😉 Aloha mai e ka poʻe heluhelu maʻamau a hou! E nā kāne, ʻaʻole ia he mea huna i ka hāʻule ʻana o ka hapa nui o nā male. ʻO ka wahine naʻauao wale nō ka mea hiki ke mālama i ka ʻohana a me ka manaʻo hou o kāna kāne no nā makahiki he nui. Aia kēia mea huna i ka hiki i ka wahine ke kūpono. Ua mākaukau kēlā me kēia kāne e ʻae e makemake ʻo ia e ʻike i kēlā wahine ma hope ona.
Hiki i kēlā me kēia kaikamahine ke loaʻa ka naʻauao, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke ʻano o kēia manaʻo.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo aʻo mai ka wahine naʻauao
ʻO ka wahine naʻauao - ʻaʻohe mea paʻakikī i kēia wehewehe. ʻO ka lewa i loko o ka hale a me ke ʻano o ke kāne ma luna o ia mea. ʻO kāna mau mea hana nui: ke aloha, ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ka ʻike a me ke ahonui.
ʻO ka wahine naʻauao, ʻaʻole ia e uē a hōʻino paha. Hoʻoweliweli nā wahine i nā kāne, makemake lākou e holo mai o lākou aku. Pono ka wahine e noho mālie, e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia a pau me ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻole o kona leo. Pono ʻoe e haʻi i kāu kāne, inā ʻaʻole kūpono kekahi mea iā ʻoe, a hāʻawi i nā koho no ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia.
Pono ke kaikamahine e mahalo i ke kāne āna i koho ai i hoa ola. Mai hōʻino aku iā ia, mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ia. Mai hoʻohewa aku iā ia ma ka lehulehu. Hōʻike ʻia ka mahalo i ka ʻae ʻana i nā makemake, nā manaʻo, nā leʻaleʻa. Pono mākou e hana i mea e manaʻo ai ʻo ia he pale, he mea ʻai. Mahalo nā kāne i ka mahalo a kākoʻo ʻia i kā lākou hoʻoholo.
Inā makemake ka wahine e hoʻoholo e pili ana i ke kāne, pono e hiki i kekahi ke kuhikuhi iā ia e pili ana i ia mea i manaʻo ai ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo hope. He mea nui e hana maalea, me ka hookauwa ole a hooikaika.
Pono ʻoe e mālama i kou helehelena, no ka mea, aloha pinepine nā kāne me ko lākou mau maka.
Pono ʻoe e mālama i kāu kāne. Mai ʻae iā ʻoe iho e pili a maʻa paha. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, hoʻopau kēlā mau manaʻo i ke ʻano a me ka psyche o kahi wahine. ʻAʻole e nānā mau ka wahine akamai a mālama i kāna kāne ma kahi kokoke i kona kapa. Pono mākou e hāʻawi i ke kanaka i ke kūʻokoʻa, a mahalo ʻo ia.
ʻO ka kala ʻana kekahi o nā ʻano o ka naʻauao. ʻIke ka wahine noʻonoʻo i nā ʻano maikaʻi i loko o nā kānaka, lawe mai i ka maikaʻi i ka honua, aʻo i kēia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hoʻokumu i kahi kumu hoʻohālike. Hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia he hemolele nā kānaka a pau a ʻaʻohe ʻokoʻa ʻo ia.
ʻO ka wahine naʻauao ke kuʻikahi mau me ia iho, me kona mau manaʻo, a me kāna mau manaʻo no kāna kāne. Hoʻohanohano ka wahine ikaika i nā wahine akamai i loaʻa kā lākou mau leʻaleʻa ponoʻī, e hana nei i kekahi ʻoihana, a hoʻomohala iā lākou iho.
ʻO ke akua i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā
ʻO ka wahine me ke akamai o ke ola, he wahine hale maikaʻi ia ma kona hale. Hoʻomana kāna kāne iā ia, hoʻolohe nā keiki, aloha nā hoaaloha. Hauʻoli mau nā malihini i kāna hoʻokipa. Ke noi mau nei ka ʻohana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai ko lākou makuahine a me kāna wahine aloha.
Pono ka wahine hale maikaʻi e aʻo i ka mālama ʻana a me ka puʻunaue ʻana i ka waihona kālā ʻohana i lawa. ʻAʻole he mea ʻole ka hāʻawi ʻana o nā kāne i kā lākou loaʻa kālā i nā wahine naʻauao wale nō, a hūnā lākou i ke kālā mai ka poʻe hoʻolilo i nā mea āpau iā lākou iho.
ʻO ka wahine hoʻokipa me ka naʻauao aia mau i ka home me ka mālie, mālie a me ka ʻoluʻolu. Makemake au e hele mai i kēia hale mai ka hana, no ka mea, he lewa kūikawā o ke aloha i ka lewa. Haʻalele ka wahine i nā pilikia hana a pau ma ka hana.
Pono ka wahine kūleʻa e ikaika, kūʻokoʻa, hilinaʻi iā ia iho, a hiki nō hoʻi ke noho mālie i kēlā me kēia kūlana paʻakikī.
ʻO ke ola ʻohana, ʻo ka mea mua, ʻo ka launa pū ʻana. No laila, koho koke ke kaikamahine akamai i kahi hoa ola kūpono e mākaukau ʻaʻole wale no ka wahine maikaʻi, akā no ka hui pū ʻana.
I ka male ʻana, ʻaʻohe mea ʻaiʻē i kekahi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono e hoʻokumu ʻia ka male ma ke aloha a me ka ʻike hohonu a me ka mahalo i nā pahuhopu o ka noho pū ʻana, a me nā pahuhopu kūʻokoʻa i ke ola o kēlā me kēia kanaka.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī i ka poʻe mālama i ka puʻu ahi e hōʻike i ka naʻauao, ʻo ka mea nui he aloha i ko lākou ola. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wahine i ka naʻauao a ulu ʻaʻole i ka ulu ʻana o nā makahiki, akā me kāna kāne aloha, me kāna kāne ʻuhane, nāna e mālama a aloha i kāna wahine.
ʻO ka wahine naʻauao a me kāna mau lula gula (wikiō)
😉 E nā hoaaloha, ke kali nei au i kāu mau manaʻo, nā hoʻohui i ka ʻatikala "Wahine naʻauao: nā mea huna o ke ola hauʻoli." Kaʻana like i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai kou ola pilikino. Mahalo!