Contents
He pēpē, paʻakikī ke hāʻawi
Paʻakikī, paʻakikī, e haʻi iā ʻoe iho ʻaʻole ʻoe e paʻa hou i kahi ʻōpae liʻiliʻi ma kou mau lima. ʻO ka manaʻo o nā minoʻaka mua, ka ʻala nani o ka ʻili o nā kamaliʻi…Makemake mākou ʻaʻole e pau, He kumu maikaʻi kēlā e hana i kahi hapakolu iki!
ʻAʻole lohi loa no ke kolu o ka pēpē
Nui nā wahine i kēia manawa i kā lākou keiki mua ma hope o 35 mau makahiki. ʻO ʻoe, ʻelua ʻanuʻu ʻoe ma mua. ʻO ka ʻike akā ʻaʻole i kēia manawa menopausal, loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea āpau! Inā he hāpai lohi, ʻo ʻoe ka mea a pau e noonoo ai mai ka poʻe obstetricians, me ka hele ʻole ʻana no kahi pōʻino ʻole.
Ua lilo ʻoe i makuahine pro maoli
No ka mea mua, holoi mākou i nā pulupulu. No ka lua, lawe mākou i ka ʻinikua akā, ke hana nei mākou i kekahi mau hewa. A ʻo ke kolu o ke keiki, lawe mākou i ka pono piha. E emi ana kou hopohopo. ʻO ka uē, nā maʻi liʻiliʻi, ka ʻano meaʻai, ʻaʻohe mea huna o kēia mau mea a pau iā ʻoe. Eia nō 'oe ma luna o kou akamai makua. He mea hilahila ke kaʻana like ʻole me kahi mea liʻiliʻi.
E hāmama ana kāu mau keiki
Wahi a kekahi mau ho'ēmi, hoʻomaka nā kaikunāne maoli i ʻekolu : no kahi mea pāʻani a i ʻole nā kuleana liʻiliʻi ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e kūkākūkā a aʻo i ka kaʻana like. Ua lawa ka hoʻolilo ʻana i kāu mau keiki liʻiliʻi i poʻe makua kamaʻilio a lokomaikaʻi, a i kēia manawa, e hauʻoli i ka hoʻoikaika ʻia ʻana i ka nursery o ka muli loa. He keiki hou, He pāʻina, he hoʻonui i ka ikehu no ka male a me ka ʻohana.
ʻAʻole pono e neʻe
Hoʻokahi lumi no ke keiki, ʻaʻole ia he pauku koi. Hauʻoli paha kāu poʻe ʻelemakule e kaʻana like i ka pā pāʻani like a moe pū. I ka hopena, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i kahi mezzanine. A hiki i ka mea hou e noho malie, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻoiai ʻo ia e noho ana ma kahi ʻokoʻa.
He hana maikai ka hana hou ana i na hanauna
ʻOiai ka nui o ka hānau ʻana o dhe mau keiki no ka wahine ma ka awelika i ka makahiki 2011, e emi mai ana na wahine e hanau ana. No laila, inā ʻo ʻoe ka makuahine hauʻoli o nā keiki liʻiliʻi ʻekolu, ke komo nei ʻoe i ka hana hou o nā hanauna. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kūlana maikaʻi.
ʻOhana nui, ʻohana hauʻoli
ʻAʻole kēia he hoʻopaʻapaʻa hoʻoholo, akā helu ia: no nā keiki 3, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā haʻawina ʻohana (mai 127,05 € no nā keiki ʻelua a € 289,82 no ʻekolu keiki), a e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻāpana hou e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke uku liʻiliʻi i ka ʻauhau. ʻO ka hope, pōmaikaʻi ʻoe mai ka kāleka ʻohana nui, me nā uku ho'ēmi i kāu lawe a me ka leʻaleʻa.
He hoʻomaka hou
Ma waena o ke keiki ʻelua a me ke keiki ʻekolu, ua hoʻololi ʻoe i kekahi mau hoa, hana hou i kou ola. ʻO kēia pēpē ka mea nāna sila i kāu mau kāne hou, a e hoʻololi ia i nā mea a pau.
Nou ka minivan hope loa
E hauʻoli ʻo Monsieur i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kumu kūpono hoʻololi i ke kaʻa liʻiliʻi a ʻelemakule loa. A ʻo ʻoe, oe hoʻokomo i kēlā mau hāmeʻa liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole ʻoe i uku iā ʻoe iho no ka mea mua.
26 pule o ka haʻalele hānau
ʻO ka lōʻihi o ke kānāwai o ka haʻalele makuahine he 16 mau pule, akā ʻo ia hoʻonui ʻia e 10 pule inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e hana i ke kolu liʻiliʻi! 8 pule ma mua o ka hānau ʻana a me 18 mau pule ma hope, He aha ka mea e hoʻohana pono ai i kēia ʻāpana kāpeti hou.