Nā mākua i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia: 9 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hoʻonohonoho e maʻalahi ke ola

No na makua kaawale, pono ka hui maikai, i ka pono o ke keiki mua, akā, e hoʻomāmā i ka logistics, a hiki i kekahi manawa he wahi cumbersome. I ʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kahi puhi hoʻonohonoho i kēlā me kēia kakahiaka Pōʻakahi, pono ʻoe e kali i nā pilikia a me nā hoʻonā. 

ʻO ka pilina maluhia

ʻO kēia ka mea e pono ai no nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a pau: e lanakila i nā paio o ka wā i hala hiki ke kamaʻilio mālie a mahalo kekahi i kekahi. Me ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi pilina maluhia ma waena o nā mākua, ʻo kahi hui, ʻo ia hoʻi kahi hui i hoʻokumu ʻia, e paʻa mau no kēlā me kēia. ʻO ka maʻalahi a me ka naʻauao maikaʻi e pono ai ʻoe e kūleʻa i ka noho kaʻawale ʻana me nā keiki like.

Ka puke puke kilokilo

Malaila ʻike nui a pau i ke keiki e hele ana: na maki i ka pau ana o ka lapaau ana, e hoonui i na papa e noonoo ai, pono no na kamaa ua no keia hopena pule, luhi nui i keia manawa, a pela aku. He ʻano puke no kēlā me kēia lā!

ʻO ka ʻeke waiwai

Loaʻa na mea a pau i loaa ole i kau mau keiki a ma ka wehewehe ʻana he paʻakikī ke loaʻa ma ka mākeke a he mea nui naʻe i ko lākou pono. Nā laʻana: puke olakino, blankie, mea pāʻani fetish, ʻeke kiʻi e holomua ana, nā kiʻi laki, nā kiʻi ... Ma waho aʻe o kona hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, hāʻawi ia i nā keiki liʻiliʻi i kahi ʻano kuhikuhi, ʻoiai aia lākou i kēia ʻeke ma ka makuakāne a me ka makuahine.

Ka alemanaka maʻamau

He mea paʻakikī paha ke noʻonoʻo e hiki i kāu ex ke komo i kāu papa manawa, akā ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, he mea maʻalahi loa ke komo ʻana i kāna… No laila e hoʻoikaika e kaʻana like i kēia palapala e hoʻopiha i kāu papa hana, nā hana, nā koho, nā hālāwai kula… ʻAʻohe mea maopopo e pale iā ʻoe mai ka noho naʻauao e pili ana i ke ʻano o kekahi mau hanana. ʻO kahi mea hana e hōʻoia i ka waiwai nui i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i nā lā hoʻomaha me nā keiki.

ʻO ke kapa lole pālua

ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa i nā mea āpau ma ke ʻano pālua, ʻoi aku hoʻi no nā keiki liʻiliʻi e ulu wikiwiki loa, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia i kēlā loaʻa i nā lua a i ʻole nā ​​mea pili no kekahi mau kumu. No ka laʻana: nā paʻipaʻi, ʻaʻahu ʻaʻahu, jogging, mīkina lima, pāpale, pāpale ... ʻae kēia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e hoʻolilo i kou manawa e ʻimi iā lākou ma kāu ex (me kāu mau kī pālua ...).

Pālua i nā kī

Eia hou, ʻo kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no nā kāne i hala i ka makemake e inaina ākea kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka mea kūpono, hiki i ka makua kāne / makuahine o kāu mau keiki ke hele mai i kou home e kiʻi i kahi ʻaʻahu lalo a waiho paha i kahi puke poina (ʻoiai inā ʻo ia ka mea kilokilo!). E ʻae mai he kūpono kēia. Inā pilikia ka manaʻo iā ʻoe, manaʻo ʻoe papalua i na ki no kau mau keiki.

Hāʻawi nā mākua iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hoʻonohonoho 7 e maʻalahi ke ola no nā mākua kaʻawale

Nā mea hōʻike pilikino no nā kaʻina hana hoʻomalu

Ma kahi o ka lawe ʻana iā ʻoe iho, a i ʻole ka hāʻawi ʻana i ke kuleana no nā kaʻina hoʻokele āpau (kakau inoa no ka haʻuki, uku no ka hale ʻaina, ke kauoha ʻana i nā lole, etc.), e hoʻoholo e loaʻa. kēlā me kēia o nā mea hōʻike e hoʻohui i nā moʻokāki / lawelawe like ʻole e pili ana i kāu mau keiki. No laila e lawe ka poʻe āpau i ke kaumaha noʻonoʻo o ka nalowale ʻana i kā lākou ʻōlelo huna ...

E ʻike ma ke wikiō: Ma ka mālama ʻokoʻa, a hoʻoili ʻia i waho

ʻO nā hui nui

ʻO kahi kūkākūkā me kahi kauka lapaʻau, kahi kiʻi i ka haku wahine, kahi hōʻike hope o ka makahiki? Inā hiki iā ʻoe ʻelua o ʻoukou i kēia mau hanana, hana iā ia. He kūpono ia no ke keiki, akā no nā mākua ʻaʻole e haʻalele i ka ʻike koʻikoʻi a me nā manawa koʻikoʻi i ke ola. E kōkua pū kēia iā ʻoe e kūleʻa i ka hana ʻana i nā hoʻoholo nui (koho i nā hana, orientation, etc.)

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