ʻO ka pilikia ka mea a ka mea kūʻai aku e LOA ai ma ke ʻano he pilikia. ʻO ke komo ʻana o ka naʻau, ka pane ʻana o ka naʻau o ke kanaka, kona ʻeha o loko e hōʻike ana he pilikia maoli nō: ka huhū, ka huhū, ka huhū, ke kaumaha, ke kaumaha, ke kaumaha, ke kaumaha, ka hopohopo, ka hopohopo, ke kaumaha, ka huhū a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.
No laila ka palena: ʻaʻole e hana ka psychotherapist me kahi pilikia i loaʻa ʻole. No ka mea, ʻaʻole hana ka mea kūʻai aku.
He aha ke ʻano o kēia ma ka hana maoli? Inā hōʻike kekahi kaikamahine (ʻo ke ʻano hysterical) ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia ʻo ia a kali me ka hoihoi no kā mākou pane, me ka manaʻo e mahalo koke mākou i ka nui o kēia pilikia a hāʻawi iā ia i ka nānā nui, ʻaʻole paha mākou e hana i kēia. ʻAʻole koke koke. No ka mea, i loko o kēia mana, ʻaʻole ia he pilikia noʻonoʻo no ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa. ʻAʻole hopohopo.
Inā he kanaka ʻōpio (no nā kumu like ʻole) e ʻōlelo me ka ʻoluʻolu ua "manaʻo ʻo ia e pepehi i ke ola" - ʻaʻole kēia he kumu e hopohopo ai mākou. ʻAʻole mākou ʻike i ka ʻike. Akā ʻike mākou i ke kaha kiʻi.
Nui ka poʻe o mākou i hālāwai me ia mau mea hōʻikeʻike "hoʻopiʻi". ʻAʻohe mea, ke ola nei lākou a maikaʻi.
ʻAʻole mākou hoihoi i ka haʻawe manaʻo kuʻuna o ke kumuhana i ʻōlelo ʻia. ʻAʻole mākou hopohopo pehea e ʻike ʻia ai. Nānā mākou i ka ʻike maoli ʻana o ka mea kūʻai aku i kāna mea e kamaʻilio nei. A inā he aloha ʻōpio kūleʻa ʻole kēia a i ʻole kahi brooch nalowale (he mea mālama), akā ʻike mākou ua ʻino ke kanaka, a laila loaʻa iā mākou kahi mea e hana pū ai.
No ka mea, no keia kanaka keia brooch a me keia aloha mua he Events maoli. Ma ka liʻiliʻi i kēia manawa. ʻO kēia kāna mau waiwai. ʻO kāna mea nui kēia. A ʻo kēia kāna e ʻike nei. No ka mea, ʻo ka pilikia ka mea a lākou e ʻike ai. ʻAʻole ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he pilikia.
Inā ʻaʻole, makemake mākou e loaʻa kālā keu. No ka mea i ka hana ʻana me kahi pilikia ʻaʻole i loaʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i kahi "hopena" i kēlā me kēia manawa. Pehea ka lōʻihi e hiki ai i kēia "hopena" ke hoʻopaneʻe. Me ka noʻonoʻo maikaʻi.