11 mau ʻano kāne hoʻokahi āu e ʻike ai ma ka pūnaewele a ma waho

1. Kanaka ʻoluʻolu

He punahele ʻo ia, kū koke mai nā mea ʻē aʻe, a, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e koho mua ʻoe iā ia. He ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia a ʻike ʻo ia i ke ʻano o kou manaʻo e like me ʻoe ma ka lani ʻehiku. Akā, he moho nui ʻo ia e uhaʻi i kou puʻuwai…

He mea hoihoi loa ka hoʻolimalima manawa me ia - inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻo i kahi pilina lōʻihi.

2. Aloha

Ke leka uila wale nei ʻoe, a ua kāhea ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kāna hoaaloha. Makemake mau ʻo ia e loaʻa nā memo mai iā ʻoe a e kelepona iā ʻoe i nā manawa he nui i ka lā.

E hōʻoia ʻaʻole ʻo ia e lawe i kou manawa āpau ma kēia ʻano: ma kēia ala ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me nā kāne ʻē aʻe.

3. Ke kanaka ma ke kaʻa kaʻa

Mai poina i kāna ʻaoʻao no ke kiʻi wale nō o kona ʻaʻahu ʻana i nā makaaniani a me ka mahiole: pono ʻo ia e nānā. Nui nā kāne i waena o ke ola i kahi leʻaleʻa. Ma waena o lākou he mau kauka, loio, a me nā ʻoihana.

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makaʻu e noho ma ka noho hope iā ia, hiki i kēia moho.

4. Kanaka me ke kiʻi ʻole

Hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio pū me ia, akā ma ke kaʻina o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a ma hope o ia, e mau nō ʻo ia e like me ia: he kāne male e noho ana ma kahi pūnaewele a i ʻole ma Tinder.

5. Romantic ma kahi mamao

Inā makemake ʻoe i ka noʻonoʻo mai ka wā kamaliʻi, ʻo ia paha ke koho kūpono loa iā ʻoe. Hoʻohana ʻoe i nā hola ma kāu kelepona e hōʻike ana i kāu mau mea huna hohonu i kekahi i kekahi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ma hope o kahi hālāwai pilikino, ʻaʻole mau ka "kelepona kelepona".

Ma ke ʻano he mea aʻoaʻo, ua ʻike au i nā kāne e noho kokoke ana kekahi i kekahi, i kekahi mau hola. ʻO kēia kāu ʻano hoa inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i ka hana maʻamau i loko o kahi pilina a ʻae wale nō e noho pū i nā hopena pule.

6. Ke kanaka i ka imi ana i ka psychotherapist

Ke ʻimi nei ʻo ia i psychologist, a ʻo ʻoe kēlā psychologist. No nā hola a me ka uku ʻole, e haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe e pili ana i kona mau pilikia a me kāna mau kānalua.

Akā, mai hoʻokauwā ʻia e kēia kaʻina hana, e ʻimi i kahi hoa olakino olakino.

7. "Ka mea kūʻai pūnaewele"

Ua kākau ʻia kekahi o nā moʻolelo leʻaleʻa e ka poʻe i papa inoa i nā mea e pono ai kāna mea i koho ai. “He lōʻihi ʻoe, ʻuʻuku, he kauka a kahu hānai paha, ʻaʻohe keiki, ʻaʻole puhi …”

Akā ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa, ma hope o ka heluhelu ʻana i kahi papa inoa nui, e hauʻoli ʻoe e pili pū me ia.

8. Mea hoʻopunipuni

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole kēia ka scammer nāna e noi iā ʻoe i ke kālā e hoʻolaha i kāu ʻoihana waiwai nui e hiki mai ana me ia. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e ʻaihue i ke kālā mai iā ʻoe, akā ʻike ʻo ia i ka lanakila koke ʻana o kou puʻuwai.

Loaʻa i kēlā mau kāne nā kiʻi nani loa a me nā ʻikepili nani. E hauʻoli ana ʻoe i ka nānā ʻana o kēlā kanaka iā ʻoe. A ʻike nō hoʻi ʻo ia.

9. Opio. ʻōpiopio loa

No ka wahine i kona wā kahiko: aia maoli kekahi ʻano o nā kāne ʻōpio ma ka Pūnaewele e hoihoi i nā wahine ʻelemakule.

Inā kūpono ia i kāu ego, no ke aha? ʻO ka mea nui e makaʻala ʻaʻole e hoʻohuli, e like me ka ʻōlelo a ka poʻe Pelekania, i Sugar Mama - "sugar mommy" - a ʻaʻole e hoʻomaka i ka mālama ʻana iā ia.

10. Kanaka kahiko

Ma waena o lākou, hiki ke hopu ʻia ka poʻe o ke kula kahiko, ʻoiaʻiʻo a pololei. Aia paha kekahi poʻe e mālama iā ʻoe me he lede lā. ʻO kēlā me kēia hihia, hoihoi ka nui o lākou e kamaʻilio. Pono e hāʻawi i kēia ʻano kāne hoʻokahi i ka manawa hoʻokahi.

11. Kou kanaka

ʻAʻole ʻo ia ka nani loa.

Akā, e hoihoi ʻo ia i kāu hana, pehea kou noho ʻana, a makemake ʻo ia e hana i nā mea āpau no ʻoe i hauʻoli ai ʻoe.

Aia lākou a pau ma ka pūnaewele a ke kali nei iā ʻoe e hele mai ma laila. Manaʻoʻiʻo wale.