He pēpē, ʻae, ʻaʻole naʻe i lohi!

“Aia i ka poʻe a pau ke ʻike i ka wā e mākaukau ai lākou, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hana ʻole i ka lohi no ka mea ʻaʻole i hāʻawi mau ke ʻano. He 30 koʻu makahiki a ke kali nei mākou i kā mākou pēpē mua. Eia naʻe, ua hoʻoholo mākou e loaʻa i kahi keiki 7 mau makahiki i hala aku nei a loaʻa iā mākou he 10 mau makahiki o ka male ʻana. Pono mākou e hele ma IVF, hoʻomaka wau i kaʻu lua i kēia mahina. “ ʻO Jenny 1981 

"Ua hiki mai koʻu makemake e lilo i makuahine i ʻōpiopio loa (15-16 mau makahiki) a i koʻu loaʻa ʻana i kaʻu kāne, hele mākou i lalo. Ua loaʻa iaʻu kaʻu mau keiki ma 22, 24 a me 26 (28 au i ka mahina aʻe). Makemake au e loaʻa ka hā akā ʻaʻole ka makuakāne (…). ʻAʻole au e noʻonoʻo i ka koho ʻana o nā wahine ʻē aʻe akā he pēpē ma hope o 45, ʻike wau ua lohi iki no ka mea aia kahi pilikia nui no ka makuahine a me ka pēpē a i koʻu hiki ʻana i kēia mau makahiki, ʻo ia koʻu manawa. keiki i makua. He kupunawahine koʻu makuahine ma 45 mau makahiki a ua pilikia wau i ka hānau ʻana i kahi pēpē i ka manawa like me aʻu… Akā i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole mākou e koho, ʻike wau inā pilikia wau i ka lilo ʻana i makuahine, ʻaʻole wau e koho. 'a'ole au i kau palena no'u iho. Hoʻokahi mea maopopo: ʻAʻole loa au e mihi i ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu mau keiki. ” Glouglou1943

"He makuahine wau no ka manawa mua ma 29 makahiki a no ka lua, he 32 mau makahiki. Noʻu, ʻo 40 ka palena kiʻekiʻe. Makemake au e loaʻa i kaʻu mau keiki a pau ma kahi o 36 mau makahiki. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kanaka kūpono e hoʻomaka ai i ʻohana. Lawe mākou i ka manawa ma mua o kā mākou pēpē mua, akā ma ka liʻiliʻi ua mākaukau māua. ” Evepey 

E komo i ka hoopaapaa o na makua elima!

Ma ka Poalua Mei 3, ma Palika, ka lima o ka puke " Kūkākūkā nā mākua “Me ke kumuhana:” ʻO ka hānau ʻana ma 20, 30 a i ʻole 40: aia kahi makahiki maikaʻi e lilo ai i mau mākua? “. No ke kūkākūkā ʻana i kēia kumuhana me ʻoe, ua kono mākou: ʻO Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, psychoanalyst, a me ka Kumu. ʻO Michel Tournaire, Obstetrician-gynecologist a me ka mea mālama mua o ka hale hānai makuahine o Saint-Vincent de Paul ma Paris. Astrid VeillonʻO kā mākou makuahine akua wiwo ʻole, e ʻōlelo ʻia. Inā makemake ʻoe e komo i kēia hālāwai, e kākau inoa ma ke kaomi ʻana ma aneʻi: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription

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