Hoʻomaopopo mākou inā aia kahi palaoa kūpono i ka ʻōmole kahiko.
“He ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ʻaʻole pono e hōʻike ʻia nā keiki liʻiliʻi i aniani? ʻAʻole wau i manaʻoʻiʻo i nā hōʻailona, akā i kēia lā e hānai ana koʻu kaikuahine i ke keiki a hōʻike iā ia i kahi aniani. Nānā ʻo ia iā ia no kahi manawa lōʻihi, a laila uē kūpilikiʻi, me he mea lā makaʻu i kekahi mea. Ua pāpā mai kaʻu kāne iaʻu, ʻōlelo lākou, ʻaʻole hiki a me nā mea āpau ”, - Ua heluhelu au i ka uē o kuʻu puʻuwai ma ka papa kūkā makuahine hou. Ua hilahila kahi makuahine o kēia au e nīnau i kēlā nīnau, ke noho nei mākou i ke kenekulia XNUMXst… m kānalua wale nō wau. ” Me ka mana ʻole o ka noʻonoʻo loiloi.
ʻO nā makuahine ʻōpio nā mea kānalua loa i ka honua. Mākaukau mākou e hana i nā mea āpau a mākou e makemake ai, inā pono ka pēpē: e ʻōlelo makaʻu, e hūnā i ka inoa a hiki i ka bapetizo ʻana, a e hūnā i ka pēpē mai ka prying maka no hoʻokahi mahina ma hope o ka hānau ʻana.
Akā me nā aniani, maliʻa paha, pili nā ʻōniu weliweli loa. Ua manaʻo ʻia lākou he mau puka i ka honua i lalo a me kahi ʻano kilokilo kilokilo. ʻElua mau mana o ka pāpā ʻana o nā aniani no nā keiki: ma kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i ke aniani i kahi keiki ma lalo o hoʻokahi makahiki, a ʻo kekahi - a hiki i ka hū ʻana o nā niho mua. Inā hōʻeha kēia pāpā, weliweli nā hopena: e hoʻomaka ke keiki e haʻalulu, ʻehaʻeha, e loaʻa nā pilikia ulu, e hoʻomaka ka ʻoki ʻana o nā niho ma hope o ka pono, a laila ʻeha mau lākou. Eia hou, ua hoʻohiki ʻia nā pilikia me ka hoʻomōhala ʻana o ka ʻōlelo iā ia, e ʻike ʻia ka strabismus, a e loaʻa hoʻi i ke keiki ka "makaʻu" a hiamoe maikaʻi ʻole. A ʻo ka mea ʻoluʻolu loa: manaʻo ʻia hiki i ke keiki i ke aniani ke ʻike i kona ʻelemakule, ʻo ia ke kumu e ʻelemakule ai ʻo ia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Pili ka pāpā e nānā i ke aniani i ka makuahine. I ka wā o ka menstruation a me ka wā postpartum, manaʻo ʻia ka wahine he "haumia." I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e hele i ka hale pule. A i ke aniani hāmama ka lua kupapaʻu nona. Ma ka laulā, nānā ʻo ia i ke aniani a make. Pēlā nō me nā wahine hāpai. Hiki iā lākou ke hele i ka hale pule, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hele i ke aniani.
He pīhoihoi kēia kuhiakau - a ʻo ia kēia i kona ʻano maʻemaʻe - aia wale nō i waena o nā Slav. ʻAʻohe kapa ʻē aʻe i loaʻa nā hōʻailona weliweli e pili ana i nā aniani. Aia nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli. A ʻaʻohe makaʻu maoli. Ua manaʻo ko mākou mau kūpuna mamao loa e hōʻiliʻili ke aniani i ka ikehu maikaʻi ʻole. A ke nānā aku ka pēpē iā ia, lele aku kēia ikehu ma luna ona. Makaʻu ka ʻuhane o ke keiki a hele i loko o ke aniani nānā. ʻAʻole ʻike hou kēia keiki i ka hauʻoli i ke ola.
"ʻAʻole wau e ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka obscurantism loa, e ʻōlelo wale wau e pili ana i ka mea i ʻike ʻia e ka ʻepekema," e ʻakaʻaka ana ka mea loea noʻonoʻo ʻo Tatyana Martynova. - Pono ke keiki e nānā i ke aniani. I ka makahiki o ʻekolu mau mahina, ke aʻo nei ʻo ia i ka nānā ʻana i kāna maka. Mai nā mahina ʻelima, hoʻomaka nā keiki e ʻike iā lākou iho i ke aniani. Nānā ke keiki i ke aniani, ʻike i kahi mea kamaʻāina ʻole ma laila, hoʻomaka e minoʻaka, hana i nā helehelena. Hāʻawi ka malihini i nā mea āpau ma hope ona. A ʻo kēia ke ala e hiki mai ai ka ʻike i ka noʻonoʻo ponoʻī o kekahi. “
ʻIke ʻia he aniani he mea hana maʻalahi ia e kōkua i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka ʻepekema ʻike o kahi keiki. Aia nō, ʻoiai, ʻaʻohe mea hewa i kēlā. Bonus: Hoʻomaka pinepine nā keiki kahiko i ka honi ʻana i ko lākou noonoo. ʻO kēlā manawa maikaʻi no kahi kiʻi hoʻomanaʻo. Inā ʻaʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo, i ka peʻapeʻa o kāu mau hoʻokalakupua ʻaʻohe pāpā i ke paʻi kiʻi ʻana i nā keiki.