ʻAʻole, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kā mākou hana ma mua o nā ʻāina o ka Hikina, kahi e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia ai ka abort wae - e hoʻopau pinepine ʻia kahi ʻōpū wahine. Akā ʻo nā kuʻuna o ka hānai ʻana i nā kaikamahine, e like me ka psychologists, ua lōʻihi a me ka manaolana ʻole.
Ua lilo ka wahine wahine i ka nohona hou i mea hōʻino. He nui ka poʻe e unuhi iā ia e like me ka makemake o nā wahine e hāpai i nā mea hiamoe a hele wāwae me nā wāwae ʻoki ʻole. A ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻomanaʻo iki i ka neʻe ʻana o ka wahine i nā wahine no nā kuleana like me nā kāne. Ke kuleana i ka uku like. ʻO ke kuleana e lohe ʻole i nā ʻōlelo e like me "kahi wahine e hoʻokele nei ua like ia me ka mōneka me ka grenade." A ʻo nā kope hoʻi, e hōʻike nei ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka kaʻa iā ia iho, akā ua kuapo ia no kekahi mau lawelawe o ke ʻano physiological.
ʻIke ʻia ma kahi o ke kaulike, ʻike mākou i kahi hanana ʻokoʻa loa - misogyny. ʻO ia, ka inaina i ka wahine ma ka maʻalahi no ka mea he wahine ʻo ia. A ʻo ka hōʻike weliweli loa o ia mea, e like me ka psychologists, he misogyny kūloko. ʻO ia, ka inaina o nā wahine i ka wahine.
ʻO kahi pilikia nui, e like me ka psychotherapist ʻo Elena Tryakina, ʻo ia ka moekolohe, ka hoʻokae kāne, i loko o nā poʻo o nā wahine a lawe ʻia e lākou mai kēlā hanauna a kēia hanauna. Hoʻokomo ʻo Māmā i kāna misogyny i kāna kaikamahine. A pēlā nō hoʻi ma infinitum hoʻolaha.
"Hoʻomaopopo wau i ka manawa i hālāwai mua ai wau me kēia hanana. Ua ʻōlelo aku kekahi o kaʻu mau mea kūʻai aku i kāna mau hoaaloha, he mau keiki kāne kā lākou, ua hoʻomaka ʻoi loa i ka hōʻeuʻeu a me ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i kāna kaikamahine i ka wā i pepehi kāne ai kāna kāne kāne, "Hāʻawi ʻo Elena Tryakina i kahi laʻana.
Ua ʻae kahi loea me ka iwakālua mau makahiki o ka ʻike ua kahaha wale ʻo ia - ʻaʻohe ona koi kaʻawale no nā kāne a me nā wahine.
"Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ua lohe nā mea āpau pehea ke kaikamahine, i ka pane ʻana i kāna halulu a me ka makemake e hemo i ke poʻo o ka lawehala, i ʻōlelo:" He kaikamahine ʻoe! Pono ʻoe e palupalu. Hāʻawi. "ʻAʻole mākou e ʻike i ke kuleana o ke kaikamahine e huhū ʻia, i kona mau manaʻo ponoʻī. ʻAʻole mākou e aʻo iā ia e hōʻike i ka huhū a me ke kūʻē i ke ʻano kuʻuna, akā ke aʻo nei mākou i ka moekolohe, "wahi a Elena Tryakina.
Hoʻokumu ʻia kēia kuʻuna aʻo i loko o kahi kaiāulu kūpuna. A laila ua mālama ke kāne, a ua hilinaʻi loa ka wahine iā ia. I kēia manawa ʻaʻohe kumu no ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ke ola - ʻaʻole hoʻi ka pilikanaka, a me ka hoʻokele waiwai, a me kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAʻohe kumu, akā "kaikamahine ʻoe". Ua aʻo ʻia nā kaikamahine i ke akahai, e hāʻawi, i ka mōhai i ka lawena o nā kaikamahine a me nā kaikamahine i manaʻo ʻia he maʻa mau.
"Ua aʻo ʻia ke kaikamahine ʻo ka mea nui i ko lākou ola ka pilina. ʻAʻole kāna kūleʻa, ʻaʻole hoʻi i ka naʻauao, ʻaʻole hoʻi i ka hoʻokō ʻana iā ia iho, a me kāna ʻoihana, a me nā mea pili kālā. ʻO ke kula kiʻekiʻe kēia a pau, "manaʻoʻiʻo ka psychotherapist.
Kauoha ʻia ke kaikamahine e male. Hele i ka lāʻau lapaʻau? Pupule ʻoe? Aia kekahi mau kaikamahine, ma hea ʻoe e ʻimi ai i kāu kāne? ʻO ke kuleana no ka male male ʻana me nā kaikamahine wale nō. ʻIke ʻia ʻaʻole ʻike nā mākua i kā lākou kaikamahine i kahi kanaka, akā ʻano o ka hiki ke lawelawe - no kekahi kāne abstract a i ʻole no lākou iho. ʻO kēia e pili ana i ka "aniani wai" kaulana.
“ʻAʻole hilahila ka male ʻana no ka maʻalahi, akā maikaʻi a akamai hoʻi. ʻO ka nele i ke aloha ka mea maʻamau. Anuanu nā lolo, ʻo ia hoʻi ka maʻalahi o ka hana ʻana i ke kāne, - Ua wehewehe ʻo Elena Tryakina i ka manaʻo o ka hānai ʻana. - Ke hoʻololi nei mākou i ka manaʻo he maʻamau ka noho ʻana o ka wahine - parasite, mercantile a hilinaʻi hoʻi. ʻO ka manaʻo o ke kōkua ʻole a me ka pēpē. Ke nani ʻo makuahine a e hana ana ka makuakāne. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he mau ʻano kuhi kēia o ka moekolohe, ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he kūlana maʻamau. “
ʻO ka wahine kūʻokoʻa, kūleʻa, loaʻa ka wahine e manaʻo ʻia ʻaʻole hauʻoli a laki ʻole inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i male. Hoʻomākeʻaka? He hoʻomākeʻaka ia.
"Pono mākou e ulu i ka ʻike pilikino wahine. ʻO ia ka mea e pono ai, ʻaʻole kēia mau papa a pau o nā wahine Vedic a me nā obscurantism ʻē aʻe, "hoʻopau ka psychologist.
Ua nānā ʻia ʻo Elena Tryakina e ka hapahā miliona mau kānaka. Ua wehe ʻia kahi kūkā ma nā ʻōlelo. Ua ʻōlelo kekahi ʻaʻole he kiko i ka lūlū ʻana i nā manaʻo no ka pono ponoʻī i nā poʻo wahine: "Pono e mālama ʻia nā keiki". Akā ua ʻae ka hapa nui me ka psychologist. No ka mea ua ʻike koke lākou i nā ʻano hana o "he mau kaikamahine ʻoe" i kā lākou hānai ponoʻī ʻana. Pehea kāu ʻōlelo?