Ua hoʻi ʻo Zhanna Friske i Moscow: pehea ka pule mua ma ka home

"Kōkua nā hale a me nā paia," i ʻōlelo ai ka mea mele ma ke kelepona i kāna hoaloha ʻo Anastasia Kalmanovich. ʻOiai, i kona home home, ʻaʻole like ka nohona o Jeanne me ke aupuni haukapila. Hele ʻo ia i nā ʻīlio, hele i nā hale ʻaina kūloko, hoʻoikaika kino a mālama ʻo ia i kāna keiki kāne hoʻokahi a me ka hapa makahiki o Plato. Wahi a nā kauka, ke hana nei ʻo Zhanna i nā mea āpau. ʻO kā lākou ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nui i ka poʻe e hoʻōla nei mai kahi lapaʻau oncology lōʻihi e hoʻi i ko lākou ola maʻamau i ka wā hiki. Inā ʻae ka ikaika a ʻaʻohe allergy i hoʻokumu ʻia e nā lāʻau, mai palena ʻoe iā ʻoe iho: hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻai i nā mea āu e makemake ai, hele i nā haʻuki, a huakaʻi. I loko o hoʻokahi makahiki a me ka hapa i hala, ʻaʻole hiki iā Zhanna Friske ke loaʻa i nā kūʻokoʻa he nui. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia me kahi tumo lolo ma ka lā 24 o Iune i ka makahiki i hala. A hiki i Ianuali, ua hakakā kona ʻohana i kahi hoʻokolohua weliweli ma kā lākou iho. Akā, ua hoʻokau ʻia ka makuakāne o ka mea mele ʻo Vladimir a me ke kāne kūʻāina ʻo Dmitry Shepelev e ʻimi i ke kōkua.

"Mai ka lā 24.06.13 o Iune 104, 555,00, ua mālama ʻia ʻo Zhanna i kahi haukapila ʻAmelika, he $ 29.07.2013 ke kumu kūʻai," i kākau aku ai ʻo Vladimir Borisovich iā Rusfond. - Ma Iulai 170, 083,68, ua hoʻoholo ʻia e hoʻomau i ka mālama ʻana i kahi haukapila Kelemania, kahi o ke kumu kūʻai no 68 euro. Ma muli o ka ʻike paʻakikī a me ka hoʻolālā lapaʻau, ua hoʻopau pau ʻia ke kālā no ka hoʻolako ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, a ke noi aku nei wau iā ʻoe e kōkua i ka uku ʻana… ”ʻAʻole lākou i waiho i ka pilikia. No kekahi mau lā, ua hoʻonui ʻo Channel One a me Rusfond i XNUMX rubles, a ʻo ka hapalua o lākou i hāʻawi manawaleʻa ai ʻo Zhanna i ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki ʻewalu me ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

Ua lawe ʻo Jeanne iā ia iho, me he mea lā, me ka pīhoihoi pālua. Me kāna kāne, keʻimi nei lākou i nā kauka maikaʻi loa o ka honua. Ua lawe mākou i kahi papa ma New York, a laila ma Los Angeles, a ma Mei ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mea mele. Ua neʻe ʻo Friske i Latvia, kū i luna mai ka noho huila a hoʻomaka e hele wāwae iā ia iho, a hoʻi maila kāna mau maka iā ia. Ua hoʻohana ʻo ia i ke kauwela holoʻokoʻa ma kahakai i ka hui o ka poʻe pili - kāne, keikikāne, makuahine a me ka hoaaloha ʻo Olga Orlova. Ua lawe pū ka mea mele i kāna ʻīlio aloha i kona home ma ka Baletika.

