8 mau hewa i hana ʻia e nā kāne ma Instagram

"No ke aha ʻoe i makemake ʻole ai iaʻu?" Nīnau ʻo Elena iā Anatoly me ka huhū. "Lenok, ʻaʻole wau i hele i Facebook i kēia lā!" "ʻAʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻike wau iā ʻoe ma ka Pūnaewele!" ʻAʻole hāʻawi ka ʻoiaʻiʻo hou i nā manawa hou, akā hana pū kekahi i nā pilikia hou.

Hoʻohālikelike mākou i kā mākou pilina me nā pilina o nā kāne ʻē aʻe ma ka pūnaewele. Ua oi aku anei ko lakou hele ana mamua o kakou? ʻOi aku ka pūliki ma ke kiʻi ma mua o mākou? ʻAʻole mālama wale ka hoʻokūkū virtual iā mākou i ke ʻano maikaʻi, akā hoʻohaʻahaʻa hoʻi i ka lokahi o ka lua. He aha kāu e hana hewa ai a he aha kāu e hoʻololi ai e mālama i ka maluhia a me ke aloha?

1. Hoʻouna i nā mea a pau āu e hana pū ai ma ka pūnaewele.

Ma ka hōʻike ʻana i ke kiʻi i ka lehulehu, hoʻohuli mākou i ka manawa "no ʻelua wale nō" i loko o ka lehulehu. Poina e pili ana i ke kelepona, e waiho i ka poʻe kākau inoa me ka ʻole o kahi pou hou. E noʻonoʻo i kāu hoa, e hoʻolimalima manawa me ʻolua wale nō.

2. ʻAʻole ʻoe a i ʻole kāu hoa e haʻalele i ke kelepona

ʻAʻole ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i kāu kelepona. E nānā mau i kāu leka uila, a laila ka pūnaewele. Ke hana like nei kāu hoa? A i ʻole noho wale ʻo ia ma laila a kali a luhi ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i kāu mau hoaaloha? He mea maʻamau kona manaʻo he ʻoi loa. E waiho wale i kāu kelepona a hauʻoli i ke ahiahi no ʻelua. A loaʻa mau ka manawa no ka ʻoihana pūnaewele.

3. Makemake ʻoe i kāu hoa e kau i nā kiʻi o ʻoe

Hiki paha ke kahaha a me ka huhū no ka loaʻa ʻole o kāu mau kiʻi hui ma ka ʻaoʻao. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e kākau e pili ana iā ʻoe, me he mea lā ua kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia. E kali e hoʻohilahila ʻia. Malia paha ʻaʻole makemake ka hoa pili i nā ʻoihana pūnaewele a manaʻoʻiʻo paha e noho pilikino ke ola pilikino. ʻO ke ala maʻalahi e hoʻopau i nā kānalua ʻo ke kamaʻilio pololei me ia.

4. Kākau nui e pili ana i nā pilina.

ʻO nā memo pau ʻole a me nā "moʻolelo" i ka lā āpau he ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. ʻOiai ke hauʻoli nei kāu poʻe kākau inoa iā ʻoe, ma hope a ma hope paha e luhi lākou i ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā pou momona. E ho'ōki i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā "lipine" a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e waiho i kahi kihi o kou ola e hiki ʻole ke ʻike ʻia e ka prying maka.

5. Hoʻohana nui i nā hashtags sugary a me nā captions

ʻAʻole pono e kau i nā hashtags e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou hauʻoli palena ʻole. Ma hope o ka hā, ʻaʻohe mea e nānā iā lākou. Pēlā nō me nā pūlima. I kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka liʻiliʻi.

6. ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu me ka ʻike ʻole o ka hoa pili me ʻoe ma ka Pūnaewele

ʻAʻole haʻalele ka hoa pili iā ʻoe i nā manaʻo kākoʻo, ʻaʻole "makemake" i nā kiʻi, a ʻaʻole kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe ma o Instagram. Hoʻopilikia paha ia iā ʻoe? E kamaʻilio pololei me ia, e ʻike i ka mea e pale aku ai iā ia mai ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ʻoe ma nā ʻoihana pūnaewele. E wehewehe i ka ʻoluʻolu o ka nānā ʻana ʻaʻole ma kahi pilikino wale nō, akā ma ka lehulehu pū kekahi.

7. Mai holoi i nā kiʻi o kāu ex

Mai kau i nā kiʻi o ʻoe a me kāu ex. He mea leʻaleʻa paha i kahi hoa hou ke ʻike iā lākou. ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i "nā mea like", hiki i kahi mea aloha ke hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe ma kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa loa. A pinepine, hiki i ia mau kiʻi ke hōʻailona ʻaʻole ʻoe i haʻalele i ke aloha kahiko.

8. Hauʻoli malū i nā pou a me nā ʻōlelo a kāu hoa

Ua huhū paha ʻoe i ka pou a kekahi hoa a i ʻole kāna ʻōlelo mai kahi hoaaloha? Huhū ʻoe akā hāmau? ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e kamaʻilio pololei i kāu mea makemake ʻole. Malia paha ua hoʻopuka ka hoa i ke kiʻi hewa a i ʻole i hōʻeha iā ʻoe ma ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana me kekahi. Mai kāohi i kou mau manaʻo. ʻO ke kamaʻilio pololei ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia.