ʻO ke kaikamahine, ka mea a nā kauka i hoʻohiki ai i ka makahiki 13 e loaʻa ʻole kāna keiki, ua lilo i makuahine o nā māhoe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he malihini ʻē lākou iā ia.
Menopause - pili kēia huaʻōlelo i ka makahiki o "kahi ma kahi o 50". Pau ka mālama ovarian o nā ovaries, mae ka hana hānau, a hoʻomaka kahi wā hou i ke ola o ka wahine. No Amanda Hill, hoʻomaka kēia wā i kona manawa he 11 wale nō ona makahiki.
ʻO Amanda me kāna kāne ʻo Tom.
"Ua hoʻomaka koʻu manawa mua i koʻu manawa he 10. A i ka 11 o koʻu mau makahiki, ua oki loa. Ma ka 13, ua ʻike ʻia wau me ka ʻelemakule ovarian kūnewa a me ka holomua ovarian a haʻi ʻia ʻaʻole wau e hānau keiki, "wahi a Amanda.
Me he mea lā i ka makahiki 13 a ʻaʻohe mea e mahu - e pili ana i kēlā makahiki e pili ana i nā keiki? Akā mai ka wā kamaliʻi, ua moemoeā ʻo Amanda i kahi ʻohana nui. No laila, ua hina au i loko o kahi kaumaha kaumaha, kahi i hiki ʻole ai iaʻu ke puka i waho no ʻekolu mau makahiki ʻē aʻe.
"I loko o nā makahiki, ua hoʻomaka wau e ʻike ʻo ka hāpai kūlohelohe ʻaʻole wale ke ala e lilo i makuahine. Loaʻa iaʻu ka manaʻolana, "hoʻomau ke kaikamahine.
Ua hoʻoholo ʻo Amanda i ka IVF. Ua kākoʻo piha kāna kāne iā ia i kēia, makemake pū ʻo ia e hānai i nā keiki i like me kāna wahine. No nā kumu maopopo, ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ke kaikamahine kāna mau hua ponoʻī, no laila pono e ʻimi i kahi mea hāʻawi. Ua loaʻa iā lākou kahi koho kūpono mai ka papa inoa o nā mea hāʻawi inoa ʻole: "Ke nānā nei au i ka wehewehe ʻana, makemake wau e ʻike i kahi mea e like me aʻu, ma ka liʻiliʻi ma nā huaʻōlelo. Ua loaʻa iaʻu he kaikamahine koʻu kiʻekiʻe me nā maka like me koʻu. “
I ka hōʻuluʻulu, ua hoʻohana ʻo Amanda a me kāna kāne ma kahi o 1,5 miliona rubles ma IVF - aneane 15 tausani paona paona. Hormone therapy, insemination hana, implantation - hele maikaʻi nā mea āpau. I ka manawa kūpono, hānau he keiki kāne lāua. Ua kapa ʻia ka inoa o ke keiki ʻo Orin.
"Makaʻu wau i ʻole wau e pili i ka naʻau me ia. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, he malihini mākou i kekahi i kekahi. Akā ua nalo nā kānalua āpau i koʻu ʻike ʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona o Tom, kaʻu kāne i ka maka o Orin, "wahi a ka makuahine ʻōpio. Wahi a ia, ua hoʻohālikelike ʻo ia i nā kiʻi kamaliʻi a Tom me Orin a ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka nui a me ka nui o ka like. "ʻAno like lākou!" - minoʻaka ke kaikamahine.
ʻElua mau makahiki ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o Orina, ua hoʻoholo ʻo Amanda i ka lua o ka IVF, ʻoiai ʻoiai he embryo ka i koe mai ka manawa hope loa. "Makemake au i ko Orin kaikaina a kaikaina paha, no laila ʻaʻole ʻo ia i mehameha," wehewehe ʻo ia. A holo hou nā mea āpau: hānau ʻia ka kaikaina māhoe o Orin, ʻo Tylen.
"Kupanaha nō, he māhoe lāua, akā ua noho ʻo Tylen i ʻelua mau makahiki i loko o ka pahu hau. Akā i kēia manawa ua hui pū mākou a hauʻoli loa, - hoʻohui ʻo Amanda. "He ʻōpio loa ʻo Orin e ʻike ʻole he māhoe lāua ʻo Tylen. Akā hoʻomana wale ʻo ia i kona kaikaina. “