PSYchology

Hiki a pono e leʻaleʻa i ke ola e like me ka wā kamaliʻi, wahi a ka mea kākau moʻolelo ʻo Tim Lott. Hāʻawi ʻo ia i ʻumi mau hana hoʻopunipuni e kōkua iā ʻoe e like me ke keiki i kāu mau makahiki 30, 40, a hiki i 80s.

Ke ulu nei ka nui o nā mea hoʻopunipuni. ʻOi aku ma mua o 60% o nā mākua Pelekane e ʻōlelo nei ua like lākou me nā keiki nui. ʻO kēia nā hopena o kahi noiʻi i hoʻomaka ʻia e ke kīwī keiki ʻo Tiny Pop. Makemake au e hoʻolimalima manawa e like me ke kamaliʻi, a he mau manaʻo hou koʻu e pili ana i kēia.

1. E hele makaikai me ka noho po

Ma kahi pāʻina, hiki iā ʻoe ke hele piha loa - e ʻai i nā meaʻai ʻōpala a me nā mea ʻono a e makaʻala i ka haʻi ʻana i nā moʻolelo weliweli. Ua ho'āʻo wau e hoʻonohonoho i nā leʻaleʻa like me nā hoalauna, akā i kēia manawa ʻaʻohe kūleʻa. Me he mea lā ua manaʻo lākou he ʻano ʻano liʻiliʻi wau. Malia paha ua ʻike lākou iaʻu he maniac e uhaki ana i nā hale o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, akā ʻaʻole wau e hāʻawi. I ka hopena, ʻaʻole i hui ke kukui ma luna o nā hoalauna e like me ka wedge. Ma hope a ma hope paha, e loaʻa iaʻu nā collaborators-scammers.

2. ʻAi nui i ka candy

Ke hele au i ka hale kūʻai lole a ʻike i kēia nani ʻano like ʻole, puka mai ka ʻōlelo aʻo i loko o ka lolo: "ʻAʻole ʻai ke kanaka makua i nā kukui paʻakikī, nā ʻōpala a me nā toffees." He aha ke ano lapuwale? ʻAʻohe mea e kōkua i koʻu mau niho, e like me koʻu pūhaka. Nani ka ma'i o keia makaleka maka ole ke kō!

3. Lele ma ka trampoline inflatable

ʻO kēia ke ala leʻaleʻa e hoʻolimalima manawa i ke kauwela. ʻOi loa inā inu liʻiliʻi ʻoe a pilikia paha ʻoe me ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hilahila ka poʻe ma luna o 50 i ka leʻaleʻa nui, no ka mea makaʻu lākou i ka hoʻowahāwahā. A maopopo iaʻu he mea maikaʻi ke ʻakaʻaka.

4. Hāʻawi i nā malihini i kahi mea maikaʻi

E lawe aku kēlā me kēia hoaaloha mai kāu pāʻina ʻaʻole wale i nā hoʻomanaʻo leʻaleʻa, akā i kahi makana hoʻokahi. He ʻeke lole paha, he baluna, a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe.

5. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i ke kālā ʻeke

He mea maikaʻi loa ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kālā liʻiliʻi i hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia no nā leʻaleʻa - nā kaʻa, nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, ka lole a me ka hauʻulu.

6. Moe ma kahi moe

He nui ka poʻe i hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kēia leʻaleʻa i ko lākou mau makahiki ʻōpio, akā ma ke ʻano he poʻe mākua ua hoʻomaka lākou e hewa ke hoʻolilo lākou i ka manawa hana ʻole. E waiho i ka hewa makua ma ka puka o ke keena moe a e hooluolu i ka palaualelo.

7. E kūʻai iā ʻoe iho i mea pāʻani palupalu

I ka wā kamaliʻi, loaʻa i kēlā me kēia keiki ka bea punahele, hare a i ʻole kekahi holoholona huluhulu ʻē aʻe. I kekahi manawa, i kahi manawa paʻakikī o koʻu ola, ua lawe au i kahi Teddy bear mai kaʻu keiki. Ua pūliki au iā ia i ka pō a pau a kamaʻilio e pili ana i koʻu mau pilikia. ʻAʻole wau e ʻōlelo ua kōkua ia, akā ʻaʻole wau e ʻae i ka hana hou ʻana i kēlā ʻike. Makaʻu wale au e kūʻē nā keiki.

8. E hoʻōho mai ka puʻuwai ma kahi pāʻani haʻuki

ʻOiai ke nānā nei ʻoe i ka pāʻani ma ka hale pāʻani a i ʻole ma ka home, e puhi i ka mahu.

9. Uwe

Hoʻopiʻi pinepine ʻia nā kāne i ka ʻike ʻole. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, makaʻu lākou i ka uē, o ʻike ʻia lākou ʻaʻole i lawa ka wiwo ʻole. E hoʻomanaʻo i kou wā kamaliʻi i uē ai ʻoe i ka waimaka inā ʻāhewa kou makuahine iā ʻoe? No ke aha ʻaʻole e hoʻāʻo i kēia hana ma ke ʻano he kanaka makua? Wahine ʻili? E hoʻomaka i ka uē, a poina iā ia ke kumu o ka hauʻoli.

10. E hoʻokuʻu i nā waʻa i loko o ka lumi ʻauʻau

Luuluu loa ka ʻauʻau makua. Ua moe au i nā puke wai ʻole i hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i loko o ka lumi lumi, akā ʻaʻole wau e hōʻole i ka moku kaʻa. Ke noʻonoʻo nei au e hoʻonohonoho i kahi papa aʻo i nā scammers. Hiki iā ʻoe ke uku iā ia me nā ʻāpana kokoleka a me nā pūliki.

E pili ana i ka mea kākau: ʻO Tim Lott he mea kākau moʻolelo, Guardian columnist, a me ka mea kākau o Under the Same Stars.

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