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He makana nui no kāna mau māhoe, ʻeha ʻia e ka hāʻule ʻana o kāna kaikamahine, i ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi hopena no nā pilikia ʻili o kāna pēpē…. Ua haʻi mai kēia mau makua kāne ʻekolu iā mākou e pili ana i ka huakaʻi i alakaʻi iā lākou e hoʻoponopono hou i ko lākou ola ʻoihana.
“Ua loli koʻu ʻike a pau: Ua hoʻomaka wau e ola no kaʻu mau kaikamahine. “
Eric, 52 makahiki, makua kāne o Anaïs lāua ʻo Maëlys, 7 makahiki.
Ma mua o ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu mau māhoe, he mea aʻoaʻo hana pilikino wau no nā polokalamu ʻoihana. Ua neʻe au i ka pule a pau ma Farani a hoʻi mai i nā hopena pule. Ua hana au i nā hui nui, ua hana au i nā ʻoihana nui ma Paris. Ua hauʻoli wau i kaʻu hana a loaʻa iaʻu kahi ola maikaʻi.
I ka hāpai ʻana o kaʻu wahine mai nā māhoe, manaʻo wau e hoʻomaha
He pēpē ka hana, no laila ʻelua! A laila ua hānau mua ʻia kaʻu mau kaikamāhine. Ua hānau kaʻu wahine ma ka Caesarean a ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻike iā lākou no 48 mau hola. Ua hana au i ka ʻili mua me Anaïs. He kupua. Ua nānā au iā ia a ua lawe au i ka nui o nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō e hōʻike iā lākou i kaʻu wahine. Makemake au e noho pū me lākou ma ka home ma hope o ka hana ʻana i hiki iā mākou ke kiʻi i kā mākou mau kamaʻilio. He mea leʻaleʻa ke kaʻana like i kēia mau manawa. Ua hānai kaʻu wahine, ua kōkua au iā ia ma ka hana ʻana i nā loli, i ka pō ma waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe. He hana hui ia. Liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, hoʻolōʻihi wau i kaʻu haʻalele. Ua hana maoli ia. I ka hopena, noho au i ʻeono mahina me kaʻu mau kaikamāhine!
Ma ke kūʻokoʻa, ʻaʻohe oʻu kōkua, hoʻohana ʻia kā mākou waihona a hiki i ka hopena.
I kekahi manawa, pono mākou e hoʻi i ka hana. ʻAʻole au i makemake e hana hou i nā hola he nui, pono wau e noho me kaʻu mau kaikamāhine. ʻO kēia mau mahina ʻeono me lākou he hauʻoli maʻemaʻe a ua hoʻololi i koʻu manaʻo! Ua hoʻomaka wau e ola no lākou. ʻO ka pahuhopu e noho like me ka hiki.
A ua paʻakikī loa ka hoʻomaka hou ʻana. Ma hope o ʻeono mahina, poina koke ʻoe. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kūkākūkā hou, no ka mea, ʻaʻole oʻu makemake hou e hele. No laila, ua hele au no ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana ma ke keʻena ʻo Suite, ka Pūnaewele a me nā ʻoihana pūnaewele. ʻO ka lilo ʻana i mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa hiki iaʻu ke hoʻonohonoho i kaʻu mau papa e like me koʻu makemake. Hoʻemi au i nā manawa hoʻomaha a me nā manawa ʻai. Ma kēlā ala, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻi i ka home i ka manawa e kiʻi ai i kaʻu mau keiki a loaʻa kaʻu Pōʻakolu no lākou. Ke haʻi aku nei au i kaʻu mau mea kūʻai aku ʻaʻole wau e hana i ka Pōʻakolu a ʻaʻole wau e hana keu. Inā he kāne ʻoe, ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa ia i nā manawa a pau… Akā ʻaʻole pilikia ia iaʻu. ʻAʻole wau he mea hana!
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka emi o kaʻu uku. ʻO kaʻu wahine nāna e hāʻawi i ke ola iā mākou, ʻo wau, lawe wau i ka hoʻopiha. ʻAʻole oʻu mihi i kekahi mea, noʻu he koho ia o ke ola, ʻaʻole ia he mōhai. ʻO ka mea nui, hauʻoli kaʻu mau kaikamāhine a hauʻoli mākou. Mahalo i kēia mau mea a pau, pili loa mākou. “
"ʻAʻohe mea i hana ʻole me ka ulia o kaʻu pēpē 9 mahina. “
Gilles, 50 makahiki, makua kāne o Margot, 9 makahiki, a me Alice, 7 makahiki.
