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"E kala mai iaʻu, akā ʻo ia koʻu manaʻo." ʻO ka maʻamau o ke kala ʻana no kēlā me kēia kumu, ʻaʻohe mea ʻino, no ka mea, i loko o ko mākou noho mau ʻana. Ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei ʻo Jessica Hagi aia kekahi mau kūlana e pono ai ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau hewa, makemake a me kou mau manaʻo me ka ʻole o ke kau ʻana.
Inā kānalua mākou i ko mākou kuleana i kahi manaʻo (manaʻo, makemake), ma ke kala ʻana no ia mea, hāʻawi mākou i kekahi kumu e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai. I nā hihia hea ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hana i kēia?
1. Mai kala mai no ka ike ole i ke Akua
Manaʻo maoli ʻoe ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kipaku i kēlā limahana no ka mea ua make kāna pōpoki i ka lā ma mua? Hilahila paha ʻoe i ka huki ʻana i kahi paka i mua o kahi hoa hana e hoʻāʻo nei e haʻalele i ka puhi paka? A pehea ʻoe e ʻakaʻaka ai i kahi hoa hale e ʻaihue nei i nā meaʻai mai ka hale kūʻai?
Aia iā ʻoe ke kuleana e ʻike ʻole i ka mea e hana nei i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻohe o mākou i loaʻa ka makana o ka telepathy a me ka noʻonoʻo. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kuhi i ka manaʻo o kekahi.
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Mai kala mai no ka pono
He kanaka ʻoe. Pono ʻoe e ʻai, hiamoe, hoʻomaha. Loaʻa paha ʻoe i ka maʻi a pono ʻoe e mālama. He mau lā paha. He pule paha. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kuleana e mālama iā ʻoe iho a haʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kou manaʻo ʻino a i ʻole kūpono ʻole kekahi mea iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻaiʻē mai kekahi i ka ʻāpana āpau āu e noho ai a me ka nui o ka ea āu e hanu ai.
Inā ʻoe e hana wale i ka mea ma hope o nā kapuaʻi o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻalele iā ʻoe iho.
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Mai kala mai no ka holomua
ʻAʻole ke ala i ka holomua. Inā ʻike ʻoe he maikaʻi ʻoe i kāu ʻoihana, maikaʻi i ka kuke ʻana, a i ʻole hiki ke loaʻa he miliona mau mea kākau ma Youtube, a laila ua hoʻoikaika ʻoe e hoʻokō. Pono ʻoe. Inā ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻāpana o ka nānā a mahalo ʻia paha, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ua lawe ʻoe i ko lākou wahi. Ua kaʻawale paha kona wahi no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke lawe iā ia iho.
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Mai kala mai no ka "waho o ke ano"
Ua nānā ʻoe i ka manawa hou o Game of Thrones? ʻOiai: ʻaʻole ʻoe i nānā iki, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi hanana? Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i pili i kahi paipu ʻike hoʻokahi, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe e noho nei. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kou noho ʻana ma mua o kou manaʻo: inā hopohopo wale ʻoe i ka hahai ʻana i nā wāwae o nā mea ʻē aʻe, pilikia ʻoe ʻaʻole e haʻalele iā ʻoe iho.
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Mai kala mai no ka hoʻokō ʻole ʻana i ka manaʻo o kekahi
Makaʻu paha ʻoe e hoʻopōʻino i kekahi? Akā, ua hana mua paha ʻoe - ma ka holomua ʻana, ʻoi aku ka nani, me nā manaʻo politika ʻē aʻe a i ʻole nā ʻono i ke mele. Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe i kou pilina me kekahi kanaka e pili ana i kāna loiloi ʻana iā ʻoe, hāʻawi ʻoe iā ia i ke kuleana e hoʻokele i kāna mau koho ola. Inā ʻoe e ʻae i kahi mea hoʻolālā e hana i kāu keʻena e like me kona makemake, e ʻoluʻolu paha ʻoe i loko, ʻoiai inā he nani?
ʻO kā mākou mau hemahema ka mea e ʻokoʻa ai mākou.
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Mai kala mai no ka hemolele
Inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻimi ʻana i ka mea kūpono, ʻike wale ʻoe i nā hemahema a me nā hemahema. ʻO kā mākou mau hemahema ka mea e ʻokoʻa ai mākou. Hana lākou iā mākou i ko mākou ʻano. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka mea e hoʻolei ai i kekahi e hoʻowalewale i nā mea ʻē aʻe. Ke ho'āʻo mākou e hoʻopau i ke ʻano o ka ʻulaʻula i mua o ka lehulehu, e kāhāhā paha mākou i ka ʻike ʻana o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole ia he nāwaliwali, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
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Mai kala mai no ka makemake hou aku
ʻAʻole hoʻoikaika nā kānaka a pau e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ko lākou i nehinei. Akā, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e hewa ʻoe no ka hoʻohauʻoli ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kāu mau makemake. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe i nā kumu e koi hou aku ai. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu ʻoe i ka mea i loaʻa iā ʻoe, ʻo ʻoe "pōkole mau i nā mea āpau." Mahalo ʻoe i kāu mea, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e kū mālie. A inā pilikia kekahi me kēia, he hōʻailona kēia - pono paha e hoʻololi i ke kaiapuni.
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