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Ma ka hālāwai kūkā "Psychology: Challenges of Modernity" e mālama ʻia ka "Laboratory of Psychologies" no ka manawa mua. Ua nīnau mākou i kā mākou poʻe loea e komo i loko o ia hana a lākou e manaʻo ai he mea kūpono loa a hoihoi iā lākou iho i kēia lā. Eia kā lākou i ʻōlelo mai ai iā mākou.
"E hoʻomaopopo i ke ala ʻana o nā manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole"
ʻO Dmitry Leontiev, ka mea kālaiʻike:
"He pilikino a maʻamau nā pilikia. He pilikino koʻu mau pilikia pilikino, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole wau e hoʻāʻo mau e noʻonoʻo a hoʻokomo iā lākou i loko o nā huaʻōlelo, haʻalele pinepine wau iā lākou i ka pae o ka intuitive sensation a me ka pane. ʻO kahi luʻi maʻamau, ua lōʻihi koʻu kānalua i ke ʻano o ka hoʻokumu ʻia ʻana o nā manaʻoʻiʻo o nā kānaka, kā lākou mau kiʻi o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. No ka hapa nui, ʻaʻole lākou i pili me ka ʻike pilikino, noʻonoʻo ʻole, ʻaʻole i hōʻoia ʻia e kekahi mea a ʻaʻole e lawe mai i ka kūleʻa a me ka hauʻoli. Akā i ka manawa like, ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o nā manaʻoʻiʻo e pili ana i ka ʻike. A ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho ʻana o ka poʻe, ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kā lākou kiʻi o ka honua a ʻoi aku ka makemake e aʻo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Iāʻu, ʻano paʻakikī kēia pilikia o nā manaʻo kuhi hewa e pili ana i ka mea maoli a me ka mea ʻole.
"E hana i kahi psychology integral a me psychotherapy"
ʻO Stanislav Raevsky, ka mea loiloi Jungian:
"ʻO ka hana nui iaʻu ka hana ʻana i ka psychology integral a me ka psychotherapy. ʻO ka pilina o ka ʻike ʻepekema hou, ʻo ka mea mua, ka ʻikepili o ka ʻepekema cognitive, a me ka psychotherapy o nā kula like ʻole. Ke hana nei i ka ʻōlelo maʻamau no ka psychotherapy, no ka mea, kokoke kēlā me kēia kula e ʻōlelo i kāna ʻōlelo ponoʻī, ʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea hōʻino i ke kahua psychological maʻamau a me ka hana psychological. Hoʻohui i nā kaukani mau makahiki o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa Buddhist me nā makahiki o ka psychotherapy hou.
"E paipai i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o ka logotherapy ma Rusia"
ʻO Svetlana Štukareva, ka lāʻau lapaʻau:
"ʻO ka hana koʻikoʻi loa i kēia lā, ʻo ia ka hana ʻana i ka mea e hilinaʻi nei iaʻu e hana i ke kula kiʻekiʻe o Logotherapy ma Moscow Institute of Psychoanalysis ma ke kumu o kahi papahana hoʻonaʻauao hou i ka logotherapy a me ka loiloi existential i ʻae ʻia e ka Viktor Frankl Institute (Vienna). E hoʻonui kēia i nā hiki o ka hana hoʻonaʻauao wale nō, akā ʻo ka hoʻonaʻauao, hoʻomaʻamaʻa, therapeutic, preventive a me nā hana ʻepekema, e ʻae i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā hana hoʻomohala e pili ana i ka logotherapy. He mea hoihoi loa a hoʻouluhua: e hāʻawi i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka logotherapy ma Rusia!
"E kākoʻo i nā keiki i nā mea hou o ko mākou honua"
ʻO Anna Skavitina, ka mea kākau moʻolelo o nā keiki:
“ʻO kaʻu hana nui ʻo ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke ʻano o ka ulu ʻana o ka psyche o ke keiki i kahi honua e loli mau ana.
ʻAʻole i wehewehe ʻia ka honua o nā keiki i kēia lā me kā lākou mau hāmeʻa, me ka ʻike e pili ana i nā mea weliweli a hoihoi loa i ka honua. ʻAʻole maopopo iā mākou pehea e kōkua ai i ka psyche o ke keiki e hoʻokō i kahi mea hou a mākou i hana ʻole ai. He mea nui iaʻu e hana i nā wahi synergistic me nā psychologists, nā kumu, nā mea kākau keiki, nā loea mai nā ʻepekema like ʻole i mea e holomua pū ai i nā ʻike maopopo ʻole o kēia ao a kākoʻo i nā keiki a me ko lākou ulu ʻana.
"E noʻonoʻo hou i ka ʻohana a me kahi o ke keiki i loko"
ʻO Anna Varga, ʻohana psychotherapist:
"Ua hāʻule ka lāʻau lapaʻau ʻohana i nā manawa paʻakikī. E wehewehe au i ʻelua mau pilikia, ʻoiai ʻoi aku ka nui o lākou i kēia manawa.
ʻO ka mea mua, ʻaʻohe manaʻo i ʻae ʻia i ka lehulehu e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka ʻohana olakino. Nui nā koho ʻohana like ʻole:
- ʻohana keiki ʻole (ke hōʻole ʻole nā kāne i ka hānau keiki),
- ʻohana bi-career (i ka wā e hana ai nā kāne ʻelua i kahi ʻoihana, a ʻo nā keiki a me nā ʻohana i waho),
- ʻO nā ʻohana binuclear (no nā kāne ʻelua, ʻaʻole ʻo ka male i kēia manawa ka mua, aia nā keiki mai nā male mua a me nā keiki i hānau ʻia i loko o kēia male ʻana, nā mea āpau i kēlā me kēia manawa a i ʻole e noho pū ana).
- nā kāne like ʻole,
- male keʻokeʻo (inā ʻike ʻole nā hoa pili i ka moe ʻana me kekahi i kekahi).
He nui o lakou e hana nui ana. No laila, pono nā psychotherapists e haʻalele i ke kūlana loea a, me nā mea kūʻai aku, e hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa no lākou i kēlā me kēia hihia. Ua akaka keia kulana e hookau aku i ka hoonui koi i ka neutrality o ka psychotherapist, ka laula o kona mau manao, a me ka hana.
ʻO ka lua, ua loli nā ʻenehana kamaʻilio a me ke ʻano o ka moʻomeheu, no laila e nalowale ana ka wā kamaliʻi. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻohe manaʻo ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka hānai pono ʻana i nā keiki.
ʻAʻole maopopo i ka mea e pono ai ke aʻo ʻana i ke keiki, ka mea a ka ʻohana e hāʻawi iā ia ma ke ʻano nui. No laila, ma kahi o ka hānai ʻana, i kēia manawa i ka ʻohana, hānai pinepine ʻia ke keiki: hānai ʻia ʻo ia, hoʻoinu ʻia, ʻaʻahu ʻia, ʻaʻole lākou e koi i kekahi mea mai ka mea a lākou i koi ai ma mua (e like me ke kōkua me ka hana hale), lawelawe lākou iā ia ( no ka laʻana, lawe lākou iā ia i loko o nā kīʻaha).
ʻO nā mākua no kahi keiki ka poʻe e hāʻawi kālā iā ia. Ua loli ka hierarchy ʻohana, i kēia manawa ma luna o ke keiki pinepine. Hoʻonui kēia mau mea i ka hopohopo nui a me ka neuroticism o nā keiki: ʻaʻole hiki i nā mākua ke hana ma ke ʻano he kumu noʻonoʻo a me ke kākoʻo iā ia.
No ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i kēia mau hana i nā mākua, pono ʻoe e hoʻololi i ka hierarchy ʻohana, "haʻahaʻa" ke keiki mai luna a lalo, kahi ʻo ia, ma ke ʻano he mea hilinaʻi. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea a pau, pale nā mākua i kēia: no lākou, koi, hoʻomalu, mālama ʻana i ke keiki ʻo ia ka hana ʻino iā ia. A ʻo ia hoʻi ka haʻalele ʻana i ke keiki-centrism a hoʻi i kahi male i lōʻihi e "ohi i ka lepo ma ke kihi", no ka mea, ʻo ka hapa nui o ka manawa i hoʻopau ʻia i ka lawelawe ʻana i ke keiki, e hoʻāʻo nei e hoaaloha me ia, i ka ʻike ʻana i nā ʻōlelo hōʻino i hana ʻia. ma luna ona a me ka makaʻu e nalowale ka launa pū me ia.