"I Iune o kēia makahiki, 25 rubles i koe i ka puʻukū o ka mea mele," wahi a Rusfond. "Wahi a nā hōʻike mai nā ʻohana, ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o Zhanna i kēia manawa, akā ʻaʻole i emi iki ka maʻi." Akā ʻaʻole ia i ʻano maikaʻi aʻe. A ua hoʻoholo ʻo Jeanne e hoʻololi i ke kai Baltic no kona home ponoʻī. Ma Moscow, ua hoʻi ka ʻohana i ka ʻoihana e like me nā manawa mau: Ua lele ka makuakāne o Zhanna i kahi huakaʻi ʻoihana i Dubai, ua hele ka kaikuahine o Natasha i ka haukapila no ka ʻoki ʻana i ka ihu, ke hana nei ka mea mele a me kona makuahine iā Plato, a ke hana nei kāna kāne. I loko o ka pule a kāna wahine i noho ai ma ka home, ua holo ʻo ia i Vilnius a me Kazakhstan. “Makaʻu wau i koʻu mau makemake. Ua moeʻuhane ʻo ia i kahi ʻono o ke ola huakaʻi: nā ʻahamele, neʻe. A neʻe wau kokoke i kēlā me kēia lā. Akā ʻo ka pilikia, ʻaʻole au he hōkū pōhaku, ”i hoʻomākeʻaka ai ka mea hōʻike TV. Akā i kēlā me kēia lā manuahi ʻo Dmitry i kona ʻohana: Hauʻoli ”.

Ua ʻike ʻia ka maʻi ʻaʻai i ka makahiki 2002, a laila hāʻule ka mea hīmeni i kahi koma no 15 mau lā, i ka 2005 a me ka 2009 i Kelemania ua hana ʻo ia i ʻelua mau hana e hemo ai i ka tumo.

"Ua haʻi mai kahi kauka akamai iaʻu:" Mai makaʻu i ka maʻi, akā ʻāpiki ka moe. ʻO kēia ke ala kokoke loa i ka make. ”He paʻakikī, ʻaʻole wau makemake, ʻaʻohe oʻu ikaika, ʻaʻohe oʻu ʻano, kaumaha - nā mea āu e makemake ai, akā pono ʻoe e hoʻoikaika iā ʻoe iho e hele i waho o kahi moe a hana i kekahi mea. Ua hala 15 mau lā i ke koma. I koʻu ala ʻana, pono wau e hānai iaʻu, no ka mea ua holoi nā antibiotic i nā membrane mucous āpau. A he mea hiki ʻole ke nānā i ka meaʻai, waiho wale i ka mea e ʻai ai - ʻino loa ia. Akā hoʻoikaika ʻo Nellie iaʻu, hoʻohiki wau, kūʻē, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hāʻawi, - hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Joseph i ke kamaʻilio me "Antenna". - Ua kōkua ʻo Nelly iaʻu i nā mea āpau. I ka wā aʻu e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai, hoʻolei nā kauka i ko lākou mau lima a ʻōlelo mai ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kōkua. Ua hoʻihoʻi kāna wahine iā lākou i ke keʻena mālama maʻi nui a ʻōlelo akula: A ma ka hana lākou i ka pō a hoʻōla lākou. ʻOiai wau i ka haukapila, nānā ʻo Nelly a me nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. No ka manawa mua wau i ʻike ai i nā moʻo āpau "ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia ka wahi hālāwai", "ʻumikūmāhiku mau manawa o ka puna" a me "Aloha a me nā manu nūnū". Ma mua o kēlā, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i kekahi mea, ʻaʻohe manawa.

ʻIke ʻoe, i ka pakele ʻana i kahi ʻino kūpilikiʻi loa, ua ʻokoʻa koʻu nānā ʻana i koʻu ola. Ua hoʻomaka wau e kaupaona ʻia e nā hālāwai nanea a me ka leʻaleʻa leʻaleʻa. Ua hoʻomaka wau e makemake ʻole i nā hale ʻaina ma kahi āu e hoʻolilo ai i kou manawa me ka hala ʻole. Hoʻomaopopo ʻoe ua ʻelemakule ʻoe a me kēlā me kēia hola, kēlā lā kēia lā aloha. Noho ʻoe no ʻekolu, ʻehā mau hola. Maopopo iaʻu pono wau e hele e hoʻomaikaʻi, akā minamina ia no ka manawa. Inā wau i hana maikaʻi, hana i kahi mea pono, i kapa ʻia nā helu kelepona pono. Ma muli wale nō o Nellie e hele ai i kēia mau hālāwai. I kēlā me kēia manawa aʻu e noi aku ai iā ia: “E ka pēpē, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noho hou, ua noho mākou no ʻekolu mau hola, e hele kāua.” "ʻAe, e kali, i kēia manawa e loaʻa iaʻu kahi kī," wahi a Nelly me ka minoʻaka. A ke hoʻomanawanui nei au. “

I ka makahiki 1991, ua ʻike ʻia ka mea hīmeni me ka maʻi ʻaʻai o ka umauma. Ua kau kona ola i ke kaulike, ua ʻōlelo nā kauka ʻo Lyme "no" 20%, a "kūʻē" - 80%.

"Ua haʻi ʻia mai wau aia wau i ka pae hope loa. Ua hala he 10 mau makahiki ʻaʻole e hele i nā kauka e hoʻomaka iaʻu iho e like me kēlā, - ua ʻae ʻo Vaikule i kekahi o nā papahana kīwī i hoʻolaʻa ʻia no ke kumuhana o ka maʻi ʻaʻai. - Ke maʻi loa ʻoe, makemake ʻoe e pani i kahi pūpū a noho hoʻokahi me kāu pōʻino. Aia kahi makemake e haʻi ʻole aku i kekahi. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki ke lanakila i kēia makaʻu iā ʻoe iho. ʻO ka pae mua o ka maʻi - hele ʻoe i kahi moe a kaomi i kou mau niho i ka makaʻu. ʻO ka pae ʻelua ka inaina i kēlā me kēia mea olakino. Hoʻomaopopo wau i ka noho ʻana o kaʻu mau mea hoʻokani pila a puni iaʻu a ʻōlelo maila: “Pono wau e kūʻai i nā kāmaʻa no ke keiki.” A ua inaina wau iā lākou: “He aha ke ʻano o nā kāmaʻa? ʻAʻole ia he mea nui. "Akā i kēia manawa ua hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo aʻe ua hoʻomaikaʻi kēia maʻi maʻi iaʻu. Ma mua o kēlā, ua poloka loa wau. Hoʻomaopopo wau i koʻu hoʻopaʻi ʻana i koʻu mau hoaaloha i ʻai i ka herring, kaʻuala, nānā iā lākou a noʻonoʻo: "E ke Akua, he mea weliweli, eia lākou ke noho nei, inu, ʻai i nā ʻōpala āpau, a ʻapōpō e hiamoe ai lākou, a holo wau ma 9 am. No ke aha lākou e ola ai? ”ʻAʻohe manaʻo pēlā. ”

I nā makahiki he iwakālua i hala aku nei, i ka puna o 1993, ua haʻi aku nā kauka ʻAmelika i ka mea hōʻike TV ua loaʻa ʻo ia i ka maʻi ʻaʻai.

"Hoʻomanaʻo wau i ka manawa i haʻi ʻia mai iaʻu he maʻi ʻaʻai koʻu. Aia kekahi manaʻo ua lele wau i loko o kahi paia pōhaku paʻa i ka wikiwiki. Ua kiola ʻia wau, ua kīkē ʻia wau i waho, - Ua haʻi pololei ʻo Posner i kekahi o nā nīnauele. - He kanaka kūʻē wau i ke kūlohelohe. Ua pili ka hopena mua me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he 59 wale nō koʻu mau makahiki, makemake wau e ola. A laila no ka hapanui wau, ka mea e manaʻoʻiʻo nei: inā he maʻi ʻaʻai, a laila nā mea āpau. Akā ua hoʻomaka wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana ia me kaʻu mau hoaaloha, a haʻohaʻo lākou: he aha ʻoe? ʻIke paha ʻoe i kāu mea e ʻōlelo nei? ʻO ka mea mua, e nānā i ke kuhi - e hele i kekahi kauka. Inā hōʻoia, neʻe. Ka mea aʻu i hana ai.

Ma ʻAmelika ia, i kēlā manawa e hana pū ana au me Phil Donahue, ka mea i lilo i hoa pili naʻu. Ua ʻike mākou ʻo wai ka "helu ʻekahi" ma kēia wahi i United States, ua loaʻa iā Kauka Patrick Walsh (Professor Patrick Walsh, ka luna o ka Johns Hopkins Brady Urological Institute. - Ed.). ʻO Phil, ka mea kaulana loa i kēlā manawa, kāhea iā ia a noi mai iaʻu e ʻōlelo aʻo. Ua hele mai wau me nā pāheʻe a manaʻolana he kuhihewa ia. ʻLelo ke kauka, "ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole kuhihewa." - "No laila he aha aʻe?" "He hana maoli nō ia. Ua loaʻa koke ʻoe i ka maʻi, a hōʻoiaʻiʻo wau iā ʻoe e maikaʻi nā mea āpau. ”Kahaha au: pehea e hōʻoia ai i kekahi mea, ʻo kēia ka maʻi ʻaʻai. ʻLelo ke kauka: "Ke hana nei wau ma kēia wahi i koʻu ola a hāʻawi wau iā ʻoe i kahi hōʻoia. Akā pono ʻoe e hoʻokele me ka wikiwiki i hiki. “

ʻAʻohe kemika a me nā radiation. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hana ponoʻī. I koʻu haʻalele ʻana i ka haukapila, ua haʻalele koʻu ikaika iaʻu i kekahi manawa. ʻAʻole i liʻuliʻu, ma kahi o hoʻokahi pule, a laila ua hoʻokele wau i loko. ʻAʻole ʻo wau iho, ʻo ia nō. ʻO Phil, kāna wahine, ua kōkua kaʻu wahine iaʻu me kahi ʻano maʻamau. Hoʻolohe mau wau e ʻike inā aia kekahi mea hoʻopunipuni i ko lākou leo. Akā ʻaʻohe mea i aloha mai iaʻu, ʻaʻohe mea nāna i nānā mai iaʻu me ka maka me ka waimaka. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu pehea ka holomua o kaʻu wahine, akā ua lilo ʻo ia i kākoʻo nui loa naʻu. No ka mea ʻo wau iho kekahi i uē i kekahi manawa.

Ua ʻike wau e mālama ʻia ka maʻi ʻaʻai ma ke ʻano he pilikia e hoʻonā ʻia. Akā i ka manawa like, e hoʻomaopopo he poʻe make mākou āpau a he kuleana no kā mākou mea aloha. Pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo hou aʻe e pili ana iā lākou ma mua o ʻoe iho, a hoʻonohonoho i nā mea i ke kaʻina. Akā ʻaʻole makaʻu ka mea nui loa. He mea nui loa ia. Pono i loko e ʻōlelo iā ia iho a me kāna maʻi: akā ʻaʻole! ʻAʻole e loaʻa iā ʻoe! ”

ʻO ka hōʻailona o "ka maʻi hānai umauma" i ka makahiki 1998 i hana ʻia i kahi mea kākau ʻike ʻole ʻia i ka manawa o ka maʻi i kona manawa hope loa. ʻAʻole i hāʻawi nā kauka i nā wanana, akā ua hiki iā Daria ke ola hou, a laila ua lilo ʻo ia i ʻelele kūhelu o ka papahana "Together Against Breast Cancer" a kākau ʻo ia i kāna moʻolelo ʻike mākaʻikaʻi maikaʻi loa.

"Inā ua hōʻoia ʻia ʻoe me ka oncology, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻo ke kū hou aʻe he" crematorium ". Hoola ʻia nā mea āpau! - haʻi ka mea kākau iā Antenna. - ʻOiai, ka manaʻo mua e kupu mai ana: pehea ia, e hoʻomālamalama ana ka lā, a e make wau?! ʻAʻole ka mea nui e waiho i kēia noʻonoʻo e aʻa, inā ʻaʻole e ʻai ia iā ʻoe. Pono wau e ʻōlelo: "ʻAʻole ia makaʻu loa, hiki iaʻu ke mālama." A kūkulu i kou ola i ʻole ka manawa kūpono e make ai ka make ma waena o kāu ʻoihana. ʻAʻole wau makemake i nā huaʻōlelo "e nānā iaʻu", akā i kēia hihia ʻōlelo wau i kēlā. He ʻumikūmālima mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ʻaʻole wau he mea kākau kaulana a mālama ʻia i kahi haukapila manuahi kūloko. I hoʻokahi makahiki ua hana wau i ka radiation a me ka chemotherapy, ʻekolu mau hana, hemo i kaʻu mau mammary a me nā ovaries. Lawe wau i nā hormona no ʻelima mau makahiki hou aku. Ua heleleʻi koʻu lauoho āpau ma hope o ka chemotherapy. He ʻoluʻolu ʻole, paʻakikī, ʻeha kekahi manawa e mālama ʻia, akā ua ola au, no laila hiki iā ʻoe kekahi.

ʻO ka Oncology kahi hōʻailona e ola hewa ʻoe, pono ʻoe e loli. Pehea? Piʻi ka poʻe āpau me kā lākou ala ponoʻī. Maikaʻi nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e kū mai ana iā mākou. Ua hala nā makahiki, a ʻike ʻoe inā ʻaʻole i ku ka maʻi i ka lae, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokō i kāu mea i kēia manawa. Ua hoʻomaka wau i ke kākau ʻana i loko o ka hale mālama nui o kahi haukapila oncological. Ua puka kaʻu puke mua i ka hoʻopau ʻana i kaʻu papa chemotherapy. I kēia manawa ʻaʻole au e nānā i nā mea liʻiliʻi a hauʻoli wau i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻĀlohilohi ka lā - kupaianaha, no ka mea ʻaʻole paha wau i ʻike i kēia lā! “

Ua ʻike ʻia ka Lūkini Lūkini me ka maʻi ʻaʻai puʻupuʻu ma 1987. Ua hoʻohuli kāna wahine ʻo Alla Balter i nā kauka e haʻi ʻole iā ia i ke kuhi. No laila, ma mua o ka hana, ua manaʻo ʻo Vitorgan he maʻi kō kona.

"Ua ʻōlelo nā kānaka āpau he maʻi pehu koʻu. A laila haʻalele koke wau i ka puhipaka ... A ma hope wale nō o ka hana ʻana, pono ma ka hale haukapila, hoʻokuʻu wale nā ​​kauka, ʻano hoʻomaha, ʻike lākou he maikaʻi nā mea āpau. ʻLelo lākou he maʻi ʻaʻai ia. “

Ua hoʻi ka maʻi ʻaʻai 10 mau makahiki ma hope. ʻAʻole iā ia, i kāna wahine.

"Ua hakakā mākou no ʻekolu mau makahiki, a ʻo kēlā me kēia makahiki i pau i ka lanakila, hoʻi hou ʻo Allochka i ka ʻoihana, pāʻani i nā hana. ʻEkolu mau makahiki. A laila ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou. Ua mākaukau wau e hāʻawi i koʻu ola no Allochka e ola ai.

I ka hala ʻana o Allochka, ua manaʻo wau ʻaʻohe kumu e hoʻomau ai au i ka noho ʻana. Pono wau e hoʻopau i koʻu noho ʻana. ʻO Ira (ka wahine lua a ka mea pena kiʻi - approx. ʻO ka Lā Wahine) i hele i loko o nā mea āpau a me nā mea āpau. Mahalo iā ia, ua ʻike wau ʻaʻohe kuleana o ke kanaka e hoʻolilo i kona ola i kēia ala. “

I loko o ka ʻohana o ka mea kākau, ʻaneʻane pau loa ka poʻe āpau i ka make, i ka maʻi ʻaʻai. No laila, ua hoʻomākaukau ʻo ia no ka mea ʻo kēia maʻi e hoʻopili iā ia. I mea e hele ai i mua o ka maʻi, ua nānā ʻo Ulitskaya i kēlā me kēia makahiki. ʻO ka manawa wale nō ia i ʻike ʻia ai ka maʻi ʻaʻai o ka umauma ua ʻekolu ona makahiki. Pehea ʻo ia e kū ai i ka maʻi, ua wehewehe ʻo Lyudmila i kāna puke "Sacred Garbage".

"Kīkē maoli nā kulu i nā manawa āpau. ʻAʻole mākou e lohe i kēia mau kulu ma hope o ka nui o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā - hauʻoli, kaumaha, ʻano ʻokoʻa. Akā hikiwawe - ʻaʻole kahi mele melodic o kahi kulu, akā he hōʻailona ʻokoʻa: Pōkole ke ola. ʻOi aku ka make ma mua o ke ola! Aia ʻo ia ma aneʻi, ma hope ou! A ʻaʻole hoʻopunipuni ʻo Nabokov. Ua loaʻa iaʻu kēia hoʻomanaʻo i ka hoʻomaka o 2010.

Aia kahi predisposition maʻi ʻaʻai. ʻAneʻane pau koʻu ʻohana o ka hanauna mua i ka maʻi ʻaʻai: makuahine, makuakāne, kupuna wahine, kupuna wahine, kūpuna kāne ... Mai nā ʻano maʻi ʻaʻai, i nā makahiki like ʻole: koʻu makuahine ma 53, kūpuna kāne ma 93. No laila, ʻAʻole wau i ka pouli e pili ana i kaʻu mau prospect ... Ma ke ʻano he kanaka makaʻāinana, ua kipa au i nā kauka me kekahi alapine, hana i nā kaha kūpono. I ko mākou makuakāne i pale ʻia e ke Akua, ʻike ka wahine i ka scan ultrasound a hiki i ka piha ʻana o lākou i kanaono makahiki, a me nā mammogram ma hope o kanaono.

Ua hele pono wau i kēia mau nānā ʻana, ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ko mākou ʻāina i ke ʻano hoʻowahāwahā ʻole iā ia iho, ka makaʻu i nā kauka, kahi ʻano make i ke ola a me ka make, ka palaualelo a me kahi ʻano Lūkia kūikawā ʻo "mālama ʻole" i kumu. ʻAʻole piha kēia kiʻi inā ʻaʻole wau i hoʻohui ʻaʻole i ʻike nā kauka Moscow i hana i nā hoʻokolohua i koʻu tumo no ʻekolu mau makahiki. Akā ua aʻo wau i kēia ma hope o ka hana.

Ua lele wau i ka ʻIseraʻela. Aia kekahi keʻena ma laila aʻu i ʻike ʻole ai e pili ana - ke keʻena o ke kōkua psychological, aia kekahi psychologists e hana pū me nā mea maʻi maʻi ʻaʻai e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo i kēia kūlana, e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou hiki i loko, e hoʻomaopopo pehea e pono ai. I kēia manawa, he wahi keʻokeʻo wale nō kā mākou. Minamina, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻololi i kekahi mea i ka ʻōnaehana olakino, akā ʻo ke ʻano i ka poʻe maʻi ka mea aʻu i aʻo ai mai kēia ʻike. Maliʻa paha e ʻike kekahi i mea pono

Ua wehe koke ʻia nā mea āpau: ua hōʻike kahi biopsy hou i kahi ʻano carcinoma e pane lohi i ka kemika a me he mea lā ʻoi aku ka hakakā ma mua o adenocarcinoma. Maʻi ʻaʻai makuahine. ʻO Labial, ʻo ia hoʻi, ductal - no ke aha e paʻakikī ai ka ʻike.

Mei 13. Ua lawe lākou i ka umauma hema. Kupaianaha loea. ʻAʻole ʻeha iki. I kēia pō, ke wahaheʻe nei wau, e heluhelu ana, e hoʻolohe ana i nā mele. Mālamalama ʻo Anesthesia a me ʻelua injection i ke kua, i nā aʻa o nā aʻa i loko o ka umauma: ua ālai ʻia lākou! ʻAʻohe ʻeha. ʻO ka ipu kīʻaha me kahi kahawai holo e kau ʻia ma ka hema. 75 ml koko. Aia ma ka ʻākau kahi cannula transfusion. Hoʻolauna ʻia kahi antibiotic i ka hihia wale nō.

He ʻumi mau lā ma hope mai, ua hōʻike lākou he pono ka hana ʻelua, no ka mea ua loaʻa iā lākou kahi pūnaewele i loko o kekahi o nā glands ʻelima, kahi i hōʻike ʻole ʻia ai e ka aniani kikoʻī. Hoʻonohonoho ʻia ka hana ʻelua no Iune 3, ma lalo o ka lima. I ka manawa, emi iki ka lōʻihi, akā i ke kumu, like nā mea āpau: anesthesia, ka hoʻokahe like, ka hoʻōla like. Maliʻa ʻeha paha. A laila - nā koho: he 5 mau makahiki paha o ka hōmona, aia paha he irradiation kūloko, a ʻo ka koho ʻoi loa he 8 moʻo o ka chemotherapy me kahi wā o 2 mau pule, 4 mau mahina. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu pehea e hana ʻole ai i nā hoʻolālā, akā i kēia manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa o ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka lāʻau ma ʻOkakopa. ʻOiai he nui nā koho ʻino loa. ʻO kaʻu pae ke kolu o ko mākou manaʻo. Nā metastases Armpit.

