THEi ke kauwela i hala, ua holo pono nā mea a pau, hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Roxanne. Ua ʻae ʻo Lola iā ia iho e hamo ʻia me ka pale lā a mālama pono i nā makaaniani, bob a me nā pale lima. I kēia makahiki, he kiʻiʻoniʻoni ke kau iā lākou! Eia nō naʻe, pono lākou, aia kona palekana. ^ E Ha yM. No laila, ʻokoʻa ʻaʻole hiki ke kūkākūkā ʻia! Akā i ka makahiki 3-4, ʻike maopopo ʻia kēia hoʻopaʻapaʻa me ke keiki i ka manawa kū'ē piha. ʻO ka hōʻole ʻana i nā pūʻali lima, a me ka ʻōlelo ʻana "ʻaʻole" me ka ʻōnaehana i kekahi mea paʻa, hiki iā ia ke hana e hoao i na palena a e koi aku, ma kona ʻano ponoʻī, i kona ʻano hou he mea nui. A pololei, "no nā pēpē nā pale lima", hōʻoia ʻo ia iā ʻoe!
E hoʻolohe i kāna mau hoʻopaʻapaʻa
ʻO ka hopena ? Hāʻawi i kāu keiki i kāna mea e makemake ai me ka leo a me ka akaka, ʻo ia hoʻi e manao nui ia ia. ʻAʻole ma ka hāʻawi ʻana, akā ma ka hāʻawi ʻana e wehewehe iā ʻoe i ke kumu o kona makemake ʻole. "ʻO ka hoʻolohe ʻana me ka lokomaikaʻi i nā kumu o kāna hōʻole ʻana ʻaʻole ia e pale i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi hoʻolālā, hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Aurélie Crétin, psychologist a me psychotherapist. Akā e kōkua ia iā ʻoe e kaupalena i kona kue ana. » ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia i kēia mea kōkua i mālama ʻia no nā kamaliʻi? Hōʻike i kāna mau keiki ʻē aʻe i kona mau makahiki e ʻaʻahu ana iā lākou. Weheweheʻo kona kaikuahine nui nō hoʻi i ʻaʻahu iā ia i 3 mau makahiki. Ma hope koke e hiki iā ia ke hoʻohālike iā ia a ʻauʻau e like me ka iʻa. Akā no kēlā, pono ʻo ia e hoʻomaʻamaʻa palekana. Manaʻo ʻo ia he ʻino nā pūʻali lima o kona kaikuahine? E kū i ka hale kūʻai kahakai no nā mea hou aku e koho pū i nā mea ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole, hoʻomau ʻo ia? No laila e hāʻawi iā ia i ka koho, me ka huhū ʻole. He mea maʻalahi, ʻaʻahu ʻo ia a hele ʻo ia i loko o ka wai e leʻaleʻa me kona mau hoaaloha, a i ʻole e pāʻani ʻo ia ma ke one. E koi koke ʻo ia iā lākou mai iā ʻoe!
E kōkua iā ia e hoʻomaʻamaʻa mālie i ka wai
Ua hauʻoli paha kāu keiki e noho kokoke iā ʻoe? Malia paha ʻo kāna hōʻole mua ʻana he hūnā wale i ka makaʻu i ka wai. I kēia makahiki, ʻoi aku ka maʻamau ma mua o kou manaʻo. A laila pono mākou e kōkua iā ia hoʻokaʻawale i kēia mea hou. A no kēlā, ʻaʻohe mea e paʻi i kou mau lima. E hoʻopaʻa iā ia i kou ʻūhā, e hele mālie i loko o ka wai a hiki i ka wai i kou pūhaka a me nā kuli. Aʻe, e alakaʻi ʻia ʻoe e kāna mau hana. Inā he makaʻu kona maka, mai ʻakaʻaka iā ia, mai paʻipaʻi iā ia, e hōʻino wale ana ia mea. E hele i waho o ka wai, me ka wehewehe ʻana e hoʻāʻo hou ʻoe ma hope. Me ka poina ʻole e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia no kēia hoʻāʻo. Pono e ho'āʻo hou kona makemake.
Aurelia Dubuc