I ke ola holoʻokoʻa, lilo pinepine mākou i mea hōʻeha i nā stereotypes e pili ana i ka makahiki. I kekahi manawa ʻōpiopio loa, i kekahi manawa ʻoi loa… ʻO ka mea nui loa, pili ia ʻano hoʻokae i ke ola kino a me ke kino o ka ʻelemakule. Ma muli o ka makahiki, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī iā lākou e ʻike iā lākou iho, a ʻo nā hoʻoholo stereotyped o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hōʻemi i ka pōʻai o ke kamaʻilio. Akā ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki koke mākou i ka wā ʻelemakule ...
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"Ke nalowale nei kaʻu mea kūʻai. ʻO ka manawa kēia no ka ʻoki plastik, "i ʻōlelo mai ai kahi hoaaloha iaʻu me ka ʻakaʻaka kaumaha. ʻO Vlada he 50, a ʻo ia, ma kāna mau ʻōlelo, "hana me kona alo." ʻOiaʻiʻo, alakaʻi ʻo ia i nā papa hoʻomaʻamaʻa no nā limahana o nā ʻoihana nui. Loaʻa iā ia ʻelua mau kula kiʻekiʻe, he manaʻo ākea, ʻike waiwai a me kahi makana no ka hana ʻana me nā kānaka. Akā, loaʻa iā ia nā wrinkles mimic ma kona mau maka a me ka lauoho hina i kona lauoho ʻoki nani.
Manaʻo ke alakaʻi ʻo ia, ma ke ʻano he kaʻi, he ʻōpio a he nani, inā ʻaʻole "ʻaʻole e manaʻo nui ka lehulehu." Ua makemakeʻo Vlada i kānaʻoihana a hopohopoʻo ia i ka waihoʻoleʻia me ke kālāʻole, no laila ua mākaukauʻo ia, e kū'ē i kona makemake iho, e hele i lalo o ka pahi, iʻole e nalowale kāna "hōʻike".
He laʻana maʻamau kēia o ka makahiki - ka hoʻokae ma muli o ka makahiki. Hōʻike nā haʻawina ua ʻoi aku ka laulā ma mua o ka sexism a me ka racism. Inā ʻoe e nānā nei i nā wehe ʻoihana, e ʻike paha ʻoe, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ke ʻimi nei nā hui i nā limahana ma lalo o 45 mau makahiki.
"E kōkua ka noʻonoʻo stereotypical i ka maʻalahi o ke kiʻi o ka honua. Akā pinepine ka manaʻo hoʻohalahala i ka manaʻo kūpono o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. No ka laʻana, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā mea hana e hōʻike i nā palena makahiki i nā hakahaka ma muli o ke ʻano o ka maikaʻi ʻole o ka aʻo ʻana ma hope o 45 mau makahiki, "wahi a kekahi loea i ke kahua o ka gerontology a me nā geriatrics, ʻo Professor Andrey Ilnitsky.
Ma muli o ka mana o ka ageism, ʻaʻole hāʻawi kekahi mau kauka i nā poʻe maʻi kahiko e hana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, e pili ana i ka maʻi me ka makahiki. A ua kuhi hewa ʻia nā kūlana olakino e like me ka dementia i nā hopena ʻaoʻao o ka ʻelemakule maʻamau, wahi a ka loea.
ʻAʻohe puka?
“Hoʻoulu ʻia ke kiʻi o ka ʻōpio mau loa i ke kaiāulu. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona o ke oʻo, e like me ka lauoho hina a me nā wrinkles, hūnā mau ʻia. Hoʻopili pū ʻia kā mākou mau manaʻo e ka manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole i ka makahiki hoʻomaha. Wahi a nā koho balota, pili ka poʻe Lūkini i ka ʻelemakule me ka ʻilihune, ka maʻi a me ka mehameha.
No laila, aia mākou i kahi make. Ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi, ʻaʻole ola ka poʻe ʻelemakule ma muli o ka manaʻo ʻino iā lākou. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ua hoʻoikaika ʻia ka manaʻo stereotypical i loko o ke kaiāulu ma muli o ka pau ʻana o ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ke alakaʻi ʻana i kahi ola olakino me ka makahiki, "wahi a Andrey Ilnitsky.
He kumu maikaʻi e hakakā ai i ka makahiki
Ke ola mau ʻole. ʻAʻole i hana ʻia ka elixir o ka ʻōpio mau loa. Aʻo ka poʻe a pau i kēia lā e puhi i nā limahana 50+, e kāhea i nā penikala he "pennies", e hoʻolohe iā lākou me ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana, a iʻole e kamaʻilio e like me nā keiki kūponoʻole ("OK, boomer!"), Ma hope o kekahi manawa, e komo lākou i kēia makahiki.
Makemake lākou i nā kānaka e "poina" i ko lākou ʻike, nā mākau a me nā ʻano ʻuhane, e ʻike ana i ka lauoho hina a me nā wrinkles? E makemake paha lākou inā hoʻomaka lākou e kaupalena ʻia, hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai ka nohona pili kanaka, a i ʻole i manaʻo ʻia he nāwaliwali a ʻaʻole kūpono?
"Ke alakaʻi nei ka infantilization o ka poʻe ʻelemakule i ka emi ʻana o ka manaʻo ponoʻī. Hoʻonui kēia i ka pilikia o ke kaumaha a me ka noho kaʻawale. ʻO ka hopena, ʻae ka poʻe penihana i ka stereotype a ʻike iā lākou iho e like me ka ʻike ʻana o ka lehulehu iā lākou. ʻO ka poʻe ʻelemākule i ʻike i ko lākou ʻelemakule e ola maikaʻi ʻole mai ke kino kīnā a, ma ka awelika, ola ʻehiku mau makahiki ma lalo o ka poʻe me ka manaʻo maikaʻi i ko lākou mau makahiki, "wahi a Andrey Ilnitsky.
Malia paha ʻo ka makahiki ʻo ia wale nō ke ʻano o ka hoʻokae ʻana i hiki ai i ka "hoʻoauau" ke lilo i "hōʻeha" (inā ola ʻo ia a ʻelemakule). ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻo ka poʻe i kēia manawa he 20 a me 30 mau makahiki e pono ke komo ikaika i ka hakakā ʻana i ka makahiki. A laila, kokoke paha i ka 50, ʻaʻole lākou e hopohopo hou i ka "hōʻike".
He paʻakikī loa ka hoʻoponopono ʻana me ka manaʻo hoʻopaʻapaʻa hohonu iā ʻoe iho, manaʻo ka loea. No ka pale ʻana i ka ageism, pono mākou e noʻonoʻo hou i ke ʻano o ka ʻelemakule. I nā ʻāina holomua, hoʻoikaika ikaika ʻia ka neʻe anti-makahiki, e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole ʻo ka ʻelemakule he manawa weliweli i ke ola.
Wahi a nā wānana UN, i loko o ʻekolu mau makahiki, ʻoi aku ka pālua o ka nui o ka poʻe ma luna o 60 mau makahiki ma ko mākou honua e like me kēia manawa. A ʻo kēia wale nō ka poʻe i loaʻa i kēia lā ka manawa e hoʻohuli ai i ka loli o ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu - a laila e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana.