He aha kāu e ʻōlelo aku ai i ka mahalo i nā wahine (ʻoiai inā mamao ʻoe mai ka wahine)

E hoʻokaʻawale koke kākou i waena o nā manaʻo o ka "etiquette" a me ka "feminism". ʻO ka wehe ʻana i ka puka no ka wahine, hāʻawi lima i ka manawa kūpono, ʻo ka uku ʻana i kahi lā he etiquette. ʻO ka hiki ke wehe i ka puka iā ʻoe iho i mua o nā kāne a i ʻole e uku iā ʻoe iho he wahine wahine (a i ʻole kahi ʻano ʻino, a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe i pili ʻole i kēia ʻatikala). Eia hou wau - he manawa kūpono, ʻaʻole pono! ʻAʻohe wahine kūʻē kūʻē i ka mālama a me ka nānā.

No laila, he aha nā kaikamahine hou e hoʻonele ʻia inā ʻaʻole i hoʻopilikia ka wahine i ka mōʻaukala honua:

1. Ka huakaʻi kūʻokoʻa, a me nā hele wāwae maʻalahi ʻole.

2. ʻO nā manawa e ʻālohilohi ai i kēia mau huakaʻi i kahi bikini nani ma kahakai.

3. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka manawa kūpono e kau ai i kāu kiʻi i kahi bikini nani ma nā ʻoihana pūnaewele.

4. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻaʻole loaʻa iā lākou ke kuleana e hoʻopaʻa inoa ma nā pūnaewele kaiapili.

5. Hana, inā ʻaʻole hana hale. ʻO kēia ka ʻōlelo hoʻopiʻi i hana pinepine ʻia e kūʻē i nā wahine. ʻAʻole au e hūnā, a ke kipa ʻia nei au e nā manaʻo aia koʻu wahi ma ke kapuahi ma mua o ke keʻena. Akā, ʻaʻole ia e hana. ʻOiai inā makemake ʻoe. ʻOiai inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole ia he hana, akā he kāhea. Lawe iā Jane Austen. He kaikamahine holomua loa ʻo ia no kona wā i hoʻomaka ai e hoʻopuka i nā moʻolelo āna i kākau ai.

6. A no ke kumu i luna aʻe nei, ʻaʻole hiki i nā kaikamahine hou ke loaʻa i kahi manawa me ke kauka wahine. A i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu, ʻeā?

7. I kēlā me kēia makahiki, ma kahi o 55 miliona mau wahine e hoʻopau i kā lākou hāpai ʻana. I loko o kahi keʻena olakino sterile, ʻaʻole malū me ke kōkua o nā loea dubious. E haʻalele kākou i ka ʻāpana pono o kēia nīnau. Ua loaʻa i kēlā me kēia o lākou ke kumu ponoʻī no ka hana ʻana i kēia koho.

8. Mahalo i ka wahine, ua uku mākou i ka haʻalele hānau (ua maopopo ʻoe ʻaʻole pono nā wahine i kahi ʻohana?)

9. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke leʻaleʻa i nā hana a nā mea pāʻani tennis, biathletes, gymnasts a me nā mea pāʻani ʻē aʻe. ʻO nā wāhine i ka 'Olumepika, e like me nā wāhine i nā haʻuki hoʻokūkū, he hoʻoilina o ka wahine.

Hiki ke hoʻomau a hoʻomohala ʻia kēia papa inoa no ka manawa lōʻihi: ʻo nā mea i loaʻa i ka wahine ke komo pū me ke kuleana i ka hoʻonaʻauao, ka hemo ʻana, ka hiki ke hakakā i ka hana ʻino i loko o ka home ... ʻOiaʻiʻo, ma ʻaneʻi, e like me nā ʻano kaiapuni ʻē aʻe, aia kekahi poʻe e hele i kahi mamao loa a e hōʻemi i nā mea i ka lapuwale. Akā, i kēia lā, e nānā kākou i ka maikaʻi i loaʻa iā kākou ke mahalo i ka hana a nā wahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, me he mea lā ke ola maikaʻi nei mākou?

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