5 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e loaʻa ai ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho

5 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e loaʻa ai ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho

E ʻike pono kekahi i kekahi

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kou mau ikaika a me kou nāwaliwali, nā ʻano a me nā hemahema e ʻae iā ʻoe e loaʻa i ka mea maikaʻi loa mai ia mau mea a e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe iho. ʻO kēia ka hana mua i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho. No laila, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kou ikaika i nā kūlana o kēlā me kēia lā: ma ke keʻena, me nā hoaaloha a i ʻole ka ʻohana. Ma ka hoʻoholo ʻana i kāu mau wahi nāwaliwali, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou. ʻO ka nānā ʻana i kou ʻano, kāu mau hoʻokō, e kōkua iā ʻoe e manaʻo kūʻokoʻa a hilinaʻi. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka ʻike pono iā ʻoe e ʻae i ka poʻe a puni ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe a mahalo nui iā ʻoe.

E ʻae i ka hoʻomaikaʻi

Ma ka hana, ma ka home, me nā hoaaloha, hoʻokō ʻoe i ka nui o nā hana i kēlā me kēia lā e hiki ke noi i nā hoʻomaikaʻi mai ka poʻe a puni ʻoe. E aʻo e loaʻa a mahalo i kēia manaʻo maikaʻi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kēia mau mea i mea paipai e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kūkulu i luna e ʻike i kou ikaika nui. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana iā ia e hoʻonui i kou manaʻo ponoʻī.

Mālama i kou kūlana

Hōʻike ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho ma o ko mākou kūlana a me kā mākou nānā. E hoʻopaʻa pololei i kou kua, nā poʻohiwi i luna, ke poʻo i luna, a hele me ka ʻanuʻu hilinaʻi. E ʻakaʻaka hou aku, e huki ʻia nā kānaka iā ʻoe. ʻO ka poʻe me ka hilinaʻi kiʻekiʻe iā lākou iho e komo i kēia mau ʻano hana waha ʻole. E lawe i ka hoʻoikaika mai iā lākou. I mea e ʻoluʻolu ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā iā ʻoe iho i ke aniani e ʻike i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kou mau ʻano like ʻole a me nā hiʻohiʻona helehelena. 

E hōʻoia iā ʻoe iho!

Ke hele nei ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho ma o ka ʻike ʻana o ke kanaka iā ia iho, akā ma o ka mea a lākou e manaʻoʻiʻo ai i ka manaʻo o kekahi. He mea nui e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe iho me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i kāu mau koho, nā waiwai a me nā manaʻo. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e ʻae i ka hoʻohewa kūpono ʻole, ka ʻino a me nā ʻōlelo hōʻeha. Inā hōʻeha kekahi iā ʻoe, ma o kāna mau ʻōlelo a i ʻole ka hana, pono ʻoe e haʻi aku iā ia me ka mahalo. Hele ka manaʻo ponoʻī me ke kānalua ʻole ma o ka assertiveness. 

E hele i laila!

No ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho, e haʻalele i kāu wahi hōʻoluʻolu. Hiki ke wehewehe ʻia kēia ʻāpana he wahi a i ʻole manawa āu e ʻoluʻolu loa ai, kahi āu e loaʻa ai kāu mau mea āpau. ʻO nā mea a pau ma waho o kēia wahi e like me ka mea hou a hiki ke nānā aku i ka weliweli. ʻO ka lawe ʻana i nā luʻi hou, ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i nā poʻe hou, ka hana ʻana i kahi hana ʻokoʻa nā hiʻohiʻona o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana iā ʻoe mai kou wahi hōʻoluʻolu. ʻO ka hoʻololi ʻana i kahi kaiapuni ʻike ʻole a hiki i kēia manawa ke ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻomohala i nā mākau ʻē aʻe a aʻo hou e pili ana iā ʻoe iho. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā ʻanuʻu, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka haʻaheo. 

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