Contents
I ka ʻimi ʻana i ka makua kāne noho ma ka home
E kikokiko i ka "stay-at-home dads" i loko o Google a e koi ʻia ʻoe e hoʻoponopono me nā "stay-at-home moms". ʻOiai ma ka Pūnaewele, ʻaʻole mākou e kūʻē i ke kauoha i hoʻokumu ʻia me ka hoʻopaʻi ʻole! He ʻuʻuku lākou (a i ʻole he mau makua kāne) manawa piha, ʻaʻole i loaʻa nā helu e pili ana iā lākou. Ma Farani, ʻaʻole lākou i helu ʻia. Loaʻa iā mākou nā helu ma ka haʻalele makua. Akā, e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia, he 11 lā kēia haʻalele. He hoʻomaha pōkole i kahi ʻoihana. Noho ka haʻalele makua, hiki ke piʻi i 3 mau makahiki. I ka makahiki 2004, he 238 mau paionia i lawe, 262 ma 2005, 287 (ke pi'i nei!) I ka makahiki 2006. He 1,2% o ka haalele makua i kela makahiki keia makahiki. E ʻike pū i kā mākou pepa ʻike no ka haʻalele makua.
He kakaikahi ka helu no ka wahine hale
ʻO kēia nele o nā helu helu a me ka noiʻi sociological nui ka hopena kaumaha ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokumu i kahi moʻolelo o ka makua kāne ma ka home a me nā kumu i hoʻomaka ai i kēia koho. ʻAʻole lilo nā kāne hana ʻole a pau i mau fairies o ka hale e pili ana i ka 100% i ka logistics ʻohana, ʻaʻole pono kēia kūlana i kahi koho paʻamau i kau ʻia e nā kūlana o ke ola. Hangē ko Frédéric, ko e tamai ʻa e toko ua, ʻokú ne fakamoʻoni: “ʻI heʻeku fakakaukau ke fakaʻaʻa ʻeku ngāué ke tokangaʻi ʻeku foha, naʻe maʻu ʻeku lelei ʻa hoku pisinisi. ʻO Bruno *, he makua kāne noho ma ka home no 8 mau makahiki, ua ʻike mua ʻo ia i ka makahiki 17 makemake ʻo ia e hānai i kāna mau keiki, "e like me ka hana a koʻu makuahine".
ʻO ka makua kāne noho ma ka home: ke loli nei nā manaʻo
ʻOiai i ka manaʻo piha ʻana o ke koho, ʻōlelo ʻia, paʻakikī naʻe ka nānā ʻana o waho. Ua ʻōlelo mākou iā Frédéric: "No laila, ʻo ʻoe ka mea i hana i ka wahine? "ʻO Bruno, ʻo ia iho, ua alo i ka ʻike ʻole o ka poʻe a puni iā ia:" ʻAe, e noho ʻoe ma ka home akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻimi nei i kahi hana? Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei ʻo ia, ke loli koke nei nā noʻonoʻo. "Ua hāʻawi aku ka media iā ia. Ua hāʻule liʻiliʻi mākou no nā oddballs. “
ʻŌlelo a kahi makua kāne noho ma ka home
ʻO Bruno, 35, makua kāne o Leïla, ʻo Emma lāua ʻo Sarah, ma ka home no 8 mau makahiki.
"Ua ʻike mau wau ʻaʻole ʻo ka metro-work-sleep kaʻu mea. Loaʻa iaʻu kahi diploma kōkua kahu hānai a me kahi laikini mōʻaukala. ʻAʻole ʻo ka nele i ka hana i hoʻoikaika iaʻu e mālama i kaʻu mau keiki akā he koho i ke ola. ʻO kaʻu wahine he kahu hānai pilikia, makemake nui i kāna hana, ʻoiai he mea hana! ʻO wau, makemake au e mālama i kaʻu mau kaikamāhine, e kuke. ʻAʻole au e hana i nā mea a pau ma ka home, kaʻana like mākou i nā hana. A he ola koʻu ma waho, nui nā hana, i ʻole, ʻaʻole au e paʻa. No laila paʻa loa kaʻu papahana. Pono mākou e wehewehe hou aku i kā mākou mau kaikamahine hoʻomaloka he ʻae, hana nā makua kāne i kekahi manawa. A loaʻa i nā mākua ʻelua kahi hana. ”
* Hoʻoulu i ka pūnaewele "pereaufoyer.com"