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Ke psychology o ka infertility: 4 kumu no ke aha ʻaʻohe hāpai, a he aha e hana ai
Inā moeʻuhane kahi kāne male i ke keiki no hoʻokahi makahiki a ʻoi aku, a kūlou wale nā kauka i nā poʻohiwi, ʻo ke kumu o ka nele o ka hāpai ʻana aia paha i ke poʻo o nā mākua e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka hōʻailona o ka "infertility" i ko mākou ʻāina i hana ʻia me ka ʻole o ka hāpai keiki ma hope o hoʻokahi makahiki o ke ola moekolohe me ka ʻole o ka pale ʻana. Wahi a nā helu helu, ma Rūsia kēia hōʻailona ma 6 miliona mau wahine a me 4 miliona mau kāne.
- Me he mea lā ua hōʻea kahi lāʻau lapaʻau o kēia au i kahi pae e lilo ai ka pilikia o ka infertility i mea o ka wā i hala. Akā ʻaʻole ke kino kahi kino wale nō, akā, kahi psyche hoʻi, pili pākuʻi ʻia me kēlā me kēia mea, - i ʻōlelo ʻia e nā psychotherapists ʻo Dina Rumyantseva lāua ʻo Marat Nurullin, nā mea kākau o ka papahana lapaʻau infertility psychological. - Eia kekahi, e like me ka helu helu, 5-10% o nā wahine i ʻike ʻia me ka infertility idiopathic, ʻo ia hoʻi, ka ʻole o nā kumu olakino.
Nui a hewahewa nā palaka psychological ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke kūpale iā ia iho, ʻoiai ke olakino olakino a i ʻole ke mālama palekana ʻia ʻana e kahi kauka wahine. Hūnā hohonu ʻia nā kumu huna a, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia.
Inā kūlou nā kauka i ko lākou poʻohiwi a ʻike ʻole i ke kumu, loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ma kahi o kekahi o kēia mau kumu.
Ka makaʻu i ka hānau hānau. Inā makaʻu ka wahine i ka ʻeha i ka makaʻu, a laila ka lolo, e pane ana i kēia makaʻu, ʻaʻole ʻae i ka hapai ʻana. Pili kēia hiʻohiʻona psychological me nā maʻi ma mua, nā ʻeha a me nā hana. I kēia hihia, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻeha o ka hana he physiological, e poina koke ʻia ke pau nā mea āpau.
Makau o ka makua. Ma ke ʻano he rula, aia ma hope o kēia makaʻu ka waiho ʻana i ka makemake ʻole i ka wahine e loaʻa nā keiki, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia e mākaukau e lilo i makuahine. Aia nā aʻa i kona ʻohana ponoʻī. Ma ka hana ʻana ma waena o nā traumas kamaliʻi i ka wā ʻōpio, nānā hou i nā ʻano e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ka makuahine, a e pau ka makaʻu.
ʻO ka maopopo ʻole i ka hoa. ʻO ka neurosis paʻa mau i ka pilina kahi palaka kānalua i ka hānau hānau. Inā hōʻeha ka wahine i kāna hoa no ka hua ʻole o ka pilina ma muli o ka loaʻa ʻole o nā hopena maikaʻi mai ka hui a mai ka hilinaʻi ʻole paha, a laila pono e hoʻopau ʻia ka hopohopo nui. I kēia hihia, pono i ka wahine e hoʻoholo paʻa: makemake maoli ʻo ia i kahi keiki mai kahi kāne ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi.
Kahaluhi. Hōʻike ka Sterility i kahi wahine, ʻoiai nā hoʻolaha o waho, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole makemake a makaʻu paha e haʻalele i ka hana hana i ʻole e nalo ke kūlana maikaʻi a i ʻole ka manawa kūpono no ka holomua hou aku. He inoa nō ko kēia hanana - infertility ʻoihana. Hiki i ke ʻano noʻonoʻo i ka mea pono i ke ola ke neʻe i nā mea.
He aha inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma kēia papa inoa?
E ʻimi i ke kōkua mai kahi psychologist. He paʻakikī e hōʻuluʻulu i kahi papa inoa piha o nā wahine phobias e hoʻopilikia i ka hapai ʻana. Hoʻohui ʻia, hiki i hoʻokahi a i ʻole mau, e like me ka mea i kau ʻia ma luna o kekahi. No laila, ʻo ka hana a ka psychotherapist e hana i nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole a hōʻemi i ka palaoa o ka pilikia.
- Me ke kōkua o kā mākou mau hoʻomohala, i hoʻokumu ʻia ma ke kumu o nā hopena maikaʻi loa o ka lāʻau hānau honua, hiki ke hoʻonā i nā pilikia o ka hana ʻole i kekahi manawa i ʻekolu, a i kekahi manawa i nā kau he ʻumi. Ma ke ʻano he kūlana, hāpai pinepine ka hāpai ma waena o hoʻokahi makahiki mai ka hoʻomaka o ka hana. No nā makahiki he ʻumi o kā mākou hana ma ke kikowaena psychological Kazan "White Room" 70% o nā kāne i noi no ke kōkua i lilo i mau mākua, "wahi a Marat Nurullin. - Hoʻohana pono mākou i nā papa āpau o ka psyche kanaka a me ka hoʻopili ʻana iā lākou. A ʻo kahi hopena, hemo ka maʻi o ka "idiopathic infertility".
Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawelawe iā ʻoe iho?
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nui paha, inā maikaʻi nā mea āpau mai kahi manaʻo olakino, a ʻaʻole kū ka hāpai, e hoʻopau i ka manaʻo e like me ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia i nā kūlana. Hāʻawi kahi wahine, me ka kānalua ʻole, ma kahi pae subconscious i kahi hoʻonohonoho i ke kino: ʻaʻohe pono, kali iki, ʻaʻole kūpono, ka mea hewa, ka manawa hewa. He paʻakikī loa e kau kūʻokoʻa i ke poʻo i ka makemake e loaʻa kahi keiki a me ka makemake ʻole e hoʻololi iā ʻoe iho a me ke ola. No laila, he kōkua psychological e hiki ke hoʻoholo i kēia kūlana paradoxical.
Aʻo ka hana mua i ka hana ʻana iā ʻoe iho hiki ke hōʻike i kāu wahine ponoʻī. Hana ma o ka makaʻu i ka maikaʻi ʻole ma ke ʻano laulā, i kēlā me kēia kūlana. E manaʻoʻiʻo i ka manaʻo: "ʻO wau ka makua ʻoi loa no kaʻu keiki ponoʻī, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa naʻu." ʻO ka hana ʻana i nā hanana ʻeha mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai kahi waiwai nui, wehe i ke kākoʻo mai kahi hoa, nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana. A ʻoiai he mau ʻāpana kaʻawale wale nō kēia, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokumu i kahi moʻolelo piha e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana o kahi kanaka hou.