I ka wā i hānau ʻia ai ʻo Margot, loaʻa iaʻu kahi makemake nui no ka hoʻopukapuka kālā, ua hoʻopilikia iki ʻia e ka haʻalele makua liʻiliʻi i kēlā manawa. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoiai he mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa lāʻau wau, ua kūʻokoʻa wau a hiki iaʻu ke hoʻonohonoho i koʻu mau lā e like me koʻu makemake. Mahalo i kēlā, ua hiki iaʻu ke hele mai no kaʻu kaikamahine!
I ka piha ʻana o kāna mau mahina he 9, ua loaʻa kahi ulia pōpilikia.
Noho mākou me nā hoaaloha a mākaukau mākou e haʻi aloha. Piʻi wale ʻo Margot i ke alapiʻi a hāʻule nui. Holo wikiwiki mākou i ke keʻena pilikia, ua loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻeha poʻo a me ka ʻehā ʻekolu. Ua mālama ʻia ʻo ia i ka haukapila no ʻehiku lā. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ua pakele ʻo ia. Akā, he manawa hikiʻole ke hoʻomanawanui a weliweli. A ma luna o nā mea a pau, he kaomi ia iaʻu! Ua hana au i kahi noiʻi a ʻike wau he mea maʻamau nā ulia home a ʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā lākou.
Ua loaʻa iaʻu ka manaʻo o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā papa hana pale pilikia
I ʻole e loaʻa i kekahi, Ua loaʻa iaʻu ka manaʻo o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā papa hana pale pilikia, e like me ia, ma ke ʻano he amateur, no kekahi mau makuakāne a puni iaʻu. No ka papa hana mua, ʻehā o mākou! He ʻāpana ia o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana iaʻu iho, e like me ke ʻano o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hui, ʻoiai ua paʻakikī wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana. ʻEhā makahiki iaʻu e ʻaʻa ai e haʻi i ka mea i hana ʻia. ʻO ka manawa mua aʻu i ʻōlelo ai aia ma kaʻu puke mua "My Daddy First Steps". Ua koi mai kaʻu wahine ʻo Marianne iaʻu e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ia mea. Ua hewa loa au. I kēia lā, ʻaʻole wau i kala piha iaʻu iho. Makemake au i kekahi manawa. Ua hahai au i ka lāʻau lapaʻau ma Sainte-Anne i kōkua pū iaʻu. ʻElua mau makahiki ma hope o ka ulia pōpilikia, ua hana ka hui kahi aʻu i hana ai i kahi hoʻolālā kaiaulu. Ua ʻike koʻu poʻe kuke ua hoʻonohonoho wau i nā papa hana maʻamau, no laila ua hāʻawi lākou e hoʻokumu i kaʻu hui me kahi bonus haʻalele manuahi.
Ua hoʻoholo wau e hoʻomaka: ua hānau ʻia ka "Future Daddy Workshops"!
Ua pilikia loa. Ua haʻalele wau i ka hana uku no ka ʻoihana. A eia kekahi, ʻAʻole i loaʻa nā papa hana makua no nā kāne! Akā, ua paipai kaʻu wahine iaʻu a ua noho mau ma koʻu ʻaoʻao. Ua kōkua iaʻu e loaʻa ka hilinaʻi.
I kēia manawa, hānau ʻia ʻo Alice. Ua ulu nā haʻawina ma luna o ka ulu ʻana o kaʻu mau kaikamāhine a me kaʻu mau nīnau. ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā makuakāne e hiki mai ana ke hoʻololi loa i ke ala ola a me ka wā e hiki mai ana o kahi ʻohana. ʻO kēia kaʻu mea hoʻokele. No ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻike hiki ke hoʻololi i nā mea āpau. Paʻa koʻu nānā ʻana i ka nīnau o ka makua, makua kāne a hoʻonaʻauao. ʻAʻole i hiki mai kēia me ka ʻole o ka pōʻino o kaʻu kaikamahine. He mea ino loa ia no ka mea maikai loa, no ka mea, ma keia eha nui i hanau ai ka olioli nui. Loaʻa iaʻu nā manaʻo i kēlā me kēia lā mai nā makuakāne, ʻo ia kaʻu uku nui loa. “
ʻO Gilles ka mea kākau o "New papas, the keys to positive education", éd.Leducs
“Inā ʻaʻole no ka pilikia ʻili o kaʻu kaikamahine, ʻaʻole loa au i hoihoi i kēia kumuhana. “
Edward, 58 makahiki, makua kāne o Grainne, 22 makahiki, Tara, 20 makahiki, a me Roisin, 19 makahiki.
ʻO wau ʻo Irish. Ma mua o ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu keiki hiapo, ʻo Grainne, ua holo au i kahi ʻoihana ma ʻIlelani i hana i ka pulupulu pulupulu a kūʻai aku i nā huahana i hana ʻia mai ia mea. He hui liʻiliʻi a he paʻakikī ke loaʻa kālā, akā hauʻoli nui wau i kaʻu hana!
I ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine ua lawe au i kekahi mau lā e noho pū me ia a me kaʻu wahine. Ua kiʻi au iā lākou mai ka hale hānai me kahi kaʻa haʻuki a ma ke alanui, haʻaheo wau e wehewehe i kaʻu pēpē i kāna mau hana a pau, no ka mea makemake wau i nā kaʻa, ʻo ia ka mea i ʻakaʻaka ai kona makuahine. . ʻOiaʻiʻo, hoʻololi koke wau i kaʻu kaʻa, no ka mea, ʻaʻole kūpono ia no ka lawe ʻana i kahi pēpē hānau hou!
Ma hope o kekahi mau mahina ma hope o kona hānau ʻana, ua loaʻa ʻo Grainne i ka maʻi diaper koʻikoʻi
Ua hopohopo nui mākou a me kaʻu wahine. A laila ʻike mākou ua piʻi ka ʻulaʻula ma hope o kā mākou holoi ʻana me ka holoi ʻana. E uē ana, e uē ana, e uē ana ma nā ʻaoʻao a pau, ua ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole hiki i kona ʻili ke kū i ka holoi ʻana! He mea hou loa kēia iā mākou. No laila ua ʻimi mākou i nā mea ʻē aʻe. Ma keʻano he mau mākua, makemake mākou i ka mea maikaʻi loa no kā mākou kaikamahine i pilikia i ka hiamoe a hauʻoli ʻole. Ua hoʻomaka wau e nānā pono i ka papa inoa o nā mea hana no nā holoi holoi. He mau mea kemika wale nō lākou me nā inoa hiki ʻole ke haʻi ʻia. Ua ʻike au e hoʻohana ana mākou i kā mākou keiki i ʻumi manawa i ka lā, ʻehiku lā o ka pule, ʻaʻole holoi ʻia! He koʻikoʻi. No laila, ʻimi au i nā holoi holoi me ka ʻole o kēia mau mea. ʻAe, ʻaʻole kēlā i kēlā manawa!
Ua kaomi: Ua manaʻo wau aia kahi ala e hoʻolālā a hana i nā holoi pēpē olakino
Ua hoʻoholo wau e kūkulu i kahi hui hou e hana i kēia huahana. He pilikia loa ia, akā ʻike wau aia kahi kuʻikahi e hana ʻia. No laila ua hoʻopuni wau iaʻu iho me nā ʻepekema a me nā mea hoʻonaʻauao, ʻoiai e hoʻomau ana i kaʻu hana ʻē aʻe. Laki kaʻu wahine ma laila e kākoʻo iaʻu. A i kekahi mau makahiki ma hope mai, ua hiki iaʻu ke hana i nā Waterwipes, i haku ʻia me 99,9% wai. Haʻaheo loa wau iā ia a ma luna o nā mea āpau hauʻoli wau i ka hiki ke hāʻawi aku i nā mākua i kahi huahana olakino no kā lākou pēpē. Inā ʻaʻole nā pilikia ʻili o kaʻu kaikamahine, ʻaʻole loa wau i manaʻo i kēia. ʻO ka lilo ʻana i makua kāne ua like ia me ka wehe ʻana i kahi puke kilokilo. Nui nā mea i loaʻa iā mākou ʻaʻole mākou i manaʻo, ua like mākou me ka loli. “
ʻO Edward ka mea hoʻokumu o WaterWipes, nā holoi holoi mua i hana ʻia mai ka 99,9% wai.