Me ka lula 2-2-2, e ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli o kāu kāne

Hiki pinepine i ka poʻe i hoʻopili ʻia e ka pilina lōʻihi, nā pilikia home, nā keiki, poina ʻaʻole lākou he mau kāne wale nō, akā he mau mea aloha. E nānā: he aha ka mea i kākau ʻia ma lalo nei e pili ana iā ʻoe?

• I ke kakahiaka, ma hope pono o ke kani ʻana o ka puʻupuʻu, lele ʻoe i loko o ka ʻauʻau a wikiwiki e hana ma mua o ka moe liʻiliʻi ʻana ma kahi moe, e hoʻomoe ana ma lalo o nā uhi, e haʻi ana kekahi i kekahi i nā moeʻuhane, e kaʻana like i nā hoʻolālā no ka lā.
• Ma hope o ka hana, nānā ʻoe i nā moʻolelo TV a i ʻole e noho ma kāu kelepona i kēlā me kēia, ma mua o ke kamaʻilio ʻana a leʻaleʻa pū.
• ʻO nā hopena pule ka mea maʻamau: pāʻani ʻo ia i nā pāʻani ma Playstation, hele ʻo ia i ka yoga a hui me kāna mau hoaaloha. A i ʻole hele ʻo ia me nā keiki, a kuke ʻo ia i ka ʻaina awakea a me ka ʻaina ahiahi. Puliki a moe kolohe? Hoʻopaʻa hou mākou no kēia pule aʻe.

Ināʻikeʻoe ua noho lōʻihiʻoe ma keʻano he mau hoalauna, ua emi a emiʻole kāu mau hana hui (aʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo i ka heleʻana me nā keiki, ka kukeʻana, ka hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana), ua nalowale kāu pilina me kekahi. ʻO ke kānāwai "2-2-2" no ʻoe wale nō.

E mālama ia i ka hana maʻamau mai ka hoʻopau loa ʻana i ka kemika ma waena o ʻoukou, e hana hou a hoihoi i ka pilina. E manaʻo hou ʻoe ʻaʻohe mea kokoke iā ʻoe. ʻO ka mea nui, mai kali a hiki i kēlā me kēia lā ke lilo i Groundhog Day. E hoʻokaʻawale i kāu kalena a aloha i kekahi i kekahi me ka hohonu a me ka mālamalama.

I kēlā me kēia pule

ʻO nā mea mua ʻelua i ka lula 2-2-2 ʻo ia ka mea e ʻai pū ʻoe me ka nani a me ka ʻono i kēlā me kēia 14 lā. E kiʻi i kahi hale ʻaina a i ʻole cafe. E puke ma mua - i ʻike ʻoe i kahi wahi a ʻaʻole lilo ke ahiahi i mea hōʻeha. E lilo kēia i mea kāhāhā no kekahi o ʻoukou. E hoʻololi i ka manawa aʻe a e kāhāhā ka lua iā ʻoe ma ke koho ʻana i kahi ʻokoʻa no ka ʻaina ahiahi.

Malia paha e hele ʻoe i ka cafe Italia kahi āu i launa mua ai. E nānā paha i nā hale kūʻai hou i wehe ʻia ma ke kaiāulu, a i loko o lākou - nā hale kūʻai hou. E lilo ia i hale ʻaina hanohano i kēia lā, a i kekahi manawa he pā liʻiliʻi me ʻekolu papaʻaina. Hāʻawi ʻo Instagram i nā koho he nui. E ho'āʻo e nānā i ka virtuality ma ka niho.

Aia kekahi mea hou aʻe i ia mau lā: hana ʻoe i kahi manawa no kekahi i kekahi e ʻaʻahu i ke kapa ahiahi a hoʻololi i kou tracksuit home no kahi lole a me ka ʻaʻahu. A ʻike ʻokoʻa kekahi i kekahi - nani.

I kēlā me kēia mahina ʻelua

ʻO ka deuce ʻelua he hopena pule wale nō iā ʻoe - me ke kūʻai ʻole, hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ke keʻena a me nā kuleana ʻē aʻe. E hoʻopau i kāu kelepona, e holo i kahi wahi hou, e kākau i kahi lumi hōkele ma ke ala ʻike ʻole e hiki iā ʻoe ke koho ma ka pani ʻana i kou mau maka a kuhikuhi i kou manamana lima ma ka palapala ʻāina.

E loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa no nā kamaʻilio hohonu: e pili ana i nā moeʻuhane, e pili ana i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo, e pili ana i nā manaʻo. ʻO ka "Real Talk" ka mea maʻamau. ʻO ke kamaʻilio maoli ʻana ʻaʻole ia e pili ana i nā hana maʻamau o ka ʻohana, nā hopohopo e pili ana i ke keʻena, ka hana, akā no ka mea huna, e pili ana i ka mea i wili i ka ʻōlelo a me nā manaʻo no ka manawa lōʻihi, akā ʻaʻohe manawa e haʻi ai kekahi i kekahi .

A i ʻole e noho ana ʻoe ma nā paia ʻehā a makemake kou kino i ka neʻe? ʻAʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ka hoʻoikaika a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ma mua o kahi huakaʻi olakino a i ʻole kahi hike no ʻelua wale nō - me ka ʻole o nā hoaaloha a me nā keiki. ʻAʻole pau nā mea hiki - ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e koho i ka mea e kūpono i kāu kāne. E ho'āʻo i kahi mea hou. Hiki paha i kēia ke hāʻawi i ka hoʻoikaika hou i ka pilina.

I kēlā me kēia ʻelua makahiki

I kēlā me kēia makahiki ʻelua o kāu hui ʻana, pono ʻoe, e like me ke kānāwai 2-2-2, e hoʻomaha me ʻolua wale nō. A e hoʻāʻo e waiho i kāu kelepona i lalo, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, e hoʻopau iā lākou, ʻoiai inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻouka i nā kiʻi pau ʻole a me nā moʻolelo. No laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli i ka manawa, e nānā hou aku i nā maka o kēlā me kēia a hana i nā hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe wale nō.

Inā makemake ʻoe e hopu i nā lā nani a i ʻole ka ʻaina kakahiaka aloha ma kahi moe, e hoʻopaʻa i nā mea āpau ma ka pahu pahu. He kani kahiko ia, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana koke i kahi kiʻi me kāu mau hoaaloha. E ola i nā manawa hauʻoli ma hope o kāu hoʻomaha ke hoʻoiho ʻoe i nā wikiō i kāu kamepiula home. ʻAe, koho i nā kiʻi maikaʻi loa no nā ʻoihana pūnaewele me ka ʻole o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ka manawa pilikino me kekahi.

Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka lula 2-2-2 ʻaʻole paʻa loa a hiki ʻole ke hana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi mau. A hāʻawi i kāu mea ponoʻī.