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ʻO ka mea pōʻino, nui nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, porn, a me nā ʻatikala e hana i nā manaʻo hewa loa e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka pilina mua. Ma muli o kēia, hoʻomohala nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine i nā manaʻo hoʻopunipuni a me nā makaʻu e pale ai iā lākou mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi ola moe kolohe a i ʻole e mahalo nui i ko lākou manawa mua. He aha kāu e ʻike ai no ia mea? Wahi a ka sexologist.
He kuleana nui ka ʻike moe kolohe mua i ka hana ʻana i ko mākou mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka moekolohe. Inā loiloi ʻia a ʻike ʻia e ke kanaka me ka maikaʻi ʻole, a laila hiki ke hana i nā mea pale i ke kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina ma ke ola.
No ka laʻana, ʻo kekahi o nā maʻi maʻamau i nā kāne, ʻo ka maʻi hoʻopiʻi ʻole i ka moe kolohe, e loaʻa pinepine mai kahi ʻano o "fiascos" i ka wā o nā hoʻāʻo mua e hana i ka moekolohe. ʻIke ʻia kēia mau "hāʻule" e kahi kanaka ʻōpio ʻoi loa ka ʻeha inā hāʻawi ka hoa i kahi pane kūpono ʻole ma ke ʻano he ʻakaʻaka a hōʻino paha.
Ma hope o kēlā, hoʻomaka ke kanaka ʻōpio e ʻike i ka hopohopo a me ke koʻikoʻi ma mua o kēlā me kēia moe kolohe ma hope, hoʻomohala ʻo ia i ka makaʻu o ka "hana ʻole i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia", "ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokō hou". ʻO ka mea hope loa, hiki i ke kaulahao o nā kūlana ke alakaʻi i ka pale piha ʻana i ka pilina me nā wahine.
A ʻo nā kaikamāhine, ʻo ka hapa nui o lākou e moe kolohe no ka makaʻu i ka nalowale ʻana o ke kāne, e nalowale paha ka hilinaʻi i nā kāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ka ʻae ʻana i ka wahine mua ma lalo o ka mana o ka manipulation, a ʻaʻole no kona makemake ponoʻī, hiki iā ia ke manaʻo "hoʻohana ʻia". ʻOi loa inā ʻaʻole makemake ke kāne e hoʻomau i ka pilina me ia.
No laila, pono e hoʻokokoke i ka wahine mua me ka nānā kūikawā. Me ka ʻole o nā manaʻolana hoʻopunipuni a me nā makaʻu mamao loa.
He aha kāu e ʻike ai ma mua o kou moe ʻana?
"He puʻupuʻu ka pancake mua"
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe, e hoʻomanaʻo ana i kā lākou wahine mua, e hoʻomaopopo he mamao loa ia mai ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka manawa mua ka mea kūpono no ka aneane ʻaʻohe mea. He manawa kēia no ka ʻike, e ʻimi ana iā ʻoe iho a me kou kino i ka launa pū ʻana me kekahi kanaka. Aia ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana he ʻokoʻa loa ka moekolohe i ke ola mai ka porn. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike i nā hanana, nā ʻike, nā pilikia, akā i ke ola ke hana pinepine nei lākou, ʻoiai i waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine makua ʻike.
ʻO ka mea nui, mai hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. ʻO ka manawa mua wale nō kēia.
He mea maʻamau ka hopohopo
ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka, e moe ana no ka manawa mua, manaʻo ʻole ʻia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, no ka nui o nā makaʻu i loko: ʻaʻole e ola e like me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia, e nānā ʻakaʻaka, hoʻohilahila i kahi hoa. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo a ʻae i ka hilahila, ka maluhia ʻole, ka hauʻoli ikaika a me nā neʻe ma waho o ka wahi he mea maʻamau. ʻAʻole ʻoe wale nō i kēia.
Mākaukau noʻonoʻo
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo no ka wahine mua no ka mea ʻo ia wale nō. E hoʻokokoke i kēia kaʻina hana me ka noʻonoʻo a hana wale i ka wā i mākaukau ʻoe. A ʻaʻole no ka hoʻomau ʻana o kāu hoa / kaiapuni i kēia kaʻina hana a hoʻopunipuni paha. E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻoiai ma ke kaʻina hana, loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kuleana e ʻōlelo ʻole. ʻO nā huaʻōlelo mai ka māhele "inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻae, a laila ua pau" a i ʻole "E huhū au" ʻaʻole paha e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke aloha.
ʻAʻole pili wale ka moekolohe i ke komo ʻana
Inā ʻo ka pahuhopu ka loaʻa ʻana o ka leʻaleʻa, ka mea i manaʻo ʻia e nā poʻe he nui mai ka moekolohe, a laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kaupalena iā ʻoe iho i hoʻokahi wale nō o kāna mau ʻano - ka moekolohe me ke komo ʻana. No ka hoʻomaka ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā ʻano like ʻole o ka launa pū ʻana - petting, oral sex, mutual masturbation. Hiki iā lākou ke ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa ma mua o ka moekolohe maʻamau, a aia kahi manawa kūpono e ʻike ai i kahi orgasm.
ʻO ka palekana mua
No ka moe kolohe, me ka waha, pono ʻoe me ka condom wale nō. ʻO ka moekolohe me ka ʻole o ka condom e hoʻonui i ka pilikia o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā STD - nā maʻi i hoʻouna ʻia i ka moekolohe e 98%. Hiki ke lawe ʻia kekahi mau maʻi ma o ka moe waha.
Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo ʻo kekahi mau maʻi, e like me ka syphilis a me ka chlamydia, ʻaʻole e hoʻohāinu iā lākou iho no nā pule mua, a i kekahi mau mahina, no ka mea ʻaʻohe o lākou mau hōʻailona. No laila, he mea nui e kūʻai i ka condom a loaʻa mau iā ʻoe, ʻoiai inā ua hoʻohiki ka hoa e kūʻai iā ia iho. E noʻonoʻo mua i kou palekana.
A ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hāʻule i nā hoʻopunipuni he "ʻoluʻolu ʻole", "ʻaʻole pono", "no nā wimps", "ʻAʻohe oʻu maʻi".
Ke olakino
I ka lā, nui ka nui o nā maʻi bacteria e hōʻiliʻili i ka ʻāpana genital, i ka wā i komo ai lākou i ka mucous membranes, e hoʻomohala i nā ʻano pathologies. No laila, he mea nui ka ʻauʻau ma mua a ma hope o ka moe kolohe. ʻAʻole pono wale ka maʻemaʻe o kou kino, akā he hōʻailona hoʻi o ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho a me kāu hoa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka maikaʻi o ka leʻaleʻa i loaʻa. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he kakaikahi ka poʻe e ʻoluʻolu e honi i ke kino sweaty, ʻaʻole e haʻi aku i nā mea aloha pili.
Inā ʻaʻohe manawa e ʻauʻau ai, pono ʻoe e holoi iā ʻoe iho a holoi paha i ke kino o waho me kahi lole pulu.
Koho hoa
ʻAʻole he hana kino wale nō ka moekolohe, akā he hana noʻonoʻo kekahi. No laila, ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu o ke komo ʻana iā lākou inā loaʻa nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo no kahi hoa. Wahi a nā hopena o nā noiʻi he nui, ʻaʻohe mea leʻaleʻa i ka moe kolohe mua me kahi hoa pili. He mea nui ka ulu mālie ʻana o ka pilina. No laila e maʻalahi ka psyche e hoʻololi a ʻike i ka ʻike hou.
hāpai keiki
Hiki ke hana wale i ka wā e komo ai ka sperm i loko o ka ʻōpū. Hiki ke hana pololei kēia ma ke komo ʻana o ka penis a me nā manamana lima inā loaʻa ka hua ma luna o lākou, a i ʻole ma ka pili kokoke ʻana i ka penis erect ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka ʻōpū. Ua hōʻike ʻia e hiki ke loaʻa ka spermatozoa i kahi huna i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i nā kāne i ka wā foreplay. A ʻoiai ʻo ka liʻiliʻi loa o ka hāpai ʻana i ka wā e komo ai ka hua i loko o nā manamana lima a hamo ʻia me ka penis, aia nō.