He manawa nō kaʻu e noʻonoʻo ai i ka mea i loaʻa iaʻu. I kēia manawa ke hana nei lākou i ka chemotherapy. A laila e nui aʻe ka radiation. Hāʻawi nā kauka i kahi wānana maikaʻi. Ua manaʻo lākou he nui nā manawa aʻu e lele lele ai i waho o kēia moʻolelo. Akā ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hele i waho o kēia moʻolelo ola. Ua hele mai kahi manaʻo maʻalahi a akāka ʻole i koʻu noʻonoʻo: ʻo ka maʻi ka mea o ke ola, ʻaʻole ka make. A ʻo ka mea wale nō i ke ala hea mākou e haʻalele ai i ka hale hope loa a mākou e ʻike ai.

ʻIke ʻoe, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi e pili ana i ka maʻi ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi ʻōnaehana hou o nā coordinate, lawe mai i nā ana hou i ke ola. ʻAʻole ka mea nui a nui ʻole i kahi āu i waiho ai iā lākou ma mua. No kekahi manawa lōʻihi ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaopopo he pono wau e hoʻōla ʻia, a laila hoʻopau i ke kākau ʻana i ka puke aʻu e hana nei i kēlā manawa. “

Ua hūnā ka wahine a Alexander Buinov i ka hōʻailona. Ua haʻi mua nā kauka iā ia he maʻi ʻaʻai prostate ka mea mele.

"I hoʻokahi manawa i ʻōlelo mai ʻo Buinov iaʻu:" Inā kū kekahi mea iaʻu ma muli o ka maʻi a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke olakino a ikaika hoʻi iā ʻoe, e kī wau iā ʻoe iho e like me Hemingway! ”- wahi a Alena Buinova i kekahi o nā papahana kīwī. - A hoʻokahi wale nō mea aʻu i makemake ai - nāna e ola! No laila, pono wau e hōʻike i ka maikaʻi o nā mea āpau! I ʻole e kuhi kaʻu mea aloha Buinov! “

"Ua hūnā ʻo ia he ʻeono oʻu mau mahina e ola ai inā ʻaʻole i kaohi ka hopena. Hāʻawi kaʻu wahine iaʻu i ka hilinaʻi i ke ola! A makemake wau i nā kāne āpau e loaʻa i kahi wahine e like me kaʻu! "- Mahalo ʻo Buinov ma hope.

I mea e pale aku ai i kāna kāne mai ka pilikia a kākoʻo iā ia i kahi manawa weliweli, ua hele ʻo Alena, me Alexander, i ka hale maʻi, kahi a lākou i ʻoki ai i kāna prostate me kahi tumo.

"No hoʻokahi mahina paha mākou e moe ai ma nā moena e pili ana kekahi i kekahi ma ke kikowaena oncology. Ua hoʻāʻo wau e hōʻike iā Buinov ke hele nei ke ola e like me ka mau. Pono ʻo ia e hoʻomaka i ka hana, ke kali nei kahi hui me ia ma mua o 15 mau makahiki. A ma ka lā 10 ma hope o ka hana me ʻekolu mau paipu i loko o ka ʻōpū, e hana ana kaʻu kāne. A ʻekolu mau pule ma hope ua mele ʻo ia i mua o kahi keʻena hana kūikawā ma Pyatigorsk. A ʻaʻohe mea i noʻonoʻo e nīnau e pili ana i kona olakino. “

I ka makahiki 2007, ua ʻike ʻia ka mea kaha kiʻi me kahi maʻi ʻaʻai make loa.

"I ke kani ʻana:" He maʻi kō kou, "ua lilo ka honua i ʻeleʻele. Akā ʻo ka mea nui ka hiki ke hoʻoneʻe koke. Ua pāpā wau iaʻu iho e minamina iaʻu iho, "ʻae ʻo Nikolayev.

Ua hāʻawi nā hoa aloha iā ia i nā lāʻau lapaʻau ma Switzerland, Israel, Kelemania, akā ua koho ʻo Yuri i ka mālama home ʻana a mihi ʻole ia. Ua hana ʻo ia i kahi hana paʻakikī e wehe i ka tumo a me kahi papa o ka chemotherapy.

ʻAʻole hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Yuri Nikolaev i ka wā postoperative. I ka manawa mua, ʻaʻole makemake ka mea hoʻolaha TV e ʻike i kekahi, ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa me ia wale nō. I kēia lā ua maopopo iā ia ʻo ka hilinaʻi i ke Akua i kōkua iā ia e ola i kēia manawa.