PSYchology

Manaʻo mākou e nāwaliwali nā manaʻo ikaika iā mākou a nāwaliwali. Makaʻu mākou e hoʻokomo i kahi kanaka hou i hiki ke hōʻeha. Manaʻo ka mea kākau moʻolelo ʻo Sarah Byron ʻo ke kumu ka ʻike o ke aloha mua.

He nui ka poʻe e holo mai nā manaʻo e like me ke ahulau. 'Ōlelo mākou, "He mea ʻole ʻo ia iaʻu. ʻO ka moekolohe wale nō. Makemake mākou ʻaʻole e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā manaʻo, ʻaʻole e mālama iā lākou. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana i nā mea āpau iā ʻoe iho a ʻeha ʻia ma mua o ka hōʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho i ka ʻakaʻaka.

He kanaka kūikawā ko kēlā me kēia. Kakaʻikahi mākou e kamaʻilio no ia mea, akā noʻonoʻo mau mākou no ia mea. ʻO kēia mau manaʻo ua like ia me ka lele hoʻoluhi i ka leo ma ka pepeiao a lele ʻole. Ke ho'āʻo nei mākou e lanakila i kēia manaʻo, akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻōki i ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, ʻeleʻele i kāna helu, holoi i nā kiʻi, akā ʻaʻole kēia e hoʻololi i kekahi mea.

E hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa āu i ʻike ai ua aloha ʻoe? Ua hui pū ʻoe me ka hana ʻole. A hikiwawe - e like me ka hahau ʻana i ke poʻo. 'Ōleloʻoe iāʻoe iho: damn, ua aloha au. ʻAi ka makemake e kamaʻilio mai loko mai. Ke noi aku nei ke aloha: e hoʻokuʻu mai iaʻu, e haʻi i ka honua e pili ana iaʻu!

Ke kānalua nei paha ʻoe e pānaʻi ana ʻo ia. Ua lolo ʻoe i ka makaʻu. Akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka puni ʻana iā ia. Ke nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe, hāwanawana i kou pepeiao, maopopo iā ʻoe - pono ia. A laila ʻeha, a mau ka ʻeha no ka manawa pau ʻole.

ʻAʻole manaʻo ʻia ke aloha e hōʻeha, akā i ka wā e hana ai, lilo nā mea a pau i hana ʻia i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Ke lilo nei mākou i kanaka a mākou i hoʻohiki ai ʻaʻole e lilo.

ʻO ka nui o kā mākou hōʻole ʻana i nā manaʻo, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o lākou. Pela no a mau no

Aloha pinepine mākou i ka poʻe hewa. ʻAʻole i manaʻo ʻia e mau ka pilina. E like me kā ka mea kākau moʻolelo ʻo John Green i ʻōlelo ai, "ʻO ka manaʻo he ʻoi aku ke kanaka ma mua o ke kanaka wale nō he hoʻopunipuni." Hele mākou a pau i kēia. Hoʻonoho mākou i kā mākou poʻe aloha ma kahi paepae. Ke ʻeha lākou, mālama mākou. A laila hana hou.

Laki paha ʻoe e mare i kāu aloha mua a hoʻolilo i kou ola a pau me ia. E ʻelemakule pū a lilo i hoʻokahi o nā kāne ʻelemakule e hele ana ma ka paka, e paʻa lima a kamaʻilio e pili ana i kā lāua moʻopuna. Maikaʻi kēia.

Hoʻoholo ʻia ka hapa nui. ʻAʻole mākou e mare i ka "kahi", akā e hoʻomanaʻo mākou iā ia. Malia paha e poina iā mākou ke kani o ka leo a i ʻole ka huaʻōlelo, akā e hoʻomanaʻo mākou i nā manaʻo i loaʻa iā mākou ma muli o ia, hoʻopā a ʻakaʻaka. Mahalo i kēia mau manawa i kou hoʻomanaʻo.

I kekahi manawa, hana hewa mākou, a ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia kēia. ʻAʻohe kumu makemakika a i ʻole ka hoʻolālā pilina e pale ai i ka ʻeha. ʻO ka nui o kā mākou hōʻole ʻana i nā manaʻo, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o lākou. Pela no a mau no.

Makemake au e hoʻomaikaʻi i koʻu aloha mua no ka ʻeha ʻana iaʻu. He aha ka mea i kōkua i ka ʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo kupaianaha aʻu i manaʻo ai i ka lani me ka hauʻoli, a laila ma lalo loa. Mahalo i kēia, ua aʻo wau e hoʻōla, lilo i kanaka hou, ikaika a hauʻoli. E aloha mau wau iā ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole wau e aloha.

Puna: Thought Catalog.

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