Akā, mai ka hoʻopā wale ʻana i ka ʻōpū, ka hoʻomaloʻo ʻana i nā lole, ka pipi, ka wahine waha, a me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka sperm ma ka ʻōpū, ʻaʻole hiki ke hāpai!
He aha ka mea nui e ʻike ai ke kāne a me ke kaikamahine e pili ana i kekahi
E pili ana iā ia:
Hiki i ke kāne ke cum wikiwiki loa I loko o kekahi mau minuke a i ʻole ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka moekolohe. Maikaʻi kēia. No ke aha kēia hana? Mai ka hauʻoli nui, ka makaʻu, ka huikau a me ke kaumaha, a no ka manaʻo ikaika loa.
ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia e ala. A i ʻole kahi hohonu kūkulu Mai manaʻo ʻoe he maʻi ʻole ʻo ia. ʻO nā pilikia o ke kūkulu ʻana ma mua a i ka wā o ka moe kolohe ke hele pinepine mai ka hauʻoli a me ka makaʻu i ka "makemake ʻole ʻia", "hana hewa".
"He liʻiliʻi ia" - pinepine nā kaikamahine i ka nānā ʻana i ka nui o ka penis o kā lākou hoa kāne a hoka ʻia ʻaʻole lawa ka nui. Akā ma mua o kou huhū ʻana, pono e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ka awelika o ka penis he 9 mau kenimika i kona ʻano maʻamau a he 13 mau kenimika i kahi kūlana erect. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā ʻelele o ka wahine ikaika i kahi ʻano kū i ka nui o 13-15 kenimika.
ʻO ia e pili ana iā ia:
He mea nui i ke kaikamahine ke hoohuli maikai ia - inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa iā ia kahi manaʻo ʻoluʻolu a makemake ʻo ia i ka moekolohe, e nānā pono i ka foreplay. ʻO ka pae mua he noʻonoʻo, pono e ʻike ʻia ka makemake o ka pilina pili. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, loaʻa ia ma lalo o ka mana o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka erotic (hoʻopā, hoʻomaikaʻi, hoʻomāliʻi ma luna) mai kahi kāne.
Ua kapa ʻia ka papa ʻelua forspiel (German Vorspiel) — foreplay. I loko o ia mea, ma muli o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka moekolohe, aia ke kahe o ke koko i nā paia o ka ʻōpū, e alakaʻi ana i kona hoʻomaʻemaʻe. He mea nui loa. ʻO ka mālama mua ʻana no 15-20 mau minuke e kōkua i ka pale ʻana i ka ʻeha a hauʻoli. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o ka orgasm i nā wahine, ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike iki i ka wā o ka moekolohe mua. A ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo e hewa kekahi o ʻoukou.
ʻAʻole manaʻo ka hōʻole ʻaʻole makemake ke kaikamahine e pili pū me ʻoe. ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia i mākaukau. E ho'āʻo e ʻike pono i kāna hoʻoholo a kali i ka manawa. E noi iā ia e hōʻike iā ʻoe i ka wā e mākaukau ai ʻo ia e neʻe i ka pae aʻe o ka pilina.
"Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia he puʻupaʻa, akā ʻaʻohe koko i ka wā moe!" - ʻaʻole pono e hōʻino i ke kaikamahine no ka wahaheʻe. ʻO kēlā koko he hōʻailona o ka puʻupaʻa he moʻolelo kahiko. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, i nā manawa he nui, ʻaʻole alakaʻi ka wahine mua i ke ʻano o ke koko: pili ia i ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana o ka hymen o ke kaikamahine a me ka hoʻomaha a me ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana o ka hoa.