ka hoʻomālamalama ʻana i nā kukui he nui ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i kā lākou hōʻailona.
ʻO ka kuhihewa ʻaʻole hiki i nā manaʻo ke hoʻokō iā mākou iho. ʻO nā manaʻo he ʻano hōʻailona, nā ʻōpuʻu kukui ma ka dashboard. ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻopiha iā ʻoe iho me nā manaʻo, ʻo ia ka hoʻomālamalama ʻana i nā ʻōpuʻu kukui e like me ka hiki, ma kahi o ka hele ʻana a nānā - he aha kā lākou hōʻailona?
Hoʻopili pinepine mākou ʻelua mau mokuʻāina ʻokoʻa loa: leʻaleʻa a me ka ʻoluʻolu. Hoʻopili ʻia ka māʻona (ke kino a i ʻole ka manaʻo) me ka ʻoluʻolu. A ʻo ka leʻaleʻa e hāʻawi i ka ʻono o ke ola, akā ʻaʻole e hoʻopiha ...
Hiki mai ka ʻoluʻolu ke ʻike au i ka mea nui a me ka mea nui iaʻu. Hiki i ka huakaʻi ke lilo i mea maikaʻi loa ke ʻike wau i kaʻu moeʻuhane, a ʻaʻole e hana ma ke kumu o "e hele kāua i kahi, ua luhi wau i ka hana maʻamau". ʻO ka hui ʻana i nā hoaaloha e hoʻopiha iaʻu i koʻu makemake e ʻike pono i kēia poʻe, ʻaʻole wale "leʻaleʻa." No ka mea makemake i ka ulu ʻana i nā mea kanu, ʻo kahi lā ma ka dacha kahi ʻike ʻoluʻolu, akā no ka mea i alakaʻi ʻia ma laila e ka ikaika, makemake a me ke kaumaha.
Hāʻawi nā manaʻo i ka ikehu, akā hiki ke paʻi ʻia kēia ikehu, a i ʻole hiki ke kuhikuhi ʻia i ka mea e hoʻopiha ai iaʻu. No laila ma mua o ka nīnau ʻana, "Ma hea e loaʻa ai iaʻu nā manaʻo maikaʻi," ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nīnau ʻana, "He aha ka mea e hoʻopiha ai iaʻu?" He aha ka mea waiwai iaʻu, he aha nā hana e hāʻawi mai iaʻu i ka manaʻo e neʻe nei koʻu ola i ke ala aʻu e makemake ai, a ʻaʻole wikiwiki (a kauo paha) i kahi kuhikuhi hiki ʻole ke hoʻomaopopo.
ʻAʻole hiki i ka hauʻoli ke pahuhopu o ke olaUa ʻōlelo ʻo Victor Frankl. ʻO ka hauʻoli kahi hopena o ka ʻike ʻana i kā mākou mau waiwai (a i ʻole ka manaʻo o ka neʻe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou). A ʻo nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻo ia ka cherry ma ka keke. ʻAʻole naʻe ka keke ponoʻī.