Psycho-mom: 10 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e manaʻoʻiʻo iā ʻoe iho!

E ho'ōki i ka pili ʻana i ka manaʻo makuahine

ʻO ka makuahine kumu hoʻohālike ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō ke ahonui, ka hoʻolaʻa ponoʻī, ka loaʻa a me ke akahai! ʻOiaʻiʻo, he makuahine ʻoe a ʻo kāu kuleana ke noho ma laila i ka wā e pono ai kāu keiki liʻiliʻi iā ʻoe, akā aia kekahi mau manawa e luhi ʻoe, kaumaha, kaumaha ... He mea maʻamau ka hānai ʻana i ka manawa i ka manawa, he kanaka, aole he haipule!

A ma luna o nā mea a pau, e haʻi iā ʻoe iho ʻaʻohe makuahine ʻē aʻe i kūpono, no laila ʻaʻole pono e noʻonoʻo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma mua o ʻoe, ua loaʻa iā lākou kahi manaʻo makuahine infallible, ʻo kā lākou pēpē he ʻānela a ʻo ko lākou ola he makuahine ma mua o ka hauʻoli ...

Pela no kou makuahine ponoi. E lawe i ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻonaʻauao i loaʻa iā ʻoe, akā mai hoʻokaʻulua e hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho, i kekahi hihia i kahi mamao, mai ke kumu hoʻohālike makuahine. A inā he makuahine a puni ʻoe i ʻike ʻoe he ʻoluʻolu a mākaukau, e nīnau iā ʻoe iho i kāna mea e hana ai i kou kūlana, e hoʻohālike i nā ʻano āu e manaʻo ai he kūpono, e koho i ka ʻākau a me ka hema e hana i kou ʻano ponoʻī.

E "maikaʻi"

Makemake ʻoe e lilo i makuahine maikaʻi a manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole lawa kāu hana i nā manawa āpau. ʻAe, e haʻi iā ʻoe iho ʻo ia ka mea e pono ai kāu keiki, he makuahine maikaʻi a aloha, akā ma luna o nā mea āpau ʻaʻole i kau ʻia ma kāna keiki wale nō. Mai ho'āʻo e hoʻomāʻona i kāu keiki, e manaʻo mua i kāna mau makemake a pau, e hoʻomanawanui ʻo ia, mai manaʻo hewa ke hōʻike ʻo ia i kona hauʻoli ... ʻO ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa he ʻāpana ia o ke ola o kēlā me kēia kanaka, e komo pū me kāu waiwai liʻiliʻi.

Mai hoʻokūkū no ke poʻo inoa o "miss perfection"

Hoʻopili ʻia kou hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho e nā makaʻu e pale aku iā ʻoe mai ka maikaʻi loa i kāu kuleana ma ke ʻano he makuahine: ka makaʻu i ka hana ʻino, ka makaʻu i ka leʻaleʻa a me ka makaʻu i ka maikaʻi ʻole. Ke ʻōlelo mai ka leo liʻiliʻi iā ʻoe "E hana ʻoe i kēia a i kēlā, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hiki, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ana," e pani iā ​​ia. E hakakā me ka hoʻomau ʻole i kou makemake i ka hemolele, no ka mea, he pahele ia e ʻawaʻawa ai a hoʻohewahewa nā makuahine. Mai noi i ka manaʻo o kēlā me kēia kanaka, mai ʻimi i ka ʻae ākea, e loaʻa mau ana kekahi e ʻimi hewa. E hoʻoikaika ʻia e nā ʻano hoʻonaʻauao āu e manaʻo ai he maikaʻi, akā mai hahai i kekahi i ka leka. Mai hoʻonoho i ka pahu kiʻekiʻe, e hoʻonoho iā ʻoe iho i nā pahuhopu hiki ke loaʻa, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho.

"I ka hoʻomaka, ʻaʻole maopopo iā ia iho": Jérôme, hoa o Laure, makuakāne o Léo, 1 makahiki.

"Ua ʻike au iā Laure metamorphose i nā lā. I ka manawa mua ua kaumaha ʻo ia, ʻo wau

Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole mākou i maopopo ua hana maikaʻi mākou. Ua nānā au iā ia e mālama ana iā Leo, e hoʻopaʻa iā ia ma kahi kokoke iā ia, e hānai iā ia, e ʻoluʻolu iā ia, e hoʻoluliluli iā ia, me he mea lā ʻaʻohe noʻonoʻo. Ua manaʻo wau he hemolele ʻo Laure, ʻaʻole ʻo ia. Lawe au i nā kiʻi he nui i kēlā me kēia lā

ʻO Laure lāua ʻo Léo i ka symbiosis. He mea kupaianaha a i loko o kekahi mau mahina, ua lilo ʻo Laure i makuahine nui, haʻaheo iā ia iho a iā mākou. “

E hahai i kāu mau manaʻo

ʻO ʻoe ke kanaka i ke kūlana maikaʻi loa e hoʻokaʻawale i kāu pēpē, e ʻike i nā pilikia liʻiliʻi e hoʻopaʻa nei i kona ola ʻōpio. ʻAʻohe mea e pakele ai iā ʻoe, nele i ka ʻai, hiamoe maikaʻi ʻole, ke kuni, ʻeha nā niho, ʻinoʻino, luhi, huhū… No laila e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho a hana e like me kou ʻano. Ke ʻike ʻole ʻoe i ka mea e hana ai, e hoʻokomo iā ʻoe iho i nā kāmaʻa o kāu keiki. E nīnau iā ʻoe iho pehea kona manaʻo, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i kou manaʻo i kou wā kamaliʻi.

E nānā iā ia

ʻO ka nānā ʻana i kāu keiki ka hōʻailona maikaʻi loa e ʻike ai inā maikaʻi ʻo ia… a i ʻole. E ʻike i kāna mau makemake, nā mea e leʻaleʻa ai iā ia, nā mea e mahalo ai, nā mea e hoʻāla ai i kona ʻimi, nā mea e hauʻoli ai, nā mea e hoʻomaha ai, nā mea e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia. E pāʻani pū me ia, e hauʻoli ʻoe no ka mea ʻo kāu misionari ke hānai maikaʻi i kāu keiki, akā ʻo ia hoʻi ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manawa maikaʻi loa.

Hilinaʻi iā ia

ʻO ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he makuahine hiki ke hilinaʻi i kāu pēpē. ʻO ia ka mea e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i makuahine, i nā lā, nā ʻike, e hoʻohālike ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi, kūkulu ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi a pēlā ʻoe. ka makuahine maikaʻi loa ma ka honua nona!

“ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka lilo ʻana i makuahine hoʻokahi! »: Laurène, makuahine o Pauline, 18 mahina.

ʻAʻole ʻae ka makuakāne o Pauline e hānau keiki, ua hoʻoholo wau e mālama iā ia. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka lilo ʻana i makuahine solo, akā ʻo kaʻu koho ia, ʻaʻole au e mihi i kekahi mea. I kēlā me kēia lā, haʻi wau iaʻu iho i koʻu laki i ka loaʻa ʻana o Pauline i koʻu ola. He kaikamahine liʻiliʻi maikaʻi ʻo ia. I mea e ʻike ʻole ai iaʻu iho i kahi kaʻawale, hilinaʻi nui wau i koʻu mau mākua, koʻu mau kaikunāne, he mau ʻanakala maoli, a me koʻu mau hoaaloha. No kēia manawa, ke hoʻāʻo nei au e hauʻoli i kaʻu kaikamahine, e hoʻonohonoho i koʻu ola ma ke ʻano he makuahine, ʻaʻole wau e hoʻāʻo e kūkulu hou i koʻu ola, akā he wahine ʻōpio hoʻi au.

ka mea makemake e aloha. “

Welina mai i kou hopohopo

Ua lohe ʻiʻo ʻoe i kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua: no ka lilo ʻana i makuahine maikaʻi, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo no ka mea ua lele ka hopohopo a ua manaʻo kāu pēpē. Pololei, ke hopohopo ʻoe e ʻike kāu keiki. Akā, ʻaʻole hiki ke hopohopo inā he makuahine ʻoe! No laila, ho'ōki i ka manaʻo hewa no ka hopohopo, e ʻae i kou kānalua. Eia hou, he ʻāpana ia o ka pūʻolo makuahine! He manawa ka lilo ʻana i makuahine. E ʻae i kāu mau hewa, e neʻe i mua ma ka hoʻāʻo a me ka hewa. E ho'āʻo a inā ʻaʻole pono, e hoʻololi. E ʻae i ka hewa, i ke ola ke hana mākou i ka mea hiki iā mākou, ʻaʻole i ka mea a mākou e makemake ai. ʻO ka ʻae ʻana e nīnau iā ʻoe iho e lilo ʻoe i makuahine maikaʻi loa.

Na ka papa e pani i kona wahi

ʻIke ʻoe i ka mālama ʻana i kāu pēpē, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe wale nō. ʻO kona makuakāne kekahi. Mai hoʻokuʻu iā ia i ke kua, e hoʻopili iā ia, e waiho i kona wahi mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi i nā diapers, hele kūʻai, hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka ʻōmole, hoʻokahe i ka mea holoi ipu, hāʻawi i ka ʻauʻau, hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka hale a ala aʻe paha i ka pō e hōʻoluʻolu i kāna keruba. E hana ʻo ia i kāna ʻaoʻao, ʻaʻole like me kāu. Na kēia hui e hoʻoikaika i kou pilina. E ʻike kēlā me kēia i kāna hana hou, mahalo i nā ʻano hou o kona ʻano a hoʻoikaika i kekahi i kona ʻano makua.

 

E hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho!

Aia nā manawa i kēlā me kēia lā ke hoʻomalu ʻia nā mea a pau, ua hiamoe maikaʻi kāu pēpē, ʻai maikaʻi, ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia, nani ʻo ia, hauʻoli ʻo ia a pēlā pū ʻoe… Ke holo maikaʻi nā mea, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho no ka lilo ʻana i makuahine maikaʻi. , hoolei pua i kekahi i kekahi. E ʻike i kāu mau ʻano a e ʻae i nā hoʻomaikaʻi, pono lākou.

E lilo i makuahine, akā ʻaʻole kēlā…

ʻO ka noho ʻana he wahine, he mea aloha, he hoaaloha, he hoa hana, he mea makemake i ka zumba, he mea nui ia e manaʻo ai he makuahine maikaʻi. Mai hoʻopoina i kou ola pilikino ma lalo o ka manaʻo o ka mea liʻiliʻi i hānau koke ʻia e lilo i wahi nui i kou ola. Ma hope o ka pēpē, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i ke ola ma ke ʻano he kāne! Mai ʻae iā ia e lawe i nā wahi āpau, ʻaʻole maikaʻi iā ia a iā ʻoe a i kāu pilina. Mai hoʻokaʻulua e hāʻawi i kāu pēpē e noho mau i nā ahiahi me kāu mea aloha. E hele i waho no kahi pāʻina aloha, akā e makaʻala: ʻaʻole loa e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea liʻiliʻi! E hoʻomaha i ka manawa. I ka pōkole, e ʻimi i kahi kaulike hou ma waena o nā wahine ʻokoʻa a pau ʻoe!

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