He aha ke ʻano o ke kāne XNUMXst century

ʻAʻole wale i kēia lā, Pepeluali 23, akā i nā lā ʻē aʻe, nui nā kāne e noʻonoʻo nei i hea ko lākou wahi i ka honua hou a holomua. ʻAʻole pono e hoʻokele i nā mea hoʻokūkū me kahi lāʻau, pepehi i nā mammoths, hakakā i nā mea ʻaihue. Akā, he aha ka mea e hana ai? Pehea e hōʻoia ai iā ʻoe iho a mālama i kou male kāne? Ua noʻonoʻo ʻo Alexander Shakhov psychologist.

E hoʻomaka kākou me ka manaʻo o kahi "kanaka maoli" mai ka manaʻo o nā wahine a me nā kāne he ʻano ʻano ʻokoʻa. Inā no nā wahine he: kuleana, aloha, mālama, ʻoluʻolu, ʻoiaʻiʻo, aloha nā keiki, he kanaka ʻohana ikaika, a laila i loko o ke ao kāne he mea hakakā, ʻaʻole hāʻawi aku i nā ʻenemi, hoʻopakele i ke ao, unemotional, laki, kūleʻa me nā wahine. ʻano ʻano.

E nānā wale i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni hana — he kumu kēia o nā kumu hoʻohālike kāne. ʻO nā mea nui i loko o lākou ʻo James Bond, Thor, Iron Man. Makemake nā kāne a me nā wahine i kēia kiʻi, ʻo ka ʻokoʻa ka makemake o nā wahine e hoʻoluhi iā James Bond. Akā paʻakikī ka lilo ʻana i mea koa, e lawe ana i ka ʻōpala, ʻoiai i loko o kahi ʻeke.

Ke nānā nei i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni kiʻiʻoniʻoni, hoʻohālikelike ke kanaka iā ia iho me lākou a ʻike i kahi hohonu o ka like ʻole: "ʻAʻole wau maoli, ʻaʻole i ke ala e pono ai." ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻoholo pololei ʻia kēia ʻokoʻa ma ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana "he kiʻiʻoniʻoni wale nō."

No ka lanakila ʻana, nui ka poʻe e hoʻohana i ka waiʻona - inu i ka ʻōmole pia, a ʻo ʻoe ʻo James Bond - a i ʻole holo i nā pāʻani kamepiula kahi ʻoe he "hero" e lanakila ana i nā kiʻi ʻino.

Pono nā kāne i nā kumu hoʻohālike i ke ao o ka poʻe ola. Ma mua o lākou: Chkalov, Chelyuskin, Stakhanov. Ua hana lākou i nā hana paʻakikī, akā naʻe. Ma hope o kēia mau paionia, ua ala mai nā neʻe holoʻokoʻa o nā kāne: nā Chelyuskinites, nā Stakhanovites, nā Chkalovites. Aia i hea nā laʻana i kēia manawa? ʻO nā meʻe puke komikika wale nō me nā mana superhuman i koe.

Ua luhi nā kāne he nui i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa pau ʻole ma muli o ka ʻae ʻana e ʻae i ka hoʻokūkū mai nā kāne ʻē aʻe.

Ua hoʻohālikelike ka holomua ʻepekema a me ka ʻenehana i ke kāne i nā manawa kūpono me ka wahine. ʻAʻole koi ʻia e hoʻopakele i ka honua i ka hakakā ʻana, kākoʻo ʻia e nā kūkākūkā. E kiʻi pū i ka meaʻai, e holo ana ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā meaʻai a puni ka uaki. He pilikia ko ke kanaka: no ke aha e pono ai ʻo ia i kēia manawa?

Hele pinepine au i Kelemānia. Maʻaneʻi, keʻano nei nā kāne me ka mahalo nui i nā wāhine, mālama i kaʻohana. ʻOiai ma nā pāka me nā keiki a me nā strollers, hele wāwae ka hapa nui o nā kāne. A i loko o ka nohona kāne maʻamau - nā keʻena laka haʻuki, nā kaola pia - aia kahi lewa lokomaikaʻi e like me koʻu noʻonoʻo ola ʻana mai nā makahiki 90, e like me ka Neanderthal fossil iaʻu iho, a pono wau e hoʻoikaika i ka ʻakaʻaka. hoʻomaha, hoʻohenehene.

Manaʻo wau he nui nā kāne, e like me aʻu, ua luhi i ka ʻeha pau ʻole i hana ʻia e ka ʻae ʻana e ʻae i ka hoʻokūkū mai nā kāne ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hoʻopau ʻana i ke kiʻi o kahi "kanaka maoli" i mahi ʻia no nā makahiki he ʻumi - huhū, huhū, pilikia. Akā ke ho'āʻo nei au. Nou iho. No ka ʻohana. No ka pono o ke ao nei.

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