ʻO ka pahu pahu ʻaʻole loa e hoʻopaʻa i kahi kuʻi? He mea aloha me ka hiki ʻole ke hoʻohui i ka hauʻoli me kāna mea aloha? He limahana i ʻae ʻole i nā lula o kāna hui? Hōʻike nā hiʻohiʻona pohihihi i ka manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻino nā ʻano kūʻē like ʻole i ka hoʻopili ʻana (pale, fusion, introjection i nā hihia i luna).
ʻO ka manaʻo nui o Gestalt psychology — «contact» wehewehe i ka pilina o ke kino me ke kaiapuni. Me ka launa ʻole, ʻōlelo ʻo Gestalt therapist Gordon Wheeler, ʻaʻole hiki ke ola ke kino. Akā,ʻaʻohe "kūpono" pili: "E wehe i nā kū'ē a pau, a lailaʻo ka mea i koe,ʻaʻole ia he pilina maʻemaʻe, akā, he hui piha a he kino make paha,ʻo ia ka mea "ma waho o ka pilina". Manaʻo ka mea kākau e noʻonoʻo i nā kū'ē ma ke ʻano he "hana" o ka hoʻopili ʻana (a me kā lākou hui ʻana ma ke ʻano he "contact style" hiʻohiʻona o kēlā me kēia, he mea pono inā pili ia i kāna mau pahuhopu, a he mea ʻino inā kūʻē ia iā lākou